| 3/27/2009 5:54:29 PM |
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shawty222
Mentor, OH
age: 22
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| 1. hell yeah go for it |
| 2. no no no no |
| 3. who cares |
ok so theres this guy that i am totaly feelin and i want to meet him but i dont know if i should hes really sweet and well is a lot better then most of the guys i know but im scared to get hurt again when i 1st came on here it was not to meet guys it was for the forums lol so im kinda like i dont know what to do 
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| 3/27/2009 5:56:48 PM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Dont give your heart and dont put out for a long time. But sure meet him
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| 3/27/2009 6:21:33 PM |
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smitty4980
Fort White, FL
age: 56
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Don't be "totally feeling" until after you've known him for awhile. There is no hurry in this game. Take your time!
Smitty
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| 3/27/2009 6:24:59 PM |
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micheal288
Portland, OR
age: 30
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but use your head and dont wear your hheart on your sleeve
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| 3/27/2009 6:31:53 PM |
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mag_eleven
New Port Richey, FL
age: 40
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Go ...have a good time..thats what I say...mikey
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| 3/28/2009 8:19:01 AM |
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ic2beyurs2
Kingman, AZ
age: 48
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invite him to meet the parents
they are far better suited to judge a young man than you are
with age comes wisdom
thats the way it was done in my generation
and it worked very well.
No one can get hurt unless they allow it
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| 3/28/2009 8:59:00 AM |
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lilmissala1957
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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I too came here just for the forums but have met some awesome folks here. Only you can decide when you are ready to date again. Don't look at it negatively. You are looking I might get hurt. How about I might really enjoy myself! Even if it doesn't go anywhere. By all means take your time!
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| 3/28/2009 10:33:54 AM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 29
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My daughter wrote this when she was 9, for kids that have lost a parent or sibling. As she can relate. Looking at her outlook on life, for her experience of losing a parent, changed my outlook on everything.
Yes, it's not the topic per say...but, you should be able to get the point.
Live, laugh, love.
It's gonna hurt,
but you gotta try,
sometimes, it might even make you cry.
But to never love and to never laugh
will not replace what you just don't have,
so, take it hard and know it hurt,
but don't ever let it keep you from an open heart.
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| 3/28/2009 10:51:32 AM |
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manykisses
Tonawanda, NY
age: 51
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Being scared to get hurt again is how you end up wasting some of the best years of your life. Get after it, girl...you're never going to win unless you play to win instead of playing to not lose!
John
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| 3/28/2009 10:42:28 PM |
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putridoid
North York, ON
age: 55
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ok so theres this guy that i am totaly feelin and i want to meet him but i dont know if i should hes really sweet and well is a lot better then most of the guys i know but im scared to get hurt again when i 1st came on here it was not to meet guys it was for the forums lol so im kinda like i dont know what to do
This has got to be the most fruitless and pointless mental exercise of my entire life: trying to figure out if a complete stranger to me should meet another complete stranger to me, and then give the stranger in need of advice a well-reasoned opinion why she should or should not do that.
1. It can only backfire on me: if the date goes well, she'll immediately forget all her "little" friends who helped her to success and have a date with a man. If it goes badly, them I am going to have to pretend to be supportive and provide a shoulder for her to cry on.
2. My opinion is completely useless, not only from the moment "go" but from twenty-eight moments before that.
3. The bf may want to hunt me down, (when I'm in season, and he has a licence).
4. My reason will have a word with me.
5. My sense of judgement may elope with my sanity.
invite him to meet the parents
they are far better suited to judge a young man than you are
with age comes wisdom
thats the way it was done in my generation
and it worked very well.
No one can get hurt unless they allow it
This is better advice than mine, but it could be improved by inviting him to meet his parents, not yours. They may be biassed, but they know him better than your parents can ever hope to. Especially in one single meeting. Besides, your parents will be biassed, too, so you have a net gain of sociological advantage, with no absolute loss in the bias-sector whatsoever.
Better still, get a complete report of his psychological break-down (or make-up, break-down sounds bad when used together in the same sentence with "psychology") by a panel of seven court-appointed forensic psychiatrists.
[Edited 3/28/2009 10:51:14 PM PST]
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| 3/28/2009 10:57:13 PM |
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charlie460
Houston, TX
age: 49
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Being scared to get hurt again is how you end up wasting some of the best years of your life. Get after it, girl...you're never going to win unless you play to win instead of playing to not lose!
John
thats the best answer i see
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| 3/28/2009 11:10:54 PM |
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bingbinger
Dubuque, IA
age: 34
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"Dont give your heart and dont put out for a long time. But sure meet him"
I disagree dont play games and don't be afraid to give it up early. Most men won't leave you because of that, they leave you becuase after you gave it up early they actual get to know you. Most woman (and men) drop there gaurd after sex. If youve got it, youve got it! If you don't then I guess you have to play games to get the man for a extra month or two. Just don't break out the whips,chains,vibrators, and tell him you like anal until your sure he is the one for ya.
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| 3/29/2009 12:47:09 AM |
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qinx_babyboomer
Houston, TX
age: 50 online now!
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If you're asking us, and you're scared you will get hurt...then not a good idea
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| 3/29/2009 12:56:06 AM |
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hotnstinky
Diablo, CA
age: 38
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Dont give your heart and dont put out for a long time. But sure meet him
I totally agree with you ^ dont put out but meet em it will be a experience to learn from n you never know.. 
[Edited 3/29/2009 12:56:33 AM PST]
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| 3/29/2009 12:59:12 AM |
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endlessdarklite
Dayton, OH
age: 90
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You'll never find that right person unless you try again. Being hurt is just something we all experience in life, but in my opinion, it's definitely worth meeting someone new cause you could be happy for the rest of your life and you might miss out on that if you're too scared of being hurt. So, feel alone, depressed, hurt, and wonder what could have been? OR take a chance at being happy. If that doesn't work, at least you have the satisfaction of know you tried.
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