| 12/20/2008 9:21:26 AM |
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hidden1001
Pittsburgh, PA
34, joined Dec. 2008
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 Black man white woman O.K. But black woman white man tabu. Why, I dont get it.Interracial dating should go both way but it does not.
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| 12/20/2008 9:23:44 AM |
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asher4heart
Jasper, IN
24, joined Sep. 2008
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hun look. ther is a LOT wrong with society. its backwards and hypocritical. Liek gay men are just gay. but women magically just want to be that way to get attention. (not true but thats a pretty big stereo type) the worlds messed up. wut r u gonna do?
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| 12/20/2008 9:32:50 AM |
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hidden1001
Pittsburgh, PA
34, joined Dec. 2008
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 Thats true your right, Its just lately its been bothering me. And i think it needed to be addressed
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| 12/20/2008 9:46:44 AM |
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asher4heart
Jasper, IN
24, joined Sep. 2008
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yeah i get what your saying. its liek the double standard that girls want there perfect guy. guy but then they aren't open to new things. That's y i can't find ne one...no girl will give me half a chance. they see girl nd think ah friend! not boyfriend. cuz they dont see wut goes on in my head. but ne ways now im ranting. the world is full of double standards. people need to just quit living in there holes and open there eyes
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| 12/20/2008 9:54:37 AM |
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soloact59
Albuquerque, NM
55, joined Sep. 2008
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Black women marrying white men is one of the fastest growing groups of interracial marriages according to a study done in 2007 and reported by Dateline. It's not as taboo as you might think. JMO
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| 12/20/2008 9:54:44 AM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
49, joined Apr. 2008
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the sensuality of a black woman is unbelievable. theres only a few that like my species. but, when they do, theyre unbelievably sexy. im usually wary though. most black guys i know, date white women as a conquest, not for love. i worry if some black women do that also. if not, then bring them on. loves to be the marshmallow in the hot chocolate...
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| 12/20/2008 10:01:22 AM |
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shirl1968
Kalamazoo, MI
46, joined Apr. 2008
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the sensuality of a black woman is unbelievable. theres only a few that like my species. but, when they do, theyre unbelievably sexy. im usually wary though. most black guys i know, date white women as a conquest, not for love. i worry if some black women do that also. if not, then bring them on. loves to be the marshmallow in the hot chocolate...
So then you are only lookin for the sensuality in a woman... there are so many other facets of me
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| 12/20/2008 10:07:22 AM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
49, joined Apr. 2008
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not necessarily. ive only dated a couple black women and we werent together long enough to really know each other. kinda gave me the feeling that they were only out to experience my "white man" sensuality. kind of hard to trust someone when thats all i know. im very open and being i was in the army for 6 yrs, ive developed a lot of black friends.
no offense but if you want someone to get to know the real you, you might want to post a picture to start with. you could be anybody.
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| 12/20/2008 10:10:39 AM |
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thebestman
Atlanta, GA
41, joined Dec. 2006
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It's your life, live it the way you want and don't worry about what other people think or say. They will not be in your relationship, pay your bills, etc.
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| 12/20/2008 10:11:25 AM |
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lovinbut
Albert City, IA
36, joined Jul. 2008
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Look I can hide too 
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| 12/20/2008 10:21:49 AM |
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shirl1968
Kalamazoo, MI
46, joined Apr. 2008
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not necessarily. ive only dated a couple black women and we werent together long enough to really know each other. kinda gave me the feeling that they were only out to experience my "white man" sensuality. kind of hard to trust someone when thats all i know. im very open and being i was in the army for 6 yrs, ive developed a lot of black friends.
no offense but if you want someone to get to know the real you, you might want to post a picture to start with. you could be anybody.
i have found on this site that even if someone has a picture they could be anyone... i picture (which i just took down about 3 weeks ago) does not tell you who i am.. i was just asking ......
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| 12/20/2008 10:23:54 AM |
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monaj40
Binghamton, NY
46, joined Sep. 2008
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 OOOHHH,Shut Up About This Shit Already,Who Cares!!! 
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| 12/20/2008 10:42:50 AM |
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punkishone
Yuba City, CA
42, joined Oct. 2008
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Black man white woman O.K. But black woman white man tabu. Why, I dont get it.Interracial dating should go both way but it does not.
I grew up partially in Inglewood california, and even in Inglewood there is a taboo about that, It's really hard to explain, but it's not taboo to me, LOVE knows no skin color.
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| 12/20/2008 10:46:45 AM |
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sweetpotato3
Albion, IN
65, joined Jul. 2008
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It's your life, live it the way you want and don't worry about what other people think or say. They will not be in your relationship, pay your bills, etc.
 Good luck .....
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| 12/20/2008 10:49:48 AM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
64, joined Dec. 2008
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If two people Love and Respect eachother, it doesn't matter a hill of beans to me what color or sex they are. To each his/her own. Hard enough to find someone you are compatible with in this world
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| 12/20/2008 10:54:00 AM |
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wolfi
Albuquerque, NM
49, joined Jan. 2008
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In my experience, it usually shakes down like this:
Most relationships between white women and black men seem to beased on the women wanting to 'get back' at their families - mostly their dads - for something, real or imagined.
She knows deep down in her gut that nothing will give dad a heart attack faster than her going out with a black guy, so that's what she does.
The very, very few relationships between black women and white men I've personally witnessed seem to be based on all the right things.
Why are there so few?
Not sure.
As for me, most places I've lived simply didn't have all that many (or none at all) black ladies, so it's more due to a lack of opportunity rather than anything else.
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| 12/20/2008 10:54:35 AM |
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texas_okie
Laverne, OK
48, joined Aug. 2008
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We all know you want to play it
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| 12/20/2008 11:37:26 AM |
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magtag
East York, ON
48, joined Aug. 2007
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I haven't seen that there is a big difference in numbers personally. My son has three friends at school that are mixed and have black Mom and white Dad. He also has two others that have white Mom and black Dad. I see both all the time.
re: wolfi's post...what if Dad couldn't care less if his daughter brought home a black man, what would be the reason she dated him then? Just think that's a bit of a negative generalization.
edit: spelling
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| 12/20/2008 11:52:39 AM |
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hidden1001
Pittsburgh, PA
34, joined Dec. 2008
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My goodness im glad to see people responding to this. I didnt think it would arouse such reactions as some that I saw.People if this topic dosent interest u dont reply,leaving obscene post are childish i think.However to everyone else your insite is very helpful.Me personally I support any relationship that is true and honest,Being a black woman myself i just wanted to know how others felt.So  keep responding
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| 12/20/2008 12:37:15 PM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
54, joined Mar. 2008
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Black man white woman O.K. But black woman white man tabu. Why, I dont get it.Interracial dating should go both way but it does not.
i truly did not know that, i lived in California for quite a few years and saw alot of black women with white men.
so i am not sure what you are talking about..
i do believe in texas, i see in public more black guys with white girls...
i really do not have an answer to you.
sorry.
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