How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?

1/28/2009 10:05:50 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Since I see a post about acne on a partners butt in this topic area, how do you feel about flaws on your partner? Flaws like tiger marks (stretch marks), facial scars, burned over large areas. Not only women but men can have them too. Could be acne, scars, anything that's visible. No ones perfect. Would that effect you talking to or staying with someone once you saw it. I alot of people hide these type of things until the relationship gets to being intimate enough to see them naked if it isnt already visible. [Edited 1/28/2009 10:33:03 AM ] Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/28/2009 10:22:46 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
nightwings Gainesville, FL age: 44	My last GF was a 6' tall, slender, stunningly beautiful woman...........BUT she'd been in a REALLY bad auto accident when she was 20. It left her w/ not only facial scars (small, kinda cute actually...I thought they added to her beauty, rather than diminished it.), but also w/ some very large surgery scars on her leg/hip where they had to insert a rod & do reconstruction. She thought it was a HUGE deal when we first became intimate, but eventually realized that, to me, she had such an amazing body that I didn't even notice them. Still wish she didn't have to move across the country for her job......but I doubt her next partner will notice them much either. He'll be to busy thinking what a lucky bastard he is to be w/ her at all.
1/28/2009 10:36:19 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from nightwings: My last GF was a 6' tall, slender, stunningly beautiful woman...........BUT she'd been in a REALLY bad auto accident when she was 20. It left her w/ not only facial scars (small, kinda cute actually...I thought they added to her beauty, rather than diminished it.), but also w/ some very large surgery scars on her leg/hip where they had to insert a rod & do reconstruction. She thought it was a HUGE deal when we first became intimate, but eventually realized that, to me, she had such an amazing body that I didn't even notice them. Still wish she didn't have to move across the country for her job......but I doubt her next partner will notice them much either. He'll be to busy thinking what a lucky bastard he is to be w/ her at all. Wow, that's was good of you to over look that, beside that wasnt her fault of what happen to her, but many people do stress out about it for wanting to have someone perfect who can walk around in a bikini or stress out about their partner seeing those kinds of things. Some people are very shallow when it comes to physical flaws.
1/28/2009 10:38:44 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
lilmissala1957 Hartselle, AL age: 53	I don't have a problem with physical flaws...we all probably have them one way or another. I know I look like a road map from all my surgeries and growing up scars! LOL. Sometimes they can actually amke the person a little sexier.
1/28/2009 10:39:26 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 54	No one is perfect!!!!!
1/28/2009 10:41:52 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from lilmissala1957: I don't have a problem with physical flaws...we all probably have them one way or another. I know I look like a road map from all my surgeries and growing up scars! LOL. Sometimes they can actually amke the person a little sexier. I hope so about that sexy part. plus a lot of women have tiger marks (growing up marks, stretch marks, whatever). Some men are really shallow on that subject, then some arent, they are just happy with having a good woman that it doesnt even matter.
1/28/2009 10:46:10 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
nightwings Gainesville, FL age: 44	Quote from flowerchildsc: but many people do stress out about it for wanting to have someone perfect who can walk around in a bikini ... She was SMOKIN' hot in a bikini, I mean 'boys walking into palm trees' hot...just wore the "skirt" bottom kind to minimize the hip scar. The point being; she was WAY more concerned over it than anybody else was.....especially red-blooded males!
1/28/2009 10:49:44 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from nightwings: She was SMOKIN' hot in a bikini, I mean 'boys walking into palm trees' hot...just wore the "skirt" bottom kind to minimize the hip scar. The point being; she was WAY more concerned over it than anybody else was.....especially red-blooded males! That was funny, the walking into palm tree hot [Edited 1/28/2009 10:50:31 AM ]
1/28/2009 11:02:23 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
nightwings Gainesville, FL age: 44	It was JUST how you picture it too! Swear to God, skinny little white boy, doofy grin on his mug....all that was missing was a Gilligan hat. His noggin sounded like a coconut when it bounced off that tree! BTW ~ You're gorgeous, don't let the boys dog you about your fine self, if they can't see a sister that's got it goin' on........then you need to find a better-quality man. And No, I don't mean me.
