SSBBW, what is w/this?

3/16/2009 7:40:31 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	i normally would never post a thread about weight at all but forgive me, i just have to voice this cuz i just seen it on TV and it applies to women or men as humans, let alone being in relationships. and i know there is a thread out now about BBWs. but forgive me for my naiveness too, but i had never heard of an SSBBW (super size big beautiful woman) and that these women that r this heavy in weight actually enjoy being that heavy. im talking like over 600 pounds they want to be. and the glitcher of this is one woman actually is in a LTR w/a man named as an FA (fat admirer) and states his reason for it. she met him thru the internet cuz she openly admitted doing things men requests sexual and nonsexual for their pleasure (whether its for money or not, i dont know). i guess the point of this how these women can state in being that heavy they enjoy it and dont mind or know the reality of their health and the men that r in LTRs w/them can support that. i have nothing against heavier ppl in life and love. we all deserve love no matter what we look like but there comes a point i think where u have to be VERY CONCERNED that this kind of weight is a tremendous health issue and it has to be an emotional issue also to get to that point and then admit to the world that u LIKE it. i am just in awe when i heard this and i honestly think i couldnt support s/o that was that heavy. its like u r a time bomb ticking! granted there r alot of things that ppl do habit-wise that others disagree w/and could say the same thing, so i hate to be judgemental. and this really goes for a man as well. not just pointing it out to women. i bet there's not even one woman or man in this whole site that is that big. and this woman that i saw wants to be 1000 pounds heavier too. i just dont understand it.but she seems to have found love and s/o that supports her! all i can say is wow! to each their own. its hard enuf to find ppl for a lifelong mate but i just cant imagine these ppl w/these weight issues not having deep emotional problems. why not encourage them to seek a better life w/losing some of the weight? JMO and i truly dont mean to offend anyone. i just find it difficult to reason w/for health issues but i do beleive there can be love still. i mean anorexic women find love too, so why not?that is a health issue in and of itself. but take consideration of friends and family too that r concerned and even tho one might say i dont mind being this heavy, to me, there is no way u can truly love yourself for feeling like that! Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
3/16/2009 7:42:33 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
beanz991 Houston, TX age: 43	Oh Jesus no, the first of the SSBBW threads...100000 to follow now... WHAT HAVE YOU DONE!!!!
3/16/2009 7:47:05 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from beanz991: Oh Jesus no, the first of the SSBBW threads...100000 to follow now... WHAT HAVE YOU DONE!!!! yeah, i know, i probably have opened up a can of worms and really debated about it, but i just couldnt beleive my ears w/what i was hearing. i can only hope these r rare instances. like love is hard enuf to find, so why would s/o put themselves in that position more so for their health and then finding love? is it really love or maybe even a fetish for the ones that love these women? maybe i am way out of my zone.
3/16/2009 9:51:44 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
lilmissala1957 Hartselle, AL age: 53	I personally am a big woman. There is no use trying to explain the reasons for my weight gain the last few years. Nobody ever understands or believes. I am working hard to loose the weight but under strict monitored exercise program. No I am not comfortable being this big and I sure don't want to get bigger! I can't imagine what my life would be like if I were bigger! The thing though alot of people don't understand is yes I am big...yes now we are working to get the weight off...but until the weight comes off I have got to stay positive about myself. Even this big I am still me on the inside. Very loving and caring. If I let myself become negative or let other peoples negative thoughts influence me I am going to be fighting a losing battle.
3/16/2009 10:03:39 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	LILMISS, dont get me wrong. i am not posting this for women to have to explain their weight. like i said i cant imagine anyone that is anywhere near the weight im posting about on this site. i just think these have to be rare instances and i feel for the ones that r sooo heavy but it just came as a shocker that these particular women WANTED to gain more weight and stated proudly they liked it like that. ** and u seem like a nice lady anyhow. so not saying anything about u. its just like anorexic ppl, they find love too but i know women personally that put themselves in that position weight wise and it doesnt look good on them, trust me. its more of an insecurity issue i think and emotional....same thing.
