Married Men on a "dating site"

1/20/2009 6:42:34 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
kristina41 Terre Haute, IN age: 42	Wow...where do I even begin...first of all I would like to know if anyone thinks this ok ? to be married and be on here looking to "hookup" I had been talking to a male...I am so mad right now I cant even consider him to be a "MAN" after talking and sending msgs back and forth etc...he comes out and says he is married with 4 kids and grandkids etc...and asks me what is wrong with trying to fullfull his sexual side with someone else..due to the fact that his wife wont no more.. I am sitting here with all kinds of reasons why it is wrong...but none are really worth my time to reply back to him with a response...I think some things are just better left alone... But anyway...would love to hear from everyone else on this subject and what they think...Take care and good luck to all....I am seriously beginning to wonder if there are ANY REAL MEN left out there.....
1/20/2009 6:45:26 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
perfectweather Saint Petersburg, FL age: 51	I think it is disgusting, deceitful and just plain shit. What a crock to look for unsuspecting women and then claim their wife is of no use to them. Tell him to shove his Viagra up his nose. JMHO.
1/20/2009 6:45:54 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
ladymarmalade Punxsutawney, PA age: 41	Yes, been there...had one married guy contact me..he used an old pic about 10-20 years old and was persistant to meet discreetly...he harrassed for a while, but eventually gave up...don't think he's even on here anymore...it's been months ago... Dont' let it get to you, just brush it off and keep going....there are lots of great single guys out there...most are on forums daily, so check it out occasionally...they may act stubborn or not interested,but they are softies like the rest...
1/20/2009 6:48:40 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
msbevzie Oregon, OH age: 45 online now!	They are sick, and I don't care about their bullshit... my wife hates sex...I wanna see if I still have it in me...my wife is a b*tch, and I'm here for the kids...who the hell is he fooling, only himself. I tell them get on with your life or get a divorce I don't really want to hear your crap!
1/20/2009 6:49:11 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
foxy_woman_49 Omaha, NE age: 51	yep I hear ya there are married women as well here Any place you go to meet ppl there will always be those "married" ones who are fooling around .. Isnt it so much fun? When they say whats wrong ..tell him Go F yourself Instead of working on their marriages they cheat..dumb F'ers!
1/20/2009 6:54:10 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
noredneckhere Knoxville, TN age: 49	You were doing fine, and then.. Ya just had to throw in that little "Real Men" thing. Apparently there are no "Real Men" interested in you. Only married ones. What does that say about you ?
1/20/2009 6:54:51 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
danerann Las Cruces, NM age: 38	You sound so surprised...... Sorry you had that experience, just really good you didn't invest any more time or energy into it.
1/20/2009 7:00:55 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
wolfi Albuquerque, NM age: 44 online now!	Yup, lotsa married women everywhere. Online, at the bar, supermarket, dance lessons, etc. etc. etc. etc. pp. A few are upfront about it, most lie. Get used to it.
1/20/2009 7:25:33 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
linkitty Bozeman, MT age: 53	Kristina, just be glad you found out before you got involved with his sorry a--! What a deceiver! I haven't really met anyone yet, but I've been emailing and sending winks. Just keep looking, your man is out there and he's looking for you too! That's how I have to look at it otherwise I'd just give up. It's a disgrace to think anyone would use a site to cheat, men or women but that seems to be open season so to speak. All of us just have to be careful.
1/20/2009 7:26:34 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
pike_co_rfd Pittsfield, IL age: 54	I for one have seen more than my share of these guys on the dating sites. Exspecialy when they list single, then say they are married and looking so to speak. Always the little wife is not doing her job, and then they ask if I can blaim them for looking... I love it when they ask, cause then they get an ear full of why it's wrong. I usualy start out by asking if their wedding vows meant anything, then go from there. Last winter at this time, I was seing a great guy or so I thought. We actulay had gotten a place together, and was moving in when I found out he was still married, very much with his wife, but worked out fo town, and had me as a sidekick during the week, her on the weekends. Yep, I was so pissed, I could have rung his neck. Then come to find out he also had another girlfriend he was seeing on his "day off" in another town... Three of us at once... Now if that's not a player, I don't know what is....
