| 10/15/2007 4:17:39 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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knicknacks
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 37
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I've been dating for a little while now but i guess i'm not giving myself a fair chance to love with my whole heart becuz of this fear of falling in the next relationship trying to beat the fear what do i do?
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| 10/15/2007 4:22:41 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Why date if you are afraid? Makes no sense to me
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| 10/15/2007 4:23:43 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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After being hurt once we all shy from the fear of it happening again, even though it was ten years ago I tend to fear men that need touch me around the shoulders my second husband was an abuser and the head and shoulder area was what he grabbed for first, everyone has fear of being rejected or hurt the same way over again, natural so we tend to hold back on all our true feelings
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| 10/15/2007 4:28:31 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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knicknacks
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 37
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Because i'm not dead just being to picky i guessany suggestions?
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| 10/15/2007 4:28:57 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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True.. but when you hold back.. you are just hurting your chances.. and the one who wishes to get close to you. It would be like spinning your wheels.
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| 10/15/2007 4:29:56 PM |
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knicknacks
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 37
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Now someone understands what i'm talking about...
Its just hard to start over again
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| 10/15/2007 4:31:26 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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knicknacks
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 37
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So ur saying to just go 4 it and don't let fear get in the way of what i could b missing out on? Have you taking that route yet and you don't get a little nervous trying to get involve with someone to erase the thought of a failed love in ur past
[Edited 10/15/2007 4:34:26 PM]
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| 10/15/2007 4:44:08 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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allwayzsparkle
Brockport, NY
age: 28
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It's tough but I agree that sometimes your fears can inadvertently sabotage a new relationship. You have to be ready to let go of the past, let it go. Learn from your mistakes and take it from there. 
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| 10/15/2007 4:50:56 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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knicknacks
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 37
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I will try to let go but sometimes letting go is the toughest and that was 3yrs ago
But I did close that chapter in my love and i'm ready for a new beginng its just been so long since i've been a relationship with anyone.
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| 10/15/2007 4:54:17 PM |
Why do we sometimes fear to b open in a new relationship? |
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qwerty159
Martinsburg, WV
age: 38
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dont let the past predict the future!hey man dudes get scorned also>
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| 10/15/2007 4:56:37 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Change is and can be scarey to alot of us..but, If you don't take some risks in life we have no one to blame for being lonely but ourselves..geez i gotta get out!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/15/2007 5:01:54 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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I have been single since 91 so I don't have that fear or baggage. I lost my fiance' in 04 when a tractor trailer slammed into his truck while avoiding another car. I am not afrad of love. I do have fears of losing someone like I did Jimmie, however
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