emtauburn
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Update..still no word on the new baby..I know she has had to have had it by now.
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cmed68
Poquoson, VA
age: 63
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Gawd:
My wife has exactly the same problem you do. This may not be a very Christian like thing to say but I have never dispised a person more than my wife's daughter which is doing the same thing to her mother as yours is doing to you. The little b*tch gave birth two weeks ago and I view this as a tragedy. The reason I view this as a tragedy is never having kids of my own (I wanted them but it never happened) is why should a person who has so much hate in her soul now have a child. As far as I am concerned she is unfit for motherhood and I take pity on that poor innocent baby. My wife's daughter did write her about two weeks before this poor child was born and did say she wanted her to have a realtionship with the baby. She has heard nothing since. I have made it clear that my wife is free to do as she pleases and this is her daughter and grandchild. I have also made it clear that this b*tch is to never be in my presence again. She did not appear at her maternal grandmother's funeral, a woman who never did a mean thing to her, or even send a card. She did not invite her mother to her wedding and I question the judgement of anyone who would marry a person that is so hateful to her own mother. If I encountered a woman like that I would run like hell. This girl is 36 (I will not call her a woman) and was heavily influenced by her maternal grandmother from Utica, New York. I met this pathetic creature on a few occassions who once even stuck her tounge out at me. She has since died. When my mother-in-law died over 300 people came to the funeral. When this other one died only the immediate famiy showed and they could not get any member of the clergy to perform a funeral service.
Gawd, like you my wife has kept the door open, offered to go to counseling, and done her best to get things back on track. My posting is probably no comfort but this is the way I feel. It is my way of letting you know you are not alone and I very much feel your pain.
 
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suzydoll
Cheneyville, LA
age: 62
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Gawd I don't know if this information will help you in any way but you can try. I just retired from Area Agency on Ageing. It is a national organization supported by our government. Every State and County has an agency. Their sole purpose is to assist 55 and older seniors with all types of help including legal help. Also each state has a toll free legal hotline that you might try. (I know Texas provides free legal help through their toll free line)
Another means that you might try is to go through your states department of Human Services, CPS (Child Protective Services)
I can relate to your pain. My ex kidnapped my two youngest sons when we were getting a divorce and I finally found them 8 months later living with their grandmother (his mother) where he had dumped them. He didn't want them but didn't want to pay child support. Long story short (hopefully) After I found them, knew they were safe, I had to make a decision to leave them where they were OR kidnap them again and take them home with me. I decided to leave them, A very, difficult, hard thing to do. My thoughts. How would I be any different from him if I put my own needs ahead of what was best for my two sons. They would have been yanked out of school, Again, torn from their grandmother etc............ Knowing they were safe and being taken care of, I left them and then when we FINALLY got into court I got full custody of them. I have never experienced such pain and frustration being seperated from two beloved sons.
Hang in there Sweetie...... My love and prayers are with you as you face this terriable ordeal. I am available if you need a sister to chat with, just e-mail me.
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emtauburn
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Thank you everyone for you support it really means a lot to me.
I just found out that my grandson was born sometime this morning, I dont have any details other than that. Im really feeling down knowing I will not be allowed to know another precious baby boy.
How your own daughter can have so much hate, I have no idea. But I do know that her dad was the best at mind control and filled her mind with some horrible things that I dont think anyone will ever undo.
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
age: 59
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The only way for you is to find a way to make up with your daughter!! Their is realy no leagal way as Grandparents plain a simple have no rights in court,unless it's a mater of care takeing and their is no one else. I hate games like this and hope you find a way?
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