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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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So I met this guy, he's really nice in all and we seemed to get along great when we spoke on the phone. I didn't have time to meet him as soon as he wanted so I agreed that he could do a ride a long with me at work. (I'm a cop and you have to have a back ground done first) Well he comes and enjoys himself, but he annoyed the heck out of me. No click no sparks I felt really strange around him. I have tried to explain to the guy I don't think things would work and hes just not taking the hint. He still ask me everyday when can I see you again? Can I call you tonight? I met the guy once and he already has asked me if i'm looking for another guy....strange....It seems he can't settle for being friends.... Am I going to have to be mean to get this guy to understand????
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| 11/9/2007 6:27:48 PM |
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wv_dad
Martinsburg, WV
age: 38
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sounds like he is infatuated with you.
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| 11/9/2007 6:30:30 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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I dont want that!!!!! why can't a normal guy like me..
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| 11/9/2007 6:30:50 PM |
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spoiledbratt
Kamuela, HI
age: 34
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Hey there.. If he doesn't get the hint, you might have to be mean. You don't know what he might do next. Be careful, but tell him exactly how you feel. Aloha
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| 11/9/2007 6:31:49 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Maybe he likes women in uniform??? For some, you'd think he might be more cautious about your occupation ... but apparently he isn't. Guess I'd tell him again and if he still doesn't get it then bring out the guns 
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| 11/9/2007 6:32:21 PM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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well you're a cop you know what comes next? can anyone say restraining order...lol
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| 11/9/2007 6:33:01 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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"he already has asked me if i'm looking for another guy"... a BIG red flag for me... sounds like he's bordering on obsessiveness and possession....I'd run like crazy from that one if I were you...good luck sweetie...and be careful!!
By run like crazy... I'd take whatever measures necessary to keep him from talking or coming near me... don't worry about being mean! JMO
[Edited 11/9/2007 6:34:36 PM]
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| 11/9/2007 6:35:06 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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He doesn't know where I live and he knows I have a lot of guns. I'm starting to think hes never really been with anyone by the way he talks and maybe he doesn't really know how to properly show someone he likes them. but ya guns are coming out soon.. thanks yall
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| 11/9/2007 6:59:30 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 47
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yep..time to pull the b*tch out..got the issues right now...im just ignoring him..he will go away.good luck.
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| 11/9/2007 7:12:17 PM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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Went through that this summer. I actually told the guy he had a choice to make... he could back off and let things go at a slower pace or he could push me away. That night, while I was sleeping (he worked nights) he called and left me 15 voice messages and sent me 9 text messages in about 3 1/2 hours. Guess what choice I decided he made? Told him so too... he freaked but left me alone. Sometimes you have to put out a warning, and then just be mean.
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| 11/9/2007 7:44:02 PM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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Yes ,be mean get rid of him if he cant take a hint!!!Mike
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| 11/9/2007 8:03:15 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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wow cuten, Ya I told him tonight i just want to be friends right now and he needs to stop pushing the issue. he seemed to get that, then 20 min later he sends me a message on yahoo, saying, Hey sexy!..lol, Only good thing he does he will always send me a text msg asking me if he can call. If i say no he doesnt call.. THANK GOD. thanks for yall comments.. these things are better than chat rooms..lol
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| 11/9/2007 8:25:04 PM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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Get rid of this loser! Mike
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| 11/9/2007 8:28:24 PM |
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onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 56
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Slap the handcuffs on him and cuff him to your car door handle, drive real slow for about a mile, stop and say leave me alone or next time I drive 2 miles at 10 miles and hour. He should get that hint.
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| 11/9/2007 8:52:40 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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that would probably work!!!! I dont think I could even bare the thought of putting hand cuffs on him, he might take it the wrong way,,,lol
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