1/28/2009 11:09:44 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
cruise427 Los Angeles, CA age: 43	physical flaws really don't bother me... whether it was there from birth or from an accident.. its those brain flaws and charecter flaws, that i seem to have problums with..
1/28/2009 11:11:55 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from nightwings: It was JUST how you picture it too! Swear to God, skinny little white boy, doofy grin on his mug....all that was missing was a Gilligan hat. His noggin sounded like a coconut when it bounced off that tree! BTW ~ You're gorgeous, don't let the boys dog you about your fine self, if they can't see a sister that's got it goin' on........then you need to find a better-quality man. And No, I don't mean me. Thanks, I'll be the first to admit that Im human and have some tiger marks from having my little one but it's never been a problem, All's I ever heard was (so what) about that from a man when he saw them. But probally just like the lady you were talking to, probally bother some of us more than the man. But I have heard some shallow ignorant guys talking about other women and how they want this and that. Plus I've known a few women who had got injured or had operation that were hidden under there clothes that couldnt wear bikini's or hid those areas. [Edited 1/28/2009 11:14:09 AM ]
1/28/2009 12:21:54 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
redfrost23 Marysville, WA age: 25	I think that nobodies perfect and treat people like you want to be treated [Edited 1/28/2009 12:24:33 PM ]
1/28/2009 12:34:12 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
slowdancen Azle, TX age: 58	It should not make a difference
1/28/2009 12:37:11 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
slowhand31 South Pittsburg, TN age: 33	It's true, nobody on earth is perfect (aside from my little girl of course). Physical flaws of any sort are easily overlooked. Whether or noth they are from nature, an accident... whatever. They do not and should not define the person.
1/28/2009 12:42:05 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
b4urgone Sherbrooke, NS age: 42	Doesn't everyone have flaws?..I have many,and they used to really bother me,but I decided,that whoever I'm with will want to be with me for me,and not because they think I have a body like a barbie.Barbie,I am not!
1/28/2009 12:43:34 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 37	Scars turn me on. Means the person has lived through some pain. Experienced some trauma and is still around. I like that in a person.
1/28/2009 12:45:25 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
122750again Sioux Falls, SD age: 60	I'd much rather have a Man with Physical Flaws instead of Mental ones
1/28/2009 1:06:03 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
wiilnotgiveup Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 46	Quote from cruise427: physical flaws really don't bother me... whether it was there from birth or from an accident.. its those brain flaws and charecter flaws, that i seem to have problums with.. AINT THAT THE TRUTH! LMAO i believe by my age ,most people have a scar or two , And a woman's stretch marks aren't the 1st thing you notice, maybe not even the 2nd, It just you learn to look past the little things, and see the big picture.
1/28/2009 1:17:13 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
ike2973 Stockton, CA age: 38	Quote from flowerchildsc: Since I see a post about acne on a partners butt in this topic area, how do you feel about flaws on your partner? Flaws like tiger marks (stretch marks), facial scars, burned over large areas. Not only women but men can have them too. Could be acne, scars, anything that's visible. No ones perfect. Would that effect you talking to or staying with someone once you saw it. I alot of people hide these type of things until the relationship gets to being intimate enough to see them naked if it isnt already visible. Physical flaws never really bother me. If they can't do anything about them and you like the person then you should just deal with them. I had a GF a few years back that was a hot redhead and always wore classy outfits like knee length dresses, business suits but never wore anything "revealing". I found out she was caught up in a high speed chase back in high school with a drunk friend driving that ended in a bad crash that nearly killed her. She got lucky and only had minor cuts to her face so you couldn't tell they were there but the surgeries to fix broken bones and other internal injuries left some bad scars. I happened to notice one on her knee one day and asked about it and she showed me the rest and told me what happened, even had the newspaper clips and pics from the hospital. I always thought she was beautiful with a great body and personality and when she stripped to show me the rest of her scars I looked at them, traced a couple with my fingers and told her she was still hot and had nothing to be ashamed about. They weren't as bad as she acted like they were, as least in my opinion.
