| 11/9/2007 9:03:53 PM |
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dvferris
Pampa, TX
age: 49
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Yes He might ...lol... You have to be more agresive like cute said she did.
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| 11/9/2007 9:06:37 PM |
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potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
age: 40
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You are a cop, arrest him for stalking.
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| 11/9/2007 9:09:12 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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hes not stalking me...
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| 11/9/2007 9:29:35 PM |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 59
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You might be right that you are the first, or one of very few, that showed him any attention. He might be trying to do as has been shown on TV so many times. Persistent pays off in the end. How many times we seen it on TV that the man wins the woman by being persistent in his pursued of her? He may only have that to go on.
He might be the type you can not be friends with, he only understands you are being nice to him so you must have feeling for him. It might be time to tell him that you would rather he never contact you again. We would like too, but we can not always be nice to everyone.
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| 11/9/2007 9:56:45 PM |
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thokolosi
Chatham, MA
age: 20
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im normal... wanna use your handcuffs on me? 
juuuuust kiddiiing*
i dont think you have to be mean to get the point across, just be... firm. let him know there's no chemistry between you two, and he has no chance.
*unless you really want to 
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| 11/10/2007 2:29:58 PM |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 88
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Are you sure that he can not find where you live?
Through license plate, tel. #, or following you from work?
Being assertive is not being mean.
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| 11/10/2007 3:07:58 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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Im a cop trust me my address is blocked on everything,You run my tag all ya get is my name, you run my name you get nothing. plus he lives a good hour away, i dont think hes going to drive to my work which is 1 1/2 hours from him to follow me home at 6am, plus i always look over my shoulder. I don't live in the city I work in either. Florida does have the right to self defense law as well, BRING IT ON..lol
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| 11/10/2007 4:00:05 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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giggles.. you have just too many canals and that big ole ocean there on the left side to let this guy get to you. just tell folks you accused him of trying to swim with too many chains around him, or trying to walk across the atlantic with concrete shoes. he didnt listen and went ahead and tried one or the other.. makes perfectly good sense to me.
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| 11/11/2007 6:57:40 AM |
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9thstwonder
Chesapeake Beach, MD
age: 49
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be mean....
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| 11/11/2007 7:00:48 AM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52
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Since your near me in Florida,
let me come over and talk to em,
then I will be askin you out everynight.
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| 11/11/2007 7:01:17 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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You carry a gun don't you? Use it, Popping a nice little cap in his ass ought give him the hint. 
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| 11/11/2007 7:02:24 AM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52
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Romie,
you must be the female DrPhil
excellent advice
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| 11/11/2007 7:17:22 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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Thank you prof, some men just get thie hint, I actually run in to the same problem alot, you talk to someone on the net then phone and think hmmmm sure I could meet this person, then after you do just realize that they are not for you, you really don't see yourself with this person forever or would even really consider another date, but they are crazy in Love with you, after the first date and thats it, they figure the first date was like signing the deal and know matter how nice you are in telling them, you know I think youre a really sweet person but I just don't think its going to any further than today between us, they don't get it, and as sad as it is, sometimes you just have to be mean.
[Edited 11/11/2007 7:21:18 AM]
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| 11/11/2007 7:17:28 AM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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seems you've been honest he will not take that answer you may have to get mean
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| 11/11/2007 7:25:31 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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And If I am nice in telling them, I really don't think were a match and they don't listen, then as much as I hate to I tell them why, see I'm not a picky person but I due need for the guy to be clean (showering) and I would rather if he had good teeth things like that, some guys show up with cloths on that have been laying on the floor three days and think we don't notice, or they smell like they didn't shower, or just plain lie about themselves before meeting, I'm not affraid to tell someone I don't want to see you because you smell like ass, that usually does the trick, yet they still don't bathe, they just move on, Thank god. Sometimes being brutually honest is the best avanue to take.
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