
johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56
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You have decided to ask someone you have never met out for coffee just to meet them. Is it a social event or a pre-date event? I ask because I'm kind of stupid when it comes to trying to figure out things to say and don't want to blow any chances of an actual date if I like her. What I have notice when I ask a lady at work if I can take them to lunch they away except my invitation because they have know me for years and we are friends just having lunch together.
My propose in asking her for coffee is to meet and see if there is a connection and if so set the ground work for a future date. How to you do keep a women out of the “Can we just be friend’s mood”? Do I have to put her into a romantic mood first by telling her a romantic story? Then ask her for her phone # and tell her I would like to call her and met with her again. How long should I send having coffee with her?
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sharolas

Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
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You have decided to ask someone you have never met out for coffee just to meet them. Is it a social event or a pre-date event? I ask because I'm kind of stupid when it comes to trying to figure out things to say and don't want to blow any chances of an actual date if I like her. What I have notice when I ask a lady at work if I can take them to lunch they away except my invitation because they have know me for years and we are friends just having lunch together.
My propose in asking her for coffee is to meet and see if there is a connection and if so set the ground work for a future date. How to you do keep a women out of the “Can we just be friend’s mood”? Do I have to put her into a romantic mood first by telling her a romantic story? Then ask her for her phone # and tell her I would like to call her and met with her again. How long should I send having coffee with her?
I don't think you would have to put her in a romantic mood by telling her a romantic story. Just be yourself, talk about what you have in common to see if there is any kind of connection and if there is ask her if you could call her sometime and take her out to dinner and a movie. Let her know you are interested in seeing her again. Just be open and honest with each other. Good Luck.
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kitise

Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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drink coffee, let her pay and go home.
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56
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I don't think you would have to put her in a romantic mood by telling her a romantic story. Just be yourself, talk about what you have in common to see if there is any kind of connection and if there is ask her if you could call her sometime and take her out to dinner and a movie. Let her know you are interested in seeing her again. Just be open and honest with each other. Good Luck.
Sharolas, Thank you! You said everything my friends have said to me but there has to be a secret to being successful at setting the stage for a relationship to progress from one level to the next. My theory is that if you are not progressing you are regressing but then again most things happen when we are ready.
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bry11ca

Irving, TX
age: 44
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Have her bail me out and drive me to a 7-11. . . keep the car running. 
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