1/28/2009 1:29:21 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
kinkycapitalist Atlanta, GA age: 56	I have always been attracted to terribly deformed women. You know, those with large protruding breasts, sunken waist, horribly flat tummies and long legs. Just because they are deformed and so badly flawed doesn't mean that they don't need love too, does it?
1/28/2009 1:39:52 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
chinatown_girl Oyster Bay, NY age: 22	it depends on the person and how they carried themselves. if he was very self conscious about it and paranoid i would be worried that he would be comparing themselves to others and getting jealous. if he was comfortable with himself, id be comfortable with him. and if it happened to someone i loved after we were together, i would let him know that he was still the same person to me.
1/28/2009 1:50:45 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
trueheartedmike Mechanicstown, OH age: 46	if it was a perfect world..we would all be named ken and barbie..lol...beauty is in the eye of the beholder..some ppl are just plainly vain!!..if you choose your partner it should be more than skin deep..because if its not then your as shallow as a layer of skin~!!
1/28/2009 1:53:47 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from trueheartedmike: if it was a perfect world..we would all be named ken and barbie..lol...beauty is in the eye of the beholder..some ppl are just plainly vain!!..if you choose your partner it should be more than skin deep..because if its not then your as shallow as a layer of skin~!!
1/28/2009 2:25:26 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
tcnurse Scottsburg, IN age: 56	Eddy, I am so impressed....flaws give character, strength, and dignity.
1/28/2009 5:14:52 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
clownkilla Sarasota, FL age: 40	I like to date people who are smashed and mangled up a lil bit because they are not as picky.
1/28/2009 5:21:50 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
jc1289 Des Moines, IA age: 31	Since having a physical flaw myself (half a thumb) it might be nice, take the attention away from me, flaws are cool, lets you know they are human
1/28/2009 6:14:54 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
boogeyman09 Springdale, PA age: 26	People shouldn't be so picky about peoples' physical flaws, it's not like they can help it.
1/28/2009 6:21:35 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
lkn4honey Las Vegas, NV age: 32	as long as i can nutt.
1/28/2009 6:24:11 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
waterluvr75 Spring Lake, NJ age: 35	Quote from cruise427: physical flaws really don't bother me... whether it was there from birth or from an accident.. its those brain flaws and charecter flaws, that i seem to have problums with.. HAHAHA yes the brain flaws would be the flaws I would have problems with as well.
1/28/2009 6:48:50 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
lnlass Laguna Niguel, CA age: 53	Most of us are imperfect. Not that I ever attract the nearly physically flawless men anyway, but I frankly feel more comfortable being with a guy that has some imperfections too.
1/28/2009 6:54:16 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
slowdancen Azle, TX age: 58	It is what is on the inside that counts
1/28/2009 7:09:58 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
uglybeast Spokane, WA age: 54	This is a very good question. Since people with physical flaws are self conscious about their flaws it becomes a mental problem as well as a physical one. I know this is not quite the same as two people being attracted to each other, but when I was a child before he died I slept with my grandfather who lost his leg in wwII. I felt sorry he lost his leg and I could feel where it stopped when we slept, but I loved him. If a person can fall in love with someone with any flaws then they should stick and the flaw never be a problem. Then again my grandfather was well adjusted to his missing leg, but if the physical flaw is causing the individual serious mental problems that can be hidden then what would you do? I've stuck twice and only regret the time lost to find something really meaningful..Both ladies are still my friends though and the parting was of mutual respect.
1/28/2009 8:43:37 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
katrinasq Mena, AR age: 42	We're all human and all have flaws. My ex and I were freinds for a while before we got together, and he was born with a pretty severe cleft lip and palette. He had scars on his upper lip and between his lip and nose, and I can honestly say that it was never even a consideration for me. I fell for him before he even kissed me. I will say he has the softest lips ever...I miss that a little.
1/28/2009 10:34:03 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
ladyvirtue123 Magalia, CA age: 55	When you love someone their physical imperfections aren't even visible...at least to me..I don't ever fall for someone for their looks..it's their inner beauty, intelligence and sense of humor that draws me in and captivates me..
