10/17/2007 8:21:43 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I am hoping to be able to explain this to make sense to everyone so bear with me....
I have found myself trying to convince my mind and my heart of lies. Like "I'm happy being single and alone." I dont know if facing the truth is just that hard or if I actually think I can make it true. I have found myself doing this a lot. Its not even limited to the matters of the heart. Work, home life, family issues...I have tried it all at one point or another.
Now my big question is how do you get passed that? It never fails that reality shows up and throws a wrench into my well laid out lies...How does one get passed this and start ficousing on the things we want and how to obtain them??
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10/17/2007 8:29:22 AM |
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agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 56
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Repo
Always remember........there's HUGE difference between being alone and being LONELY !!I know married people who are LONELY (how sad). As for the rest of your thread....I don't know if what I'm suggesting will work, but I set goals, and then develop an action plan to achieve them. It keeps me busy until the "lady" comes along.
Warmth,Agent
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10/17/2007 8:31:13 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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Repo,Its Mike all I have to say is trust and pray to the lord.I'm telling you even if you dont believe.There is a bigger picture here and your stress will go away with this problem.Trust me on this.Mike
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10/17/2007 8:35:30 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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It's not really stress Mike. Its more of an issue of being burned a few good times and very leery of putting my hand back into the fire again. Instead of taking the chances and risks I try to believe that I am happier alone!
Agent, yes there is a difference in being alone and lonely. I can deal with being along but every so often the loneliness slithers in and smacks me across the face!!
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10/17/2007 8:42:52 AM |
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agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 56
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Sounds like you're kinda down...."chin up kid" no doubt life has dealt you worse than this.
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10/17/2007 8:44:56 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Its just an off day for me agent!! LOL Got up on the wrong side of the bed or something. Feeling kinda dreary and have way too much time for my mind to think of things. I know its not the end of the world or anything, just one of those days!!
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10/17/2007 8:48:48 AM |
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lostyankee
Theodore, AL
age: 38
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i now exactly what your saying. You can keep yourself busy and say all is great but at the end of the day you always go to bed alone. whu=ich means you always wake up alone. and even if you feel good it would be great to share it. Kids well they grow up and than what?
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10/17/2007 8:50:28 AM |
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agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 56
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Repo,
Not that it'll make you feel any better, but I've had some of those SHIT days where I didn't have the energy or enthusiasm to even shower/dress.....but you said it earlier, you have to "force yourself" out of the quandry.
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10/17/2007 8:52:11 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Agent,
And that is part of the reason I am here. It might take half the day but something will come along to distract me and get me outta this funk!! 
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10/17/2007 8:52:47 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Sounds like Repo you need a hobby that you love..to get you out of the dark hole a person can get it..
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10/17/2007 8:55:35 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I have a couple hobbies and I have a 2 year old, so its not like I have a lot of spare time. EXCEPT at work....LOL Things have taken a bad turn here which leaves me with nothing to do but think!!! That's dangerous!! 
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10/17/2007 8:56:58 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Yes that is dangerous..Talk to us and get it off your chest..We are here for you.
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10/17/2007 8:57:18 AM |
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agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 56
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Well hopefully those of us in the "community" (Dustins word) can be of some support to help you get back to the Repo we've come to adore ??
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10/17/2007 9:01:13 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Ahhh thanks Agent!!
Gawd, You have no idea how dangerous me thinking can really be...That's where some of my bad decisions have come from!! LOL
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10/17/2007 9:02:09 AM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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Repo you are not alone in this feeling we all get it. It is an emptiness in us that can't be filled. Down in the 50+ threads Trublu has a real good thread that is somewhat similar to what your feeling. You might want to read it. So you will know we all go though this thing at different stages of our lives.
They say Life is a b---h and then you die but I say you don't get off that easy.
Hang in there and know we love ya.
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