12/6/2008 4:54:24 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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What do you do if you if you met someone and you talk either via phone or im, and everything seems to be going good, no little hints that they're not interested. And they say they want to get tohether but it doen't seem like they want to, what do you do just forge them or keep trying?
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12/6/2008 5:00:32 PM |
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jokster6
Nutley, NJ
age: 46
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move on to someone who shows an interest
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12/6/2008 5:01:56 PM |
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foryoubaby
Seattle, WA
age: 23
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You are doing the right thing, reading between the lines. You cant always trust people to be honest. I say ask her out right, if she seems dodgy then give her the boot. You can totally tell when you have caught someone off guard and they try to cover up.
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12/6/2008 5:11:43 PM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56 online now!
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What do you do if you if you met someone and you talk either via phone or im, and everything seems to be going good, no little hints that they're not interested. And they say they want to get tohether but it doen't seem like they want to, what do you do just forge them or keep trying?
Good question carthun, I find myself in that sitution alot and wonder if they are just being friendly and I'm reading to much into what they have to say. It's hard to get a yes or no answer to the questions that I ask sometimes and when I try reading between the lines it can be confusing.
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12/6/2008 5:16:29 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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You are doing the right thing, reading between the lines. You cant always trust people to be honest. I say ask her out right, if she seems dodgy then give her the boot. You can totally tell when you have caught someone off guard and they try to cover up.
yes u can tell when you have met a cheap young female with kids at 23, smokes and has nothing inbetween her ears.
surely u cant take advice from a small timer like that.
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12/6/2008 5:20:30 PM |
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brennim
Wattsburg, PA
age: 47
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what do u do if you have been dating someone for 3 weeks and he wont invite u 2 his house because he says it's to messy, although he has had plenty of time to clean it and I told him I don't care about a mess.
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12/6/2008 5:22:01 PM |
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mag_eleven
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39 online now!
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yep ..move the hell on..unless ya like to waist time..I dont know..
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12/6/2008 5:33:39 PM |
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lovelyrider
Pelham, NH
age: 47
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You move on hun.
I just had the same thing happen to me this evening. This guy who I've been talking to on the phone from DH, sets up these meets than cancels the last minute. I had to laugh about the whole thing. It's getting old with these game players.
NEXT.
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12/6/2008 5:34:31 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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i asked for advice, not for someone to rag on others advice, if you dont have any dont say anything
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12/6/2008 5:36:55 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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the screwed up part is when we do talk we dont run out of things to say to say to each other its weird almost like she scared or something
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12/6/2008 5:39:13 PM |
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oburi
Norfolk, VA
age: 18
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look man im knw im only 18 and ur probally gonna say what can this kid knw but jst be honest with this girl and tell her how u feel on how shes acting because 9 tme out of 10 most girls react better to honesty then anything else and dont just come out and say it work it into the conversation ur already having with her one night.
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12/6/2008 5:40:31 PM |
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lovelyrider
Pelham, NH
age: 47
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Yes, scared or something to hide. Think about it.
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12/6/2008 5:41:28 PM |
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dare2dream100
Springfield, MO
age: 45
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You have three choices...1)you can trust you instincts and let it go, 2) you can ask out right and let her explain it away, 3)let her explain and read between the lines and figure out what she's really saying. Never!!! ignore red flags or gut instinct. Hind (sp?) sight is 20/20. I have yet to ignore a red flag that doesn't come back to bite me in the butt! JMHO Have a drink and look for answers in the morning!!!
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12/6/2008 5:42:15 PM |
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brennim
Wattsburg, PA
age: 47
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I do like him and enjoy his company but all we have ever done is go out to eat. What is the problem with watching a movie together??????? I'm so confusd. He says he likes spending time with me but at 7pm he says "well thanks for going" WHATEVER!!!!!!!
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12/6/2008 5:42:44 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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oburi that is good advice, the something to hide is what scares me, i can handle scared cause i am to but not to the point to where i am running
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