1/28/2009 10:46:08 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
stress_test Northport, WA age: 46	Quote from flowerchildsc: Since I see a post about acne on a partners butt in this topic area, how do you feel about flaws on your partner? Flaws like tiger marks (stretch marks), facial scars, burned over large areas. Not only women but men can have them too. Could be acne, scars, anything that's visible. No ones perfect. Would that effect you talking to or staying with someone once you saw it. I alot of people hide these type of things until the relationship gets to being intimate enough to see them naked if it isnt already visible. I am ugly. I had a wreck that fked up my face and no matter what anybody says. It matters. Until the wreck I was popular on DH, since then I have been pretty much ignored... So the answer to your question is easy. Scars and disfigurement takes you out of the picture completely. Fact of life. Learn it and get edit: use** to it. [Edited 1/28/2009 10:48:19 PM ]
1/28/2009 11:40:58 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
luvinlifetou2 Biddeford, ME age: 44	Bullshit Stress!!!!!!!!!! A. You are not ugly. Get over it and quit yer b*tchin...DAMMIT! Seen your after pics, darling, and you got nothing but scars that make you look more like a rugged sexy man...get used to it. I wouldnt run away. B. We all have physical flaws. Some are easily overlooked...some SUCK, I wish I had my perfect flat stomach back. Its not. You gonna run away? EWWWW...she has a tummy!!! Yeah....Im thinking, Not....I think the whole package is pretty damn good, and my imperfections, which I hate, btw, can be easily overlooked for my good points. Perfect, I am not. Perfect for someone? Yes. C. You love someone for their heart and personality, that is what counts. Not their good looks. YES, you are attracted to people for their looks at first, of course. But that comes second to the rest.....its a starting point...for sure.... Anybody who just cares about the perfection of their partner? Is shallow, superficial and basically, needs a trophy wife or husband. D. Awww hell...I got no D. Have to get a nap before shoveling in the am.... My weekend is over... JMO [Edited 1/28/2009 11:42:44 PM ]
1/29/2009 12:00:49 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
lost_in_albany Albany, GA age: 36	It's the mental flaws that disturb me. Besides, who am I to judge? I recently lost a foot so, I am no one to point out faults.
1/29/2009 2:43:18 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
vanir Victoria Australia age: 41	I consider physical flaws part of the intimacy. I must admit I kinda like the idea of having some small part of a woman which nobody else has access to. A private space of ours. Some flaws could be a turn on in this regard, a sense of personal fortune. I'd be walking around with a 24/7 grin.
1/29/2009 3:01:29 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
yourfriendbob Fayette, OH age: 56	Flaws are nature's way of giving us a shot at quality people as we age. When the big cats get old, we hunt for the antelopes that limp. Paul McCartney raised this to a fine art when he married a supermodel with one leg. By the time you reach middle-age, anyone under 45 who hasn't been thrown face first through a windshield or has to ride in the back of the pickup, is "cute."
1/29/2009 3:08:00 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
bigman76 Suncook, NH age: 25	i dont know about the rest of you guys, but i have NO flaws at all well, except my beer gut, and man boobs...oh yea, my short d*ck too but, that may be it
1/29/2009 3:44:11 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
k_tothe_c Las Vegas, NV age: 41
1/29/2009 5:12:55 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
tater066 Wichita, KS age: 44	When you say "Physical Flaws" to me it almost implies that there is a "Physical Perfection", a standard that I don't think anyone could hold muster to. Everyone’s ideas of flaws and perfection are products of their social environment and what they were raised to see as attractive and are as diverse as there are people on the planet. I have had women tell me I was attractive and almost within the same instant be looked down on by another as substandard and trivial at best. We are unique. I look for an intelligent woman who can challenge me philosophically, intellectually and sexually. I do not however consider aesthetics a deal breaker or maker. It's how one thinks about themselves that highlights or hides "Flaws".