3/16/2009 10:06:02 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
darlinshel Clayton, NC age: 42	Isn't 600 lbs about when people start getting bedridden? Then, the only way they can keep gaining is for someone to help them by bringing them 20 meals and 100 snacks a day. I saw quite a few shows on I think Discovery Health where they are taken to a hospital that specializes in people that are super size - I don't like that term, but don't know what else to call it without getting crude. Maybe that lady wants to keep gaining because she found a man that likes her for her weight and she's afraid she'll lose him if she doesn't? If she's already that heavy, no way can she gain 1000 more. She can't survive that. lilmiss...there are those of us that know health problems and medications can cause weight gain. My weight is because of an injury and medication I was on for it. Now that I'm no longer on the meds, I am slowly but surely losing it through a healthy diet and exercise. I try my best to ignore people saying all are fat because of being lazy. I am just thankful I can walk. edited to add: Mary I also saw on one of those shows that they estimate there are thousands of people bedridden and stuck in their homes that are severely obese. [Edited 3/16/2009 10:24:17 AM ]
3/16/2009 10:24:21 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
ic2beyurs2 Kingman, AZ age: 50	THANKS I just threw up my Lunch do they have to mate in a tank of water just like there mammal counterparts the whales in the ocean? walrus method..........picture what position is required
3/16/2009 10:42:16 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
ge0ge0 Tallahassee, FL age: 44
3/16/2009 10:53:33 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
binderdundat New Orleans, LA age: 49	Do you understand the difference between a social drinker and a hard core alcoholic? That seems an easier concept for some to grasp, but it's the same thing. These people are at the rock bottom of the barrel, and choosing to stay there. Just as hard core alcoholics do. Nobody... NOBODY can tell them anything they don't already know, including that they are slowly killing themselves. They HAVE to figure it out for themselves. If they've got somebody enabling them, it'll take it longer. These people (addicts) suffer from deep rooted problems. Most don't even know that that's why they use. They think it's a "preference"... "I just LIKE to drink, eat, gamble" etc. But what they're really doing is suffocating "feeling". If they self-medicate, then they don't have to face reality. It's sad, but it's their lives. As for the people that "love" them, I believe those people are sick too. Not because they choose to be with someone overweight, but because they choose to be with someone that is on a path of self-destruction. A "normal" mentally healthy person wouldn't make that choice.
3/16/2009 11:08:58 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from ic2beyurs2:THANKS I just threw up my Lunch do they have to mate in a tank of water just like there mammal counterparts the whales in the ocean? walrus method..........picture what position is required ::signlol: all rite, no smart butt answers on here! MATURE REPLIES only... BINDERDUNDAT, I get that. thats what im saying. i guess its sort of like a shock value viewing it from the outside looking in at first...but what a terrible way to live life as in the other addictions u named also!
3/16/2009 12:31:04 PM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
mrandy49 Stone Mountain, GA age: 51	went on my first date recently. she was very attractive, but I'm sure she weighed a little more than me. I'm 5'10", 170'ish, 32" waist. We hit it off on a personality level. Good start, right? She no longer wants to see me, because I don't have "washboard abs". it's all about the pieces parts for some. It's like people want to date Mr or Miss Potatohead
3/16/2009 12:35:15 PM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
msbevzie Oregon, OH age: 47	I believe its a sickness I have watched documentaries of this subject makes me sad BUT once again I think it's a sickness these people have
3/17/2009 6:22:00 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
usr1408 Wallingford, PA age: 38	Quote from binderdundat: Do you understand the difference between a social drinker and a hard core alcoholic? That seems an easier concept for some to grasp, but it's the same thing. These people are at the rock bottom of the barrel, and choosing to stay there. Just as hard core alcoholics do. Nobody... NOBODY can tell them anything they don't already know, including that they are slowly killing themselves. They HAVE to figure it out for themselves. If they've got somebody enabling them, it'll take it longer. These people (addicts) suffer from deep rooted problems. Most don't even know that that's why they use. They think it's a "preference"... "I just LIKE to drink, eat, gamble" etc. But what they're really doing is suffocating "feeling". If they self-medicate, then they don't have to face reality. It's sad, but it's their lives. As for the people that "love" them, I believe those people are sick too. Not because they choose to be with someone overweight, but because they choose to be with someone that is on a path of self-destruction. A "normal" mentally healthy person wouldn't make that choice. That's a great analogy..I can completely relate to the social drinker and alcoholic.. I will probably never get a date on this site after this but hear it goes.. I am one who cannot "socially drink"..I am an alcoholic..fortunatly I have been sober for a number of years.. One needs to understand addiction..a lot of people don't even realize they have it until it is to late..it effects our thinking as much as it does physical..these woman who believe it is ok to be so overweight have been convinced,with the help of there sickness,that it is normal to be that way.one sandwich is to many and a thousand is never enough.. It will take you to a point that the situation seems hopeless and its easier to live that way rather than change.. These are my opinions
3/17/2009 6:32:00 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from usr1408: That's a great analogy..I can completely relate to the social drinker and alcoholic.. I will probably never get a date on this site after this but hear it goes.. I am one who cannot "socially drink"..I am an alcoholic..fortunatly I have been sober for a number of years.. One needs to understand addiction..a lot of people don't even realize they have it until it is to late..it effects our thinking as much as it does physical..these woman who believe it is ok to be so overweight have been convinced,with the help of there sickness,that it is normal to be that way.one sandwich is to many and a thousand is never enough.. It will take you to a point that the situation seems hopeless and its easier to live that way rather than change.. These are my opinions oh, u will still get a date...u didnt bash anyone. u r just addressing an issue i raised, a disease in itself i would call it, and it makes sense. its not just about the weight.... the issue is so much bigger than that! and congrats to u for conquering your disease! makes u a stronger person!
