1/22/2009 4:30:46 PM |
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1kweenb
Centreville, VA
age: 51
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hey girls,
how do u tell if someone is married on here. he only talks during work hours never on weekends or evenings. has to run off quickly in middle of conversation (fireman) and
comes back and says he had a call. i get that but i guess something telln me something wrong with this picture. our conversations have been good but sometimes goes to him talkn about sex and i tell him i dont know u that well and he says im just teasn. sounds like he interested in lookn for sex. now today profile deleted all of a sudden. not sure if any of u ladies have been dealin with the same fireman4u or not. im new at this cyber datn and would like some advice!!!
i appreciate any advice for future caution
thanks girls
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1/22/2009 6:09:09 PM |
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sassy_spirit
Lacey, WA
age: 35
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I do believe that he would be married. All classic signs lead to that explanation. Stay away from him. I have never been in contact with him.....but if your gut is telling you something is wrong....trust it. If a man is serious....he will contact you at all hours and not just during work hours. Married men tend to make up a ton of excuses that are, for the most part, believable. Don't believe it.
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1/22/2009 6:41:10 PM |
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76chances
Baker, LA
age: 45
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If he sounds to good to be true he's married. Even if he claims to be divorced. i.e. ringemaster.
If he claims to still love his ex-wife and wants to continue being her best friend, he just as well be classified as not divorced.
If he wants a discreet relationship, he's probably married or stuck in some kind of relationship he doesn't want to get out of.
If he always makes an excuse why he stood you up for a date or phone call, he's probably in an unsatisfying relationship that he either doesn't want to get out of or is too afraid to try. (The only other reason - he's a wimp and is afraid of meeting a woman.)
It don't pay to wait for a guy to get a divorce because once he does decide to leave his wife, he'll be encouraged by his friends to enjoy the single life and date every women he can find. (experience is a mean teacher)
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1/22/2009 6:56:39 PM |
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justacountrygal
Maspeth, NY
age: 37
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no big loss on that one, trust me. His picture is touched up at least... and even after giving him the benefit of 2 dates, I won't be going out with him anymore... not my kind of guy.
he is shorter than my 5'6", and well, let's just say isn't a gentleman.
[Edited 1/22/2009 6:57:28 PM PST]
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1/23/2009 6:55:22 AM |
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justagirl33
Columbia, TN
age: 34
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Got some caveats for these warning signs. I'd say they're true, BUT:
What if the guy works two jobs and can't talk at night?
What if the guy doesn't have a computer at home (not all guys do, ya know)?
What if guy (or girl in this case (ME)) rarely answers the phone because I can't have it with me at work and I don't answer it when I've got company, so I almost always have to call someone back?
Could be the guy was just after sex, wasn't getting any hits, so deleted and went somewhere else.
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1/23/2009 7:28:17 AM |
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beach143
Fayetteville, NC
age: 45
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No 99% of the time its just men wanting sex, point blank. will say anything to get it.
And the worst thing of all is they are bad lovers, sad but so damn true. Just want to make a deposit and leave, shit we women can go to a sperm bank and get that...LOL
So many of the ladies I know get this bull crap. Once in what 10 months to a yr and a half there is a real man that wants us for what we are. (Ladies.) Good luck ok....Beach
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1/23/2009 8:14:28 AM |
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lakc
Houston, TX
age: 48
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They usually do not post a picture. Most will send you a photo after you ask for one. Once they've sent me a photo, I'll ask them why it's not posted on their profile and ask upfront if they are married. I've had men that have told me they are not married but are shy.....which could be the case. I've also had men stop communicating after that point.....they were married.
In any case, trust your gut!
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