12/20/2008 10:11:40 AM |
Need help putting together setting for massage tonight |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 51
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I put this thread in Sex and Dating but going to ask question here too. It turns out the guy I am seeing used to be a licensed massage therapist. He stopped it several years ago to do something else. We decided to stay in tonight and be cozy in front of my fireplace, and he suggested a massage to start off the evening. I have never had a boyfriend that was a trained massuese, and very few ever gave me a remotely good massage. So, how can I make the setting optimal? Ideas?
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12/20/2008 10:12:54 AM |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
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Lights down low sitting in front of the fire would sound very nice.
[Edited 12/20/2008 10:16:46 AM]
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12/20/2008 10:13:32 AM |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 51
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What about music? What to wear?
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12/20/2008 10:14:20 AM |
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hogandeb
Richmond, KY
age: 43
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You need a setting to entice all the senses. Fireplace, candles, oils, something soft, and comfortable to lay on.
Good luck!
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12/20/2008 10:16:56 AM |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
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Nice comfortable clothing, nice pair of jeans and a nice blouse and some soft easy listening music.
[Edited 12/20/2008 10:16:28 AM]
[Edited 12/20/2008 10:17:08 AM]
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12/20/2008 10:18:23 AM |
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techicianbrian
Parker, CO
age: 25
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donn't forget classical music
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12/20/2008 10:21:51 AM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48 online now!
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Hey, how did your date go in the hot air balloon? Seems you have some interesting dates with this person. Cool!
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12/20/2008 10:31:27 AM |
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bigcats374
Cedar City, UT
age: 55
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simple finger foods are always a good touch, waffles or pancakes with smokey links and fresh fruits to dip in chocolate sauce.
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12/20/2008 10:33:25 AM |
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steven030463
Warren, OH
age: 45
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Find some Kenny G music that always works
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12/20/2008 10:35:40 AM |
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perfectweather
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 50
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Find some Kenny G music that always works
Sure does, especially if you're getting massaged in an elevator!!!
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12/20/2008 10:45:30 AM |
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smitty4980
Fort White, FL
age: 56
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What about music? What to wear?
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A towel ought to do it.
Smitty
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12/20/2008 12:06:29 PM |
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moraldk325
State College, PA
age: 44 online now!
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As a trained masseuse, he will (or should) know that the surroundings are going to depend on what is intended to be accomplished. Is the goal to be relaxed? Invigorated? Stimulated?
Each of those would require a different sound, scent, lighting, setting, and everything down to the proper color scheme to have maximum effectiveness. The same scent that will invoke relaxation, isn't gonna invoke stimulation.
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12/20/2008 12:45:33 PM |
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ladyeden
Waynesville, MO
age: 48
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Aromatheraphy candles - lavender is calming (besides we gals look best by candlelight)
Fruits, chocolate, cheeses are nice - avoid fish and garlic....
For music, depends on your tastes, rainstorms or seashore, something new agey - whale song, orchastras, jazz, what ever - but relaxing
a light wine and/or flavoured water
Go easy on the makeup - use waterproof msscara
Wet wipes are handy to get oil/lotion off hands
a big beach towl or two or three
a sheet for coverage
a slightly warmer room temp - fire is all the better
Slippers, robe - panties are optional
Roooowarrrrrrr have fun!
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12/20/2008 12:50:50 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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o boy..boredom has reigned in your house.
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12/20/2008 12:57:01 PM |
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kilam83
Philadelphia, PA
age: 26
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Music, lotion, fireplace, dim lights. Make the night worthwhile.
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