11/11/2007 