| 1/19/2009 6:20:02 AM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 50
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I'm new at this and need some advice!! I've been briefly chatting here and there with this guy. he's says he wants to meet one day and the next day he doesn't answer or read my email. twice now i have said i was moving on and he comes back and say he's interested and please don't go anywhere and then says he's having problems with site and not getting my email. claims he doesn't like to play games.... hello!!! what do u girls think is happening??? 
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| 1/19/2009 6:46:10 AM |
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mssojournldy
Indianapolis, IN
age: 68
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Could be that he's telling the truth. Sometimes there are glitches with email. But on the other hand, he could be talking to several women and trying to decide which one to choose to meet. That happens on dating sites. Rarely is a man only communicating with one woman, and vice-versa.
Seems to me that if you are discussing meeting in emails, it's time to talk! I would never meet a man without talking by phone a few times. After I've received a few emails on the site, I give my private email address if I'm interested. Then we progress to phone calls.
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| 1/19/2009 8:05:57 AM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 50
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THANKS FOR RESPONDING TO ME! WE TRIED TO EXCHANGE PHONE NUMBERS BUT SADLY NUMBER IS IN THE EMAILS HE SAYS HE'S NOT GETTING. I REALIZE HE'S SPEAKN WITH OTHERS AS ME TOO. HE SEEMS SINCERE BUT.... WHO KNOWS WHO UR REALLY TALKN TO. I GUESS MY GUT IS TELLIN ME SOMETHING. WANNA BELIEVE PEOPLE ARE HONEST BUT.... GUESS ITS A LESSON LEARNED. 
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| 1/19/2009 12:04:35 PM |
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indie07
Bloomington, IN
age: 38
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He could be telling you the truth but I wouldn't just chat with one guy until something established. It is a dating site and you shouldn't limit yourself anyway. He could end up being one of your best chat friends which I chat with a guy in New Jersey. And he is on my e-mail list when I send e-mails. He tells me that he enjoys reading my emails. We have never talked on the phone or met, but we make each other laugh.
So take it how it is, another friend that you met here.
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| 1/19/2009 12:27:26 PM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 50
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thanks indie07,
i am chatting with several people. most people r great!!! made lots of friends, i guess its the ole rejection factor. I If he wants to chat at some point later i would never be rude to anyone i just am not going out of my way to seek him out. Ur right, lots of good people here!!!
peace 
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| 1/19/2009 2:52:56 PM |
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indie07
Bloomington, IN
age: 38
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Your welcome. And I love your look. Can I steal it?
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| 1/19/2009 6:36:30 PM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 50
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THANKS SWEETIE! YOU MEAN POLLY PIRATE?? THE WORLD COULD USE MORE PIRATES  STEAL AWAY!!
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| 1/24/2009 6:38:13 PM |
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whitelillies
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 54
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I think he's playing games. He's trying to keep you while he keeps looking around, and you are waaaaaaaaay too pretty to be waiting around on any man!
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| 1/24/2009 7:55:30 PM |
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lakc
Houston, TX
age: 48
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Honey.....don't wait on one guy to get it right! Phone number come across. I think he's making excuses while searches the web! Good luck!
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| 1/25/2009 12:56:52 PM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 50
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ur soo right. i not just talkn to him and it was cool if he talkn to others at that point. we were fairly new at chattn. it is the MARRIED part that makes me disgusted.
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