3/17/2009 7:23:56 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
spankdemnky Florence, MS age: 55	These posts are getting way toooooooooooooo long!! Take a breath people. How about this, "SSBBW" WHATS THE DEAL WITH THIS?
3/17/2009 7:30:12 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
yourfriendbob Fayette, OH age: 56	Quote from spankdemnky: These posts are getting way toooooooooooooo long!! Take a breath people. How about this, "SSBBW" WHATS THE DEAL WITH THIS? ADHD...what's the deal with this?
3/17/2009 7:31:22 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
beanz991 Houston, TX age: 43	I always preferred BBQ myself.
3/17/2009 8:34:42 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
bbw46reader Frederick, MD age: 48	Look, I'm just waiting for the: Skinny diabetic eating candy bars - what's up with that? Skinny hypertensive piles on the salt - what's up with that? Skinny chronically constipated shuns fiber - what's up with that? Skinny hypercholesterolemic eats red meat - what's up with that? Nobody gives a shit about a fat person's health. OK, a few do - but only with their significant other. Mostly it's still about looks and not health. It's really about your reaction to what you see. Disgust, fear, projection, superiority, whatever. The fat are easy targets and fair game that's all. You don't see it - you don't care. Admit it. You don't see tons of threads about the health of drunks or prescription drug addicts - they are examples of outrageous destruction to their own health and cause much more harm to others - physical and otherwise - than the fat person seated at the next table. But you don't see it, so you don't get up in arms. So all that like to feel noble by diverting fat hate/disgust/fear to 'health' concerns - get over yourselves. Let's not even go into sexual proclivities and fetishes. P.S. I am not a fat-lover, but I am fat.
3/17/2009 8:41:25 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
susansheart839 Paris France age: 58	600? Sounds like a Dr Phil intervention to me! And have you ever noticed that the guys who love BBW girls are all like 20 pounds soaking wet????? I have squeezable parts (hey, it comes with age and is a badge I proudly wear cuz when you start getting skinny for no reason at my age, YOU ARE GONNA DIE SOON). But 600 pounds? Oh hell no. Can't even reach back to...oh never mind.... P.S. Happy St Patty's Day everyone!
3/17/2009 8:42:42 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
bry11ca Irving, TX age: 46	bbw46reader - We've got that covered in Friends Only Chat - Grosstastic, but you need to be on SweetiePieLove's friends list. Look, Too little is not good. A little less is sacrifice Just right is fine for age / height A little more is a little indulgent Too much is too much If you are TOO then you won't be around long. Bry [Edited 3/17/2009 8:46:19 AM ]
3/17/2009 8:44:40 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 54	Quote from beanz991: I always preferred BBQ myself. I like BLT's
3/17/2009 8:50:09 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from bbw46reader: Look, I'm just waiting for the: Skinny diabetic eating candy bars - what's up with that? Skinny hypertensive piles on the salt - what's up with that? Skinny chronically constipated shuns fiber - what's up with that? Skinny hypercholesterolemic eats red meat - what's up with that? Nobody gives a shit about a fat person's health. OK, a few do - but only with their significant other. Mostly it's still about looks and not health. It's really about your reaction to what you see. Disgust, fear, projection, superiority, whatever. The fat are easy targets and fair game that's all. You don't see it - you don't care. Admit it. You don't see tons of threads about the health of drunks or prescription drug addicts - they are examples of outrageous destruction to their own health and cause much more harm to others - physical and otherwise - than the fat person seated at the next table. But you don't see it, so you don't get up in arms. So all that like to feel noble by diverting fat hate/disgust/fear to 'health' concerns - get over yourselves. Let's not even go into sexual proclivities and fetishes. P.S. I am not a fat-lover, but I am fat. wow, u really came in here like a lion! i didnt target this thread for "fat" ppl as u put it cuz it was an EASY issue! it was something i have never really been familiar with and wanted to know what ppl thought, thats all. i do see it as a serious problem. and the ppl that love these xtra overweight ppl was just as baffling. if u noticed in here i did address about anorexics also. they r noticeable and just as bad but to the other extreme. i also have posted other issues that arent in these particular forums recently such as little girls being exposed to beauty pagents and the crime