1/20/2009 7:27:15 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
beanz991 Houston, TX age: 42	Is it any worse than crazy psycho women being on a dating site? [Edited 1/20/2009 7:27:27 AM PST]
1/20/2009 7:35:27 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
pike_co_rfd Pittsfield, IL age: 54	Quote from beanz991: Is it any worse than crazy psycho women being on a dating site? Lots of crazey phsyco men just as well here....
1/20/2009 8:20:46 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
danerann Las Cruces, NM age: 38	Quote from beanz991: Is it any worse than crazy psycho women being on a dating site? I'd say it's just about the same.
1/20/2009 8:37:05 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
countrysweet677 Waverly, NY age: 48	i have 2 that just doesn't seem to understand i want nothing to do with them because their married don't want anything to do with them anyways but they were upfront from the start that their married and miserable,one wants to take me to dinner as soon as he comes in from off shore, the other one lives in the next town over that one scares me he's a shadowman, i read their emails and don't reply they still don't get the hint,i've never blocked anyone if they email me again i'm going to.there are plenty of other sites for the married ones to cheat on their spouses leave us singles alone,
1/20/2009 8:42:36 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
sweetpotato3 Albion, IN age: 59	Hang in there. There are some good people mixed in with all the cheaters, nut cases and the very strange...
1/20/2009 8:43:17 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
beanz991 Houston, TX age: 42	Quote from pike_co_rfd: Lots of crazey phsyco men just as well here.... ...and married women...
1/20/2009 8:47:15 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
k_tothe_c Las Vegas, NV age: 39	WAAAAAAAAY more married women on dating sites!
1/20/2009 8:47:15 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
binderdundat New Orleans, LA age: 47 online now!	There are all kinds. Today I got propositioned by a young (28) married WOMAN looking for a liason so her husband can watch. I responded with... "What did you possibly see in my profile that would make you think I'd be interested in something like that??? Go troll somewhere else!" And then I proceeded to block her. I don't CARE what her response is. Married men get the same response. I have no use for them.
1/20/2009 9:11:18 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
countrycharmer Litchfield, OH age: 44	Ya, married ppl on this site along with the players and those in a relationship. I guess for some, dating and relationships are just a number (the more the better or something) which appears self gratifying. My 2-cents
1/20/2009 10:53:22 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
tallangel64 Lincolnton, NC age: 45	It's wrong; no matter the circumstances. I don't believe a person should stay in an unhappy marriage once the effort has been put into the marriage to make things better. However, you need to have the courage to officially leave the relationship before you move on to something else. Men and women both put on that "poor me" atttitude of "I'm in a bad marriage." Boo, Hoo...do something honest about it. Why would I want to get involved with a sneaky, lying, cheat????
1/20/2009 10:58:24 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	Perhaps he is in a marriage that is great, aside from sex, and his wife knows and approves. In which case, you are either interested or not, but have no right to judge.
1/20/2009 2:13:57 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
vanwinkle Graham, TX age: 57	Quote from moraldk325: Perhaps he is in a marriage that is great, aside from sex, and his wife knows and approves. In which case, you are either interested or not, but have no right to judge. Bullshit!
1/20/2009 2:23:22 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	Quote from vanwinkle: Bullshit! So...are you saying that such things do not happen?
1/20/2009 2:26:09 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
122750again Sioux Falls, SD age: 58	Quote from perfectweather: I think it is disgusting, deceitful and just plain shit. What a crock to look for unsuspecting women and then claim their wife is of no use to them. Tell him to shove his Viagra up his nose. JMHO. And tell him to go find a Hooker at that The nerve of some people just amazes me
1/20/2009 2:58:51 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
vanwinkle Graham, TX age: 57	Quote from moraldk325: So...are you saying that such things do not happen? Just because something happens, that doesn't make it right. You should get the dictionary---look up commitment. In my book, you are married, or you're not. Any married person looking to "hook up" is a liar and a cheat.
1/20/2009 3:21:34 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
msbevzie Oregon, OH age: 45 online now!	I just thought of something maybe the married men are on here looking for single girls so they can arrange a threesome with another and their wives?
1/20/2009 3:37:25 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	Quote from vanwinkle: Just because something happens, that doesn't make it right. You should get the dictionary---look up commitment. In my book, you are married, or you're not. Any married person looking to "hook up" is a liar and a cheat. How about you define what works in YOUR marriage, and allow others the same courtesy? You can be very "committed" and still be in a non-monogamous relationship. And many people in monogamous relationships OUGHT to be committed. We don't know all the facts in this case. It is heresay until we do.
