| 11/10/2007 2:33:44 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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dragenfly
Newberry, FL
age: 60
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I'am not 60 and it is really hard to find a man my age or older. I don't want one younger. I have tryed it, was fun but not for keeps. It seems like older men want younger women on their arm to show off to family and friends, even though most of them will end up hurting them or taking them to the bank. Yes, I know young ones you'll say not all. That is true but from what I have seen it happens a lot. I just want to say that there are a lot of loving, sexy, careing women out there that are looking to give a good man a wonderful life. I take very good care of myself, I feel like the ones I have dated just wanted sex and ready to move on to the next one. what do you all think?
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| 11/10/2007 3:19:57 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 52
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You are a young lookin 55....
"just wanted sex and ready to move on -".....was there some other agreement?
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| 11/10/2007 3:44:58 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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berryreddragon
Wells, MN
age: 46
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It's not just at your age...it's happening at mine to....they want one nite then go to be heard from never again...till they want it again. Me I want something solid..I've tried younger to way younger and they only want a mommy....there's no in between anymore....I'm with you where have all the good ones gone...let us know
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| 11/10/2007 3:47:42 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50 online now!
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Ya gotta keep openin' that box of Cracker Jacks till ya find the prize ya want.......
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| 11/10/2007 4:01:03 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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rer
Kennesaw, GA
age: 58
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As the song goes-- I'm not as good as I once was , but I'm good once as I ever was!
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| 11/10/2007 4:15:08 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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classy777
Tulsa, OK
age: 61
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I, like you was in the same boat and thought very seriously about leaving the site and backing off for awhile....then one night i responded to "nonickname" on one of the Forums concerning someone whom i thought was a real jerk...but "nonick" used such tact with him and gave me a better insight of his strong and spiritual personality that i just had to know him. Well, since that night we have been inseperable and now he is moving to Oklahoma so that we can begin our lives together. Success story you ask? "Damn right" so yes it can happen! All the good ones are not taken and they will finish last!!!
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| 11/10/2007 4:42:55 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 60
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Sometimes i think most women on here are really not looking for a good guy,they seem to want someone who will lie and tell them what they want to here. I have all but given up on ever finding anyone like this. All they want is to see a picture and don't really read anyones profile.
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| 11/10/2007 5:17:35 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 57
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My first four months on the site, I met nothing but women who either had
trust issues..or were game players....I actually gave up, until I found
my special person via a simple conversation about the forums. I guess
it can run in spurts....you get a bad dose of men/women and eventually
the right one pops into your life...just got to weed thru them, and just
tough it out. jmo
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| 11/10/2007 9:45:52 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Don't think age has anything to do with finding someone and I don't want just anyone. I've been here since February and I haven't met anyone in person from this site yet. I don't give up hope tho for he's out there ... he just needs to find out that I'm here on this site 
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| 11/10/2007 11:45:49 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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sirknight357
Oceanport, NJ
age: 50
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Hello one and all hows the chat going tonight..Are we all playing nice...
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| 11/10/2007 11:49:28 PM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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We try Sirknight, we try! LOL..welcome...
Luvin
Chopper, how you doing?
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| 11/11/2007 12:25:39 AM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 56
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I think good people are having problems committing to anyone today. People just don't trust people today and are afraid of being used again. Women who have been hurt before and men who have lost a past love no matter why the relationship ended. We are just afraid to either commit to someone else or feel noone wants a man anyway so why commit. With all the bashing that both men and women do about the opposite gender makes it even harder to break down the barriers that seperate us. I personally feel I'm not good enough because I am a man and will always be a man and no matter how much bashing women do about men I could never be the man a woman expects and be happy simply because I am a man. I don't want to be a she man, I want to remain a man and act like a man, not like a sheman like most women want. Women lower the toilet seat to pee, men raise it. Women should be happy with a man that raises it and not complain. At least some men don't pee where we both have to sit. I think we would all be happier if we went back to men doing man jobs around the home and women doing womens jobs. At least then we knew who the man was and who the woman was. I know some will read into this the negative side of this but I really don't care anymore what anyone thinks of me. They will never know me by bashing me and taking anything I say or write and trying to find every little thing they can to critize me. I don't want people like that around me anyway and I am not going to spend the rest of my life trying to plese someone like that. It seems like people are always twisting what I say into something bad. I personally think they intentially try to hurt people. It may be funny to most people but putting people down and making then look bad to me is a sick human warped twisted human being that cares nothing about other peoples feelings. Sent without editing so rip me apart. Have your fun if that's your bag.       
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| 11/11/2007 8:03:40 AM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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jaroto
Chesnee, SC
age: 63
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I am 63 and all I can seem to attract are alcoholics and druggies. Don't do either so I can't figure out what I am doing wrong.
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| 11/11/2007 10:09:50 AM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 56
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Maybe you are like the women I meet. Once they have my attention and the relationship begins to grow they turn into perfectionist and expect perfection from me. I will never be a perfect person and perfectionist would drive me crazy if I stay so I end the relationship before trying to be perfect drives me nuts. You are a beautiful woman and men are visual creatures so your beauty attracts men. But expecting them to be perfect will only cause trouble in the relationship and/or drive them away. 
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| 11/11/2007 10:26:55 AM |
Lady's over 55 have problems finding nice men. |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50 online now!
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dragenfly... I quote you.... "I'am not 60 and it is really hard to find a man my age or older."
but your profile says 60... Is that a typo??? 
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