12/8/2008 8:07:12 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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dunno what im doing anymore ,i met this wonderfull woman beautifull and all,and fell for her fast and i thought she fell for me too ,but then it got all complicated she started thinking i was after her for money and her home,and then she started telling me i ws being jealous before there was even anyone to be jealous of,then it became possesive,its freakin crazy but shes just such a great person when we kiss its like theres nothing around us like were floating on someother plane of exsistance,and i know she felt the same at least at one point through it all,but then it got ugly.... i dunno what to do i fell for her and dont wanna walk away from something i know could be freakin awsome
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12/8/2008 8:09:24 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 31
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work harder dude..in my view the money is worth it...i can fight for money
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12/8/2008 8:11:22 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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no no no i dont give a shit bout the money i only care about her
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12/8/2008 8:11:49 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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hotcowgirl4u
Ottumwa, IA
age: 47
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work harder dude..in my view the money is worth it...i can fight for money you are a friggin riot
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12/8/2008 8:23:26 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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passionatekisss
Hermitage, TN
age: 38
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Maybe she has walls up, afraid of getting hurt and self sabotaging the relationship thinking insecure thoughts.. Tell her you will back off and give her space to see that you are there for her regardless what she thinks, and see what happens. JMO
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12/8/2008 8:27:02 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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eric63
Douglass, KS
age: 46
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you have to care enough to cut her loose ....
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12/8/2008 8:44:23 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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yea thats kinda what i did ,but it got all messed up i miss her already but i guess like they say if u truly love someone let them go and if it was meant to be theyll come back to u ...that is what they say right?
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12/8/2008 8:55:26 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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cowboyintown
Edmonton, AB
age: 42
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Pardner You have to turn her free if she comes back then maybe she does love you. If she doesn't. hunt her down and just live with the money But honestly just sit down and try talking to her about how you fell, let her know what you feel, put your cards on the table and go for it, good Luck
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12/8/2008 8:59:42 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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thanks for the advice and i did do that and she came back at me with the same feelings but then she kept going back n forth one day head over heals for me the next im playing her to get into her house ,then she started with the i cant afford u ?i never asked anything materalistic from her only her heart
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12/8/2008 9:16:45 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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ladyvirtue123
Magalia, CA
age: 53
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So you're saying that she just invented paranoid ideas that you are a money grubbing house stealing, jealous, possessive person? How could that happen? Think about your conversations with her. YOu must have said something to cause her to say those things to you, right? Are you unemployed?...Red Flags....
[Edited 12/8/2008 9:18:01 PM PST]
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12/8/2008 9:22:17 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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no i have a very good job ..kinda im a butcher i make 15$hr she does have a much better one though ...i told her she makes me feel like a million bucks i mean if she was thinking those things when i said that im sure that didnt come out well ,i didnt mean it in a bad way though
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12/8/2008 9:24:01 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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gary102883
North Fort Myers, FL
age: 25
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i do know that she was down on herself and couldnt understand why id wanna be with her she though i was too good for her or something when it was more like she was too good for me
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12/8/2008 11:06:12 PM |
i dont know what to do |
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futureunknown
Marshfield, WI
age: 40
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She is finding excuses to not be with you. I don't think she is interested in you. You should move on. jmo
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12/9/2008 12:08:32 AM |
i dont know what to do |
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pisces_4
Palmer, AK
age: 28
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yea thats kinda what i did ,but it got all messed up i miss her already but i guess like they say if u truly love someone let them go and if it was meant to be theyll come back to u ...that is what they say right?
I feel your pain and understand the frustration. (sorta in the same boat) But if she really wants you in her life she will reflect on the relationship and maybe things will be different. Just remember you cann't change people, not even for love.
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12/9/2008 3:44:42 AM |
i dont know what to do |
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optimystk
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 48
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gee your other post was quite different from this one about her
SHE DOES NOT
WANT YOU
Sorry bout that
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