1/20/2009 3:38:09 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
cinthianna Goshen, IN age: 29	Quote from msbevzie: I just thought of something maybe the married men are on here looking for single girls so they can arrange a threesome with another and their wives? LMAO---I wonder how many of them actually are.... On topic, if they are married and their other half is ok with them looking for sex outside the marriage. I couldn't care less,...I do believe that is between them... but, on that subject, they might get more willing participants if that was what they started off with. Instead of "i'm just staying here for the kids" and all the other crap they use to try to play it off. Or, not even bothering to own up to it,... If that was the case their profile should read:Heads up, "I'm married and my wife is perfectly content with me banging you"....then the single folks would have the easy option of yea'ing or nay'ing before any emotions are involved.
1/20/2009 3:46:27 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
mindovermatter6 Madison Heights, MI age: 47	Yep perfect weather, it's plain shit!
1/20/2009 3:46:57 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 52
1/20/2009 3:50:50 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
mindovermatter6 Madison Heights, MI age: 47	Quote from moraldk325: Perhaps he is in a marriage that is great, aside from sex, and his wife knows and approves. In which case, you are either interested or not, but have no right to judge. I knew a women who was dating a married man for twenty years, with a sick wife who couldn't perform. And she allowed her husband to go out with my friend. But she never past, and he and his wife retired in another state. My be bull sh-t but it does happen. Rageena Matti
1/20/2009 3:52:49 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
vanwinkle Graham, TX age: 57	Quote from moraldk325: How about you define what works in YOUR marriage, and allow others the same courtesy? You can be very "committed" and still be in a non-monogamous relationship. And many people in monogamous relationships OUGHT to be committed. We don't know all the facts in this case. It is heresay until we do. I'm not married. If I was, I wouldn't be here.
1/20/2009 3:55:26 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
tallangel64 Lincolnton, NC age: 45	Quote from vanwinkle: I'm not married. If I was, I wouldn't be here. Great answer
1/20/2009 3:56:40 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	Quote from vanwinkle: I'm not married. If I was, I wouldn't be here. And I am sure people respect your right to feel that way. Just as you should respect their right to do as they want in THEIR relationships.
1/20/2009 4:21:08 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
saphyrefaery75 Greenbrier, TN age: 33	Quote from moraldk325: And I am sure people respect your right to feel that way. Just as you should respect their right to do as they want in THEIR relationships. Very nicely put morald. You took my words from me. There are many different types of people and marriages. Some have open marriages and are in agreement to having relations outside of each other. I also agree with morald in what he said when stating that we dont know the whole story here. Not sure if this is that case or not. I will say to the OP that not all men are like that and just keep looking. There are many great men out there/here that should suit you. Don't give up.
1/20/2009 4:34:48 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
canon55 Port Huron, MI age: 55	dont kid yourself there married women here too,, lieing and sneekin around.
1/20/2009 4:59:53 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
saphyrefaery75 Greenbrier, TN age: 33	Quote from canon55: dont kid yourself there married women here too,, lieing and sneekin around. Yes I agree with that as well but I was only giving advice to the OP who happens to be female. Feel free to change "men" to "women" in my post if that helps you feel any better. I was also referring to marriages in which there are both men and women so again what you say would be true so I know it goes both ways.
1/20/2009 5:13:08 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
miray1347 Bowling Green, KY age: 37	Quote from perfectweather: I think it is disgusting, deceitful and just plain shit. What a crock to look for unsuspecting women and then claim their wife is of no use to them. Tell him to shove his Viagra up his nose. JMHO.
1/20/2009 5:15:01 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
lkn4honey Las Vegas, NV age: 30	i feel sorry for any chick that hooks up w/ one.
1/20/2009 7:35:51 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
namers3 Minneapolis, MN age: 40	Well, I am married & I am on the site BUT we have been separated for almost a year now & we will eventually be getting divorced. I am up front about it to everyone I meet, so I wouldnt say EVERYONE married is being deceteful!! Sorry that happened to you, like they said above just blow it off & move forward.....but be careful!!!
1/20/2009 8:29:48 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
cat40 East Sandwich, MA age: 42	Just curius, why men would ever apply to my site when I say no married men.. There scum... Last married man who sent me a message, I said let your wife go on our date and see where it leads.. No message wonder why... Don't get it... SHAME ON YOU ALL!!! Guess married vows mean nothing know...
