| 3/2/2009 9:13:11 PM |
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craizmee71
Chicago, IL
age: 23
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Hey everyone I just want to know everyone's input about being "in love" with 2 people... Do you believe that's possible?
...well everything is possible, but is it so possible that you cannot choose who you actually want to be with? That your love for these people are at the same level?
take care everyone! can't wait to hear what everyone has to say.
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| 3/2/2009 9:15:21 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
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You can choose who you want to be with, but I don't think you can be in love with 2 at the same time, you can love 2 but just not be "in love" with both JMO
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| 3/2/2009 9:18:40 PM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
age: 44
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you can and do choose your own fate. those of us in the real world dont let ourselves fall for more than 1 at a time. no offense, but trying to love more than one person is selfish and is only going to end badly for one of the three of you. been there, done that. i learned from my mistakes, as you hopefully will to.
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| 3/2/2009 9:36:45 PM |
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b4urgone
Sherbrooke, NS
age: 41
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You can want 2 people,but in the end,someone will get hurt,and it will probably be you...Good luck...
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| 3/3/2009 6:23:46 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 43
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Love, unlike money is infinite. Meaning your capacity to love has no limit. However, if you're not totally honest with all of the people whom you claim to love then you really don't love them. As a litmus ask yourself if the one's you love would be cool if they were aware of the other person? If they're ok with it then rock on. If not then you have to look deep within yourself and examine what love really means to you. 
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| 3/3/2009 6:26:31 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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YEA just look at the "Bachelor" what a nut case he is that's for sure...now i know why he's been married once, booted by the Bachelorette, now he booted the chick he asked to marry him, and the one he sent home how crazy is she...the guy is NUT all the while that poor little 3 yr old gets to be in the middle of Daddies mess!
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| 3/3/2009 6:57:27 AM |
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justgg07
Reserve, NM
age: 41
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I don't think so if it is 'true love'. If someone loves me and says he loves someone else too, I feel that he is 'in love' with neither. I don't think love is a conscious choice, so there should be no reason to have to make a 'choice'.
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| 3/3/2009 9:22:21 AM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 50
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Hey everyone I just want to know everyone's input about being "in love" with 2 people... Do you believe that's possible?
...well everything is possible, but is it so possible that you cannot choose who you actually want to be with? That your love for these people are at the same level?
take care everyone! can't wait to hear what everyone has to say.
if you can be in love with two then the possibility exists that you can be in love with more than two,how about fourty,but the question would be would you love the fourtieth one the same as the first,
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| 3/3/2009 9:56:29 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 42
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Jesus loved everyone! Praise be! 
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| 3/3/2009 10:00:23 AM |
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wahoo4u2
Nashville, TN
age: 62
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Jesus loved everyone! Praise be!
Shouldn't that be present tense?? Hallelujah ... praise be to Alla ... Amen and Amen!!   
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| 3/3/2009 10:02:32 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 42
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Hmmm not sure....isn't he the holy spirit now..or is that someone else...I was really meaning the earthly dude who hung around with the 12 guys and wh*re.
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| 3/3/2009 10:02:50 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
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I'm a people.
So yes.. I both love myself and can love another.
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| 3/3/2009 10:07:02 AM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 37
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I'm a people.
So yes.. I both love myself and can love another.
Ok that's true but you know she was asking about 2 "loving" 2 men at once.
Love as in friends sure, love as in family sure, love as in this is the only
man for me so much so that I would die for him...NO!
Oh and Eddy, you rocking the new look! Sexy, Sexy, Sexy.
I like the trim too.  
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| 3/3/2009 10:42:19 AM |
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bassguy1966
Pepperell, MA
age: 43
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I think it's entirely possible to have strong feelings for 2 people at the same time, but when you TRULY love someone, that's the only one, and nobody else matters.
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| 3/3/2009 10:46:27 AM |
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singlebeachdude
Charlestown, RI
age: 53
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*goes to ask his six wives how they feel about that*
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| 3/3/2009 10:50:07 AM |
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lukus41
Spring City, PA
age: 46
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well than tell both of them you love someone else!!! if it was me i would get rid of you in a heart beat.. and if you did not tell them you are a rotten bit*h!!!!!
