10/20/2007 8:58:45 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Here I am, my second grandson is about to be born in 10 hours or so..my first is 18 months old. My estranged daughter and son in law live 10 min from me and I have not been able to be part of my grandsons life thanks to my exs brainwashing my daughter after the divorce in 92.(I have never been told why)
My question is does anyone know about grandparents rights? I talked to an atty briefly and he said its doubtful if you havent built a bond with the child. That just doesnt seem right to me. I have never done anything wrong,I have lived a good life and have always given to others when needed. I could understand if your a child molester or beat your child when they were growing up, but if your a good person how can a child keep you from knowing your grandchildren.
Nancy
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10/20/2007 9:09:53 PM |
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sahri2007
Bronx, NY
age: 38 online now!
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Gawd,
I have no clue about grandparent rights so I cannot comment on that. However, I hope that you continue to seek all possibilities either legally or through personal efforts to establish contact with your grandchildren. I pray all goes well with you.
Sahri
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10/20/2007 9:19:55 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Thank you Sahri..
Here is the last picture I have of my first grandson who is 18 months now
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10/20/2007 9:22:21 PM |
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sahri2007
Bronx, NY
age: 38 online now!
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OMG, those eyes....... any women would kill to buy mascara to have lashes like that........... Wish you all the best
Sahri
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10/20/2007 9:24:45 PM |
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shepherdgal
Flint, MI
age: 55
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Nancy... you might want to check on line
they have on-line support groups that might be able
to help you.
Grandparents' Rights: Encyclopedia of Everyday Law
http://www.enotes.com/everyday-law-encyclopedia/grandparents-rights
So sad that your daughter is being like this. She sure isn't thinking of
the kids is she?
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10/20/2007 9:25:50 PM |
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shepherdgal
Flint, MI
age: 55
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Awww..what a cutie pie!!
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10/20/2007 9:26:55 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Thanks..shep I have tried support groups to no avail but I will check out that link..
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10/20/2007 9:27:15 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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What a sad thing to go through... first your daughter and now with grandchildren... I'm sorry. Have you written a letter to your daughter explaining how you feel and asking for an explanation? (keep a copy for your records). Other thoughts are making an appointment with a family law lawyer for a consultation, getting on your state's website for family law or going to the your state's law library.
Hope all goes well
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10/20/2007 9:29:04 PM |
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iamawoodturner
Mountain Grove, MO
age: 56
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gawd, so sorry to hear about this happening to you..have you tried a google search on wi laws on grandparents rites ? i had to do a search about transporting a body from n.c. to mo. ,,then the laws about the burial,,, i found all that we needed on there,,hope this might help,,if not give me a email and i`ll try to help somehow..ex can sometime be a pain in the @ssprayers are beeing said for you all,
GOD BLESS you & yours,,,,,,,,,,,wade
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10/20/2007 9:29:38 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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...and how sweet is that little pumpkin!
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10/20/2007 9:35:04 PM |
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iamawoodturner
Mountain Grove, MO
age: 56
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wow, babies are GOD sent for sure
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10/20/2007 10:15:55 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61
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Gawd, I know it is hard to wait but most of the time kids do come back to you. I have been through this myself and it does usually happen. The only time I have heard of the law working was when the parents were less than desired. I do wish you well and I would suggest trying to talk to her again.
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10/20/2007 10:59:19 PM |
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renesant
Madison, AL
age: 49
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laws very from state to state i am unfamiliar with codes of your state will research and get back to you qt!
lymi ren
you are looking fine tonight sahri.even with a invisible profile. why do the powers that be tell me i am wrong for you?
cottage your pic reminds of judge who loved to debate,a lady whom i have a lot of respect for.
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10/20/2007 11:27:57 PM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 60
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I can't emagine why anyone wouldn't want the grandmother involved in a childs life. I pitty my daughter if she would try to keep me from my grand daughters, i would break her with attorney fee's.
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10/21/2007 1:20:30 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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My daughter is 30 and I have tried everything..letters, pleas, love, offered counseling for both of us with no avail. She used to have a website that showed video clips of things he did throughout the year and I would check it often so I could see him grow but she has now blocked me from it. She is such a hateful girl..and loves to make it miserable for me, like holding a carrot infront of me then taking it away. I just dont understand why..that is the million dollar question.
I have spent hours reading the wisconsin laws tonight online and it doesnt look like I have a leg to stand on. A parent has the right to raise a child any way they see fit. I also talked to an atty and he was not hopeful.
I was hoping that if I posted this maybe someone would come up with a miracle. Her second son is to be induced today and the thought of not being able to go see him is tearing me up inside.
Thank you all for your support..I love each and every one of you.
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