| 2/4/2009 12:24:46 PM |
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tasha88
Brighton, MI
age: 20
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Pretty much more than half of the guys that you talk to on here are from other state...that is fine...cuz we are on a f**king dating website...it is almost impossible to find a good person that lives 10 feet from you. So why is it that the girls can grasp this concept but the guys have the hardest time accepting that maybe something will work even with them in another state. I have talked to a few guys on here a lot, like almost every night and now just because I want to talk more seriouse they are like f**k you....your to far away......
  
This is so frustrating.....I have been through so much in my very short life and I just want to get serious with someone and I don't give a f**k where it is if I truely find I like the person!!!!
wow.....ok....i'm done venting........good luck to everyone else since I can't seem to find any luck anywhere....
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| 2/4/2009 12:25:34 PM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 33
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immediate gratification
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| 2/4/2009 12:28:36 PM |
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tasha88
Brighton, MI
age: 20
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so true
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| 2/4/2009 12:36:41 PM |
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mrallright
Memphis, TN
age: 48
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im not undeciced,im looking for love.................andy
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| 2/4/2009 12:37:51 PM |
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tasha88
Brighton, MI
age: 20
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sorry a little to old for my likeing......i know that sounds picky but i guess i am.....
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| 2/4/2009 12:40:15 PM |
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slowhand31
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 31
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sorry a little to old for my likeing......i know that sounds picky but i guess i am.....
He didn't say he was "looking for you", He just replied to the thread.  j/k
I'm not undecided either... I know what I want.
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| 2/4/2009 12:43:05 PM |
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tasha88
Brighton, MI
age: 20
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I know i thought about that right after i posted it. lol.
felt kinda dumb lol.
anyway.........ok so why is it that guys lead us girls on until its time to talk more serious and then they are like oh you live to far...
f**k that. lol.
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| 2/4/2009 12:45:33 PM |
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slowhand31
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 31
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I know i thought about that right after i posted it. lol.
felt kinda dumb lol.
anyway.........ok so why is it that guys lead us girls on until its time to talk more serious and then they are like oh you live to far...
f**k that. lol.
Why do you keep generalizing guys as if every guy does that? Surely, you haven't spoken to every man on this site and have them give the same response?
Maybe it's the age bracket, no offense meant at all... But alot of younger guys really aren't into being seirous. it's a fact. (Note: Not all, but a GREAT deal)
But age really doesn't play the deciding factor... its the individual
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| 2/4/2009 12:49:43 PM |
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cinthianna
Goshen, IN
age: 29
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I'd run like hell if someone immediately thought we were going to, instantly fall in love, hundreds or thousands of miles away, then live happily ever after....
Maybe they are thinking it through a little.....try it..
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| 2/4/2009 12:49:56 PM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48 online now!
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You also have kids.
Good luck with your age bracket.
And pretty hypocritical there, whining about "distance shouldn't matter"
And then making the age comment.
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| 2/4/2009 12:51:13 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Because it's always the GUYS who do all the traveling and spend the money.
duh.
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| 2/4/2009 12:54:18 PM |
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nightwings
Gainesville, FL
age: 42
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Girls tend to romanticize everything in their head, "love conquers all" for them...even if all they have to judge 'love' is online chatting......guys tend to be more pragmatic, it's nice to flirt & I'm sure you're a sweetie, but face it: chatting online & being there everyday in person is WAY differrent.
You want a guy to get 'serious' when you haven't even met & it might be months in between the times when you can see each other? At your age, only the desperate, lame or self-deluded guys are going to prefer than arrangement. Most want a nice girl to go to the movies next weekend....
The real question is "why can't you find a local guy?"
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| 2/4/2009 1:01:54 PM |
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rubythewes
Kennesaw, GA
age: 42
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| 2/4/2009 2:55:03 PM |
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bigslade
O Fallon, IL
age: 30
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I know you are venting, but making a definitive statement like So why is it that the girls can grasp this concept but the guys have the hardest time accepting that maybe something will work even with them in another state gives me a little insight as to why you might be having problems. It's never all guys are this way, or all women are this way. Some people, regardless of gender, do certain things that baffle the minds of the opposite sex.
And like others have said. Why would a young person want to tie themselves up in a long distance relationship when they can likely find some one who is a bit closer, and accessible. The long distance thing is no fun, did it for a year way back in the day, and it was very tough. So I can't fault anybody, male or female for not wanting to jump into a long distance relationship, especially at your age.
But I wish you luck with your search.
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| 2/4/2009 3:55:16 PM |
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outdoorsman13
Lancaster, KY
age: 45
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Pretty much more than half of the guys that you talk to on here are from other state...that is fine...cuz we are on a f**king dating website...it is almost impossible to find a good person that lives 10 feet from you. So why is it that the girls can grasp this concept but the guys have the hardest time accepting that maybe something will work even with them in another state. I have talked to a few guys on here a lot, like almost every night and now just because I want to talk more seriouse they are like f**k you....your to far away......
This is so frustrating.....I have been through so much in my very short life and I just want to get serious with someone and I don't give a f**k where it is if I truely find I like the person!!!!
It has all pretty much been said. Look at the age bracket you are limiting yourself too. Most do not have the money or desire to look for a long distance relationship. Usually at that age, men consider a trip to the bar to pick someone up and the trip to the bed as far as they want to go. Not ALL, but many. And as said before, you are being a bit unrealistic thinking that someone is going to jump at the chance at having a long distance relationship, especially if they have tried it before. I dated someone for nearly two years that was just a two hour drive away. It just doesn't work. While I am more than willing to entertain the idea of a long distance relationship again, I really do not bother to look outside of an hour driving radius simply because if things get serious, someone will have to move and while I may want to, financial realism sets in and it would have to be the lady that would be moving.
And yes, it is a bit hypocritical to whine about distance and then tell someone out of your age bracket that might be interested to go jump in a lake.
Venting being over, good luck with your searches.
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