of kids shooting up ppl in schools...so targeting heavy ppl was not my intent at all. i think u do make a point about physically being able to see the real heavy ppl as i stated and its much more noticeable than these other issues that arent as noticeable, but they r still of great concern as was quoted here from above: -----------------Skinny diabetic eating candy bars - what's up with that? Skinny hypertensive piles on the salt - what's up with that? Skinny chronically constipated shuns fiber - what's up with that? Skinny hypercholesterolemic eats red meat - what's up with that? my point in being, these ppl needed help to allow themselves to be exposed like that and be in such great danger of themselves and yes, they are able to still find love in their own way! those of u that r overweight need to not take it personally. its not about the weight itself. the weight is what one sees. its more beyond that. and unless u weigh over 600 pounds and want to gain 1000 pounds more like i originally posted, then this isnt about u, is it? we r all humans w/a view about LIFE issues. period. and the ones that have something to contribute thats worthy of contributing, then fine. otherwise, the smartbutts can keep moving!
3/17/2009 8:55:15 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
bbw46reader Frederick, MD age: 48	Quote from bry11ca: bbw46reader - We've got that covered in Friends Only Chat - Grosstastic, but you need to be on SweetiePieLove's friends list. Look, Too little is not good. A little less is sacrifice Just right is fine for age / height A little more is a little indulgent Too much is too much If you are TOO then you won't be around long. Bry I get it. I'm disgusted too. I just dislike feel-good myths more. Mary, I was not addressing you, specifically. I mean 'you' in general. And I am quite sure I am wasting my time trying to head off haters who knowingly or unknowingly disguise themselves as righteous concerned citizens. I don't think you are one. And yes, for some it is 'just' preference and not hating. I'm just hoping to give food for thought. [Edited 3/17/2009 9:03:15 AM ]
3/17/2009 8:56:13 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from susansheart839: 600? Sounds like a Dr Phil intervention to me! And have you ever noticed that the guys who love BBW girls are all like 20 pounds soaking wet????? I have squeezable parts (hey, it comes with age and is a badge I proudly wear cuz when you start getting skinny for no reason at my age, YOU ARE GONNA DIE SOON). But 600 pounds? Oh hell no. Can't even reach back to...oh never mind.... P.S. Happy St Patty's Day everyone! SUSANSHEART, at least u have a little light humor about this, not making fun of it! i think u r right....Dr. Phil shud be on this one. im sure he has covered it somewhere along the way! and u r right, the men that i saw that loved these women were skinny but i dont think they were wrapped too tighteither w/out being able to support helping their women lose weight and get help. they r saying they love the way they look and the women r saying "ill be disappointed if i weigh under 600 pounds and will go into depression."not right! and again, a man supporting an anorexic or bulemic woman is straight up wrong too! what r these ppl thinking??
3/17/2009 8:56:59 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
dakinya Desoto, TX age: 31	hello all
3/17/2009 9:10:00 AM	SSBBW, what is w/this?
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 40	Quote from bbw46reader: I get it. I'm disgusted too. I just dislike feel-good myths more. Mary, I was not addressing you, specifically. I mean 'you' in general. And I am quite sure I am wasting my time trying to head off haters who knowingly or unknowingly disguise themselves as righteous concerned citizens. I don't think you are one. And yes, for some it is 'just' preference and not hating. I'm just hoping to give food for thought. its all good,BBW46READER, i dont want ppl to look at this the wrong way! and trust me, dear, i am watching this thread carefully if it lasts long enuf, the ones that have nothing good to contribute or worthy, unlike this is not your typical BBW thread, i dont even go in them cuz i cant stand to read the sarcastic posts, then out they go! i just thought what i saw yesterday on TV was a truly sad situation about these women and it could be men for all i know, which im sure they r out there, but its another one of those issues that ppl need to get help with. so ppl dont need to come in here and defend themselves against their weight or weight in general. i raised this issue also about the relationship aspect of it too. cuz the ones that love the ppl that r in this dire situation need to either step up and help or need help themselves! like for real!

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