1/20/2009 9:09:33 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
zipperlynn Porterville, CA age: 39	I'm on my soapbox tonight... pre-apologize to anyone who has read my posts. 4 guys in the last few months!!! And, two told me upfront they were married! One, I even met his wife and he still didn't stop! Two guys at least tried to hide it. One was from a different dating site. Needless to say when I called during his non-specified calling time, and his wife picked up the phone, we had a very nice chat. ...I have a lot of pet peeves tonight...
1/20/2009 9:39:27 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
valeigh Tujunga, CA age: 50	i have talked to a few married guys, i didnt now they were,till i got a phone call from a couple of wifes..they said my number was found in his pocket or cell phone, and i tell her (the wife)( everyyyy thing i know, i hate liars and cheaters.., [Edited 1/20/2009 9:40:15 PM PST]
1/21/2009 12:43:16 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
slowhand31 South Pittsburg, TN age: 31	Quote from kristina41: Wow...where do I even begin...first of all I would like to know if anyone thinks this ok ? to be married and be on here looking to "hookup" I had been talking to a male...I am so mad right now I cant even consider him to be a "MAN" after talking and sending msgs back and forth etc...he comes out and says he is married with 4 kids and grandkids etc...and asks me what is wrong with trying to fullfull his sexual side with someone else..due to the fact that his wife wont no more.. I am sitting here with all kinds of reasons why it is wrong...but none are really worth my time to reply back to him with a response...I think some things are just better left alone... But anyway...would love to hear from everyone else on this subject and what they think...Take care and good luck to all....I am seriously beginning to wonder if there are ANY REAL MEN left out there..... He is a self-center, arrogant piece of dogshit. And no ma'am, he isn't a man at all. Just an overgrown "boy" at best... though I feel the DOGSHIT title fits. [Edited 1/21/2009 12:46:10 AM PST]
1/21/2009 12:45:16 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
carthun18 Saint Paul, MN age: 28	cheating is cheating there is no excuse
1/21/2009 12:45:42 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
slowhand31 South Pittsburg, TN age: 31	Also, it was touched on that there are also married "women" on this site doing the same thing, more or less, in an ealier comment. The same goes in their case as well... though the terms I would use to describe THEM might be rather offensive to those women, true ladies mind you, who might read this thread.
1/21/2009 3:37:21 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
sharolas Elk Grove Village, IL age: 39	I think if they are married and on a dating site it's not right at all. Sound like they have nothing better to do. Just move on and forget the married ones. There are plenty of single one out there, it just takes time to find.
1/21/2009 4:31:37 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
nc_male Denver, NC age: 59	yes i agree that it is not right to date a married man but i was seeing a lady that wanted to get serious and things were going great until one day she told me she was married and just needed sex because her hubby did not like to do it any more and that broke my heart when i found out it hurt real bad so now i really look into things more.
1/21/2009 7:31:47 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
pirana01 Navarre, FL age: 50	Quote from beanz991: Is it any worse than crazy psycho women being on a dating site? Not as long as we are single
1/21/2009 8:21:18 AM	Married Men on a "dating site"
corvairkid Tulsa, OK age: 46	well i have to say that i've been married since i have entered this site.and on the same token i have also been seperated for 2 years.and throughout miles and miles of red tape of a big business we both owned that i can finally say that i can now file for a divorce in Feb. , with now intentions of turning back after 28 years.i have been looking for a good honest loving woman and apparently have hardly found any or there last man must had really jack there head all up.i have always been up front to all that i have spoken to and only a select few have listened.all you have to do is read my profile and see for yourselves ladies.and i am sure that all your lives are not perfect either.sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say where did it all go wrong and just move on. i really don't think anyone wants to be alone in life and others have a hard time stepping away from their miserable life just because they can't stand the thought of being alone.so does this still make me a bad person ????