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| 3/3/2009 12:44:25 PM |
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johnterrycjr
Grafton, WV
age: 47
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Hey everyone I just want to know everyone's input about being "in love" with 2 people... Do you believe that's possible?
...well everything is possible, but is it so possible that you cannot choose who you actually want to be with? That your love for these people are at the same level?
take care everyone! can't wait to hear what everyone has to say.
You are a bit young, but still, why on earth would you set yourself up like that?
Yes, anything is possible, but, If the two guys knew what you are saying, the end will hit hard and fast, and if they do know, and are waiting to see who is going to be the winner, they have both lost.
One will always think you still love the other. Not good.
When times go kind of bad, you'll be wondering if you picked the wrong guy, again, not good.
In My Opinion, it's a loosing game. No winners.
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| 3/3/2009 12:51:05 PM |
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rooster64
Kansas City, MO
age: 65
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If you're "in love" with both equally ~ I'd say you'r not "in love" with either..
Is it possable to love two people?? SURE!! God says to love everyone.. If this were NOT possable ~ HE wouldn't have told us to do it.. It's the degree of the love..
One of them should stand out more than the other.. Be patient enough to wait for the right one..
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| 3/3/2009 12:52:19 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
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One must be good looking and the other rich.
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| 3/3/2009 12:54:26 PM |
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countrycharmer
Litchfield, OH
age: 45
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How can you be "in love" with more than one person and be true to them also? Seems like a contradiction to me.
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| 3/3/2009 1:12:29 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 42
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How can you be "in love" with more than one person and be true to them also? Seems like a contradiction to me.
Love and truth are 2 different things.
You can love someone and lie to them.
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| 3/3/2009 1:26:48 PM |
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happylisa
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 43
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I believe that you cannot be in love with 2 people at the same time. But it is also hard to pinpoint when the period of infatuation changes to being in love. So its possible to be infatuated with 2 people at the same time but not in love with them both at the same time. Being in love to me takes time and really getting to know someone. So if you have 2 choices, the only way to know which one is the right one is spending more time with them. Eventually you will know which one you're in love with and which one is just an infatuation.
As in "The Bachelor's" case from last night since someone did mention that show, i think he was infatuated with them both but wasnt in love. I think he was confused. I believe you can only fall in love with someone when you're able to spend time together in reality and not fake reality like in the show. So being in love on a show like that is almost impossible cause its a fake reality. That's not how it is in real life. But if they are gonna make a fake reality show like that, they should also come up with fake endings..lol. I like fairy take endings and that was no fairy tale ending.
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| 3/3/2009 1:35:53 PM |
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countrycharmer
Litchfield, OH
age: 45
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Love and truth are 2 different things.
You can love someone and lie to them.
Ahhh, see that was my problem in combining honesty with the entire love thing again.
So, Op could be in love with 2 different gents, although she may be lieing to each of them?
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| 3/3/2009 1:50:37 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 42
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Ahhh, see that was my problem in combining honesty with the entire love thing again.
So, Op could be in love with 2 different gents, although she may be lieing to each of them?
Sure....There is not a person here who has not lied at some point to a 'partner'
'So you don't mind my mother staying for 2 weeks?'
'No not at all!'
[Edited 3/3/2009 1:51:24 PM PST]
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| 3/3/2009 3:09:59 PM |
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spankdemnky
Florence, MS
age: 54
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Lukus, ole buddy, Please don't sugarcoat it, come right out and tell us exactly how you feel!!!!!!
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| 3/4/2009 7:06:47 AM |
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wahoo4u2
Nashville, TN
age: 62
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Hmmm not sure....isn't he the holy spirit now..or is that someone else...I was really meaning the earthly dude who hung around with the 12 guys and wh*re.
Gotcha. But the song I sang when they dragged me to church every Sunday when I was a kid went Jesus "loves" me. I guess I was just being my normal anal self (that's a trait that serves me well in my job as an editor BTW).
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| 3/4/2009 7:16:43 AM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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Yeah, but better with 5
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