10/25/2007 9:42:37 PM |
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kingshaz
Lorain, OH
age: 30
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I never understood this...
Some women always seem to go after the same guy who screwed them over the first 100 times ....then its like they become corrupt from having thier heart broken so many times (same with guys)...you can only take so much of a beatin before your like "screw relationships"...
I just wanna say to all the "good" ladies left otu there...keep your head up and dont shoot down every guy because....believe it or not....there are some good ones left out there...not every guy should suffer for previous guys mistakes....
holla back
*shaz*
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10/25/2007 9:51:57 PM |
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shycowgirl
Oak Run, CA
age: 49
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10/25/2007 9:57:42 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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This thread has been covered already but some women don't go for "bad boys". The "bad boys" deceive us into thinking they are genuine. Women do this also to men. Lots of players out there.
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10/25/2007 10:12:30 PM |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41 online now!
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The most dangerous part of remaining in or chasing bad relationships is that you BECOME the very thing you HATE. The roles reverse and you become an oppressive individual yourself.
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10/25/2007 10:19:17 PM |
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triplethreat3
Three Rivers, MI
age: 37 online now!
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Some of us don't let the role reverse but still find the one that chet on you even though you say and try to find the ones that don't.
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10/26/2007 12:13:11 AM |
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torachi
Ocala, FL
age: 20
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We also tend to go for the "bad boys" because it's something different, something dangerous... something unknown, and it tends to, oddly enough, fascinate us. I just recently got out of a 6 year relationship with the biggest ass I've ever met in all of Florida... he never abused me physically, but mentally, he almost ruined me. I don't even know if he was doing it subconsciously or not. But regardless, I still stayed with him. Because I'm heavyset, I believed that no one else would be interested in me. He also had this dark, bad boy air to him that just flat-out intrigued me, so I stayed.
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10/26/2007 3:35:25 AM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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Pretty much every topic here now has been covered in the past, but that is ok. I have seen this one resurface enough to really think about it and finally put the thoughts together in my own mind... at least why I seem to choose poorly.
Bad boys are like con men, they are practiced and know what it takes to reach the heart of most women. They play what ever card works on THAT particular woman to win heart, sex, her money.. what ever it is he is after. Maybe SOMETIMES they even believe what they pretended to be for a while, too and they actually care for the woman.
When a woman (and I speak for me, since I can't speak for others..I am not them) has been burnt by a bad boy, she becomes more cautious of all things. Often looking too closely at the next relationship not EVER wishing to miss the red flags that were there with that bad one and missed. She knows in her head that all are different and should be treated as such, but she is not so quick to give her heart away the next time. This becomes very irritating for the new one standing before her.
Unfortunatly, it seems the bad boys are great actors and can play most parts with ease.
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10/26/2007 3:37:06 AM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Endlessly! I totally agree! Hugs to you!
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10/26/2007 3:48:35 AM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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Morning Cajun!
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10/26/2007 3:58:19 AM |
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johncjohn
Las Vegas, NV
age: 47
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Bad boys are adventurous, fearless, and fun. The difference of ski diving or watching TV.
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10/26/2007 4:01:43 AM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Morning Steak!
You will have to root extra hard for my Cowboys this week since I wont be able to see the game!
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10/26/2007 4:02:41 AM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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Sometimes that is true John
Hugs back atcha cajun
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10/26/2007 5:16:48 AM |
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majik17
Elk River, MN
age: 20
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It has always been my experience that women are drawn to the "bad boy" because he has the attitude of, "I'm too good for you," or "I don't need you, I can have anything I want."
Typically, this will attract women. A male with this attitude appears as if he is "disqualified" as a potential suitor. Making it easier for a woman to speak with him. It generates a comfort level of, "He is fun to talk to, and he doesn't SEEM to want anything from me."
On top of that, women (and men) are naturally competitive. At this point, they will want to prove that this man who is "playing hard to get" can be won, and can be tamed.
Beyond this initial meeting? Casual, laid back, and a little dangerous is fine; Red flags are not.
When described, I don't think you meant "bad boy", I think you meant bad boyfriend... Or maybe, Player...
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10/26/2007 10:10:01 AM |
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good_girl2007
Easley, SC
age: 20
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I agree with you 100% bc i was that girl one time.. I never had a guy him me, but i do go for the same bad guys over and over again. And then I go back to some of the ones I left in the first place.. But I come to realize there are good guys out there, and all I have to do is wait for him.. So to the girls that date the bad guys like i did or want to dont do it they are no good trust me.. And to the guys that are mean to your girl you might want to stop before something bad happens to you or them.. And it could happen to anybody I have see it done many times..
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10/26/2007 10:28:36 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38 online now!
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I think its plain stupid,some women like drama. I would never change myself.Bad boys screw everyone up,Then I have to hear all the bullshit from my girlfriends how there being treated.I'm personally getting sick of listening about their problems.It's just a bunch of shit!
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