descartes22
Silver Spring, MD
age: 58
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I'm not looking to jump around from one relationship to another. I was married for 30 years and expected to be married for life. Now I find that after a couple of months with a woman they want you to expess your undying devotion and love. I don't care how physially or emotionally attracted to someone I may be,it is too important a matter to rush into and not be honest. It doesn't matter how old I am. The idea of love is cheapened if you throw the word around easily.
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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descartes22,just some thoughts...
Think I have to agree with you..."The idea of love is cheapened
if you throw the word around easily."
But some women feel they have to be "in love" to "make love" and that may be where their rationale comes from... it may be just an infatuation, but they are vulnerable and cannot see the difference. We sometimes "fall in love" with an illusion, before we really get to know who the person is.
cottage
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descartes22
Silver Spring, MD
age: 58
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Cottage, you are so right? And when you don't live up to that illusion or image they blame you for not being who they thought you were.
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