1/29/2009 7:37:24 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
usakindatheart Overton, TX age: 50	scars , burns , surgery marks, growing to fast marks,i can deal with, hygiene issues or something he can take care of going to a dentist or dermatologist... yea.. i have an issue with also if weight makes a man look like he is carrying a 10 lb boy and his chest looks like its lactating... yea i have a problem with that too. but that is it... i have dated very short men, men who have angular looking joints, skinny men. big ears, big noses. super big hands... big feet.. some men would definitely win the weirdest toes awards... but these are things they are born with... and i am not making babies... so conformation would not be an issue with me. just want to have fun and enjoy the last years of my life with as little stress as possible [Edited 1/29/2009 7:40:56 AM ]
1/29/2009 7:53:14 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
foxy_woman_49 Omaha, NE age: 52	Quote from tcnurse: Eddy, I am so impressed....flaws give character, strength, and dignity. You said it best tc I was just about to say the same thing Thx
1/29/2009 8:08:27 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
flowerchildsc Anderson, SC age: 32	Quote from tater066: When you say "Physical Flaws" to me it almost implies that there is a "Physical Perfection", a standard that I don't think anyone could hold muster to. Everyone’s ideas of flaws and perfection are products of their social environment and what they were raised to see as attractive and are as diverse as there are people on the planet. I have had women tell me I was attractive and almost within the same instant be looked down on by another as substandard and trivial at best. We are unique. I look for an intelligent woman who can challenge me philosophically, intellectually and sexually. I do not however consider aesthetics a deal breaker or maker. It's how one thinks about themselves that highlights or hides "Flaws". True, not being perfect is the normal.
1/29/2009 4:26:49 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
writermom Ansonia, CT age: 46	Quote from bigman76: i dont know about the rest of you guys, but i have NO flaws at all well, except my beer gut, and man boobs...oh yea, my short d*ck too but, that may be it You are so funny. I love reading your post. I laugh so hard it hurts. [Edited 1/29/2009 4:27:12 PM ]
1/29/2009 4:29:18 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
latentheevening Rock Island, IL age: 51	What she said
1/29/2009 4:29:33 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
sage_way Buenos Aires Argentina age: 49	Quote from stress_test: I am ugly. I had a wreck that f**ked up my face and no matter what anybody says. It matters. . DONT YOU EVEN GO THERE! You are a very handsome man!
1/30/2009 10:59:35 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
wishfullthinker Dayton, OH age: 27	When you lose a loved one due to a break up or what not I think you tend to miss their flaws. Its what made them unique
1/31/2009 7:28:11 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
minii Methuen, MA age: 20	looks only go so far. Personality counts so much that it can actually make a person more beautiful. I wish sometimes that I was more slender, blonde with blue eyes. Then i do look in the mirror and see an attractive young woman with a great heart. =]
1/31/2009 7:29:42 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
kgearly1021 Valdosta, GA age: 50	My last ex had MANY mental flaws!
1/31/2009 7:31:38 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
minii Methuen, MA age: 20	Mental flaws can put a toll on someone. My ex did alot of drugs and that messed him up completely. It came to the point where he was abusive.
1/31/2009 8:15:28 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
crochetbymoi Baltimore, MD age: 40	well if your in a relationship and you love the one that your with..any physical flaws should not matter. We dont fall in love or love someone because of what they look like. There are some of us that have stretch marks, birth marks, etc. But that does not make someone less than a human because of it..SEE..the media has a lot of us thinking we have to look a certain way to be accepted by others and I think it's so shallow. I accept people as they are
1/31/2009 8:37:44 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
hotpink36 Springfield, OR age: 38	everybody has flaws even the most beautiful people have flaws so it wouldn't matter to me because I am far from perfect myself
2/1/2009 11:25:27 PM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
lost_in_albany Albany, GA age: 36	How about people with amputations? Would you consider dating a person with say a missing hand or foot? "I am far from perfect myself" , well Pink, I am not THAT far away! LOL! [Edited 2/1/2009 11:35:20 PM ]
2/2/2009 1:43:25 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
10_2ur_biz Highland, CA age: 45	Everyone has physical flaws and character flaws, no one is perfect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2/2/2009 1:45:25 AM	How do you feel about a partner with physical flaws?
hunter12gauge Bellaire, OH age: 48	Quote from 10_2ur_biz: Everyone has physical flaws and character flaws, no one is perfect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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