1/21/2009 3:52:46 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
hunt4fun14 Fostoria, OH age: 55	Well, I am separated from my husband and have been for four years, but he never legally filed...he got on websites as soon as he left me and wanted to meet others. I found all his passwords and the sites he was on when he let me stay at his apt. while he supposedly took his one son to the movies to spend time with him alone. He has four kids....He let me stay so I was on the pc, opened the drawer and found all these women's ID numbers...boy was I upset. Then I went into his single site and he had written the same thing to 30 women...how they were all beautiful and he had a webcam! Well, I didn't keep my mouth shut when he got home because I was just so upset and I told him he had to get his profile off or else! He did supposedly on those, and we tried counseling, but he didn't finish that...we went to marriage class at church and he wouldn't do his homework...over the years he started up again and I found his profile online...stating he was divorced and looking for a long term relationship....OH WAS I HURT! I wanted to tell all his contacts that he IS married and he IS lying to them as well as me...I did talk to some and it was when he decided we were broke up this summer when I thought we were getting along fine....things happened in his household and he wasn't seeing me as often, so all I did was say I couldn't be married to a man I didn't ever see...(once or twice a month he saw me)...and that we had to see each other more...thinking he was agreeing to that...however, he started talking online and on the phone and texting women and I used his phone so I found it out...he asked a 26 yr. old for coffee after he fixed her car...he agreed to not do it again...but recently after staying at his house for a week, he emailed someone and gave out his number...luckily it was just an ad for the singles website and never went through...but you can see how I can grieve that my husband has a separate life when I am not there and the deceit that he shows all of us is so unfair. I have to put in a profile to see what one's he is on...and I don't like that either, but I usually hide it from others...do I stay with him or leave him for good? I don't know. I love him very much and he has been better to me, but is that to hide the fact that he is talking to someone else when I am not around? I hate not living with him, but he won't let me. We are trying to work things out, but is he really trying? Luckily I just got my job back and will be making money soon...have been literally starving at times for lack of food, and he doesn't seem to care to make sure I have food in my belly when I am not with him....Any advice? How can we warn other women of the potential dangers of married men lying? And if you have been talking to someone would you listen to a wife and trust in her and NOT tell the husband he was found out, but just act like you don't like him and stay away? To keep her secret of knowing a secret? Would you tell him and yell at him and get the wife in trouble? I would like a reply if anyone reads this, because I am not sure how to handle this anymore. Everytime I think we are making progress, he is doing something behind my back....Thanks.
1/21/2009 3:56:43 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
leftyl8 Waverly, NY age: 44	holy hell, wake up....hes a cheater!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1/21/2009 4:07:25 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
wiilnotgiveup Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 44	if it were posible to delete every married /hooked up person on here, the walls would echo when we typed from all the room we would have , to date like this site is ment for. if there are as many men here married as women , its probaly 1 in 3 sucks dont it,block them ,flag them, annoy them, maybe they will go away.
1/21/2009 4:12:04 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
pike_co_rfd Pittsfield, IL age: 54	Quote from beanz991: ...and married women... Guess we're even....... wiil...you're probably right.... If you took all the players and the fakes off this site, the poor site wouldn't have very many members at all. And it makes it hard for all of us to learn to trust anyone when there is so many fakes, liars and players lurking about....... [Edited 1/21/2009 4:14:52 PM PST]
1/21/2009 4:48:37 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
saphyrefaery75 Greenbrier, TN age: 33	Just to add to what I said earlier....I want to make it clear that I would not be the type of woman to want to swing. I respect the ones that make that choice but it is not a choice I would make.
1/21/2009 5:10:51 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 52
1/21/2009 5:25:36 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	Quote from saphyrefaery75: Just to add to what I said earlier....I want to make it clear that I would not be the type of woman to want to swing. I respect the ones that make that choice but it is not a choice I would make. Don't worry. The other woman are responding because they want to create the illusion that they are proper and lady-like...and the guys are just kissing their asses in the hopes of getting laid. Get used to it. You'll see it in a lot of threads.
1/21/2009 5:42:47 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
nab5055 Medford, NJ age: 44	I have met many married men too. I know it goes both ways. Why stay married and be so unhappy. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
1/21/2009 5:43:17 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
khrystaleroxx Haltom City, TX age: 39	Married men.....go away!!!!
1/21/2009 6:24:46 PM	Married Men on a "dating site"
vanwinkle Graham, TX age: 57	Quote from moraldk325: Don't worry. The other woman are responding because they want to create the illusion that they are proper and lady-like...and the guys are just kissing their asses in the hopes of getting laid. Get used to it. You'll see it in a lot of threads. M, are your eyes brown? they should be---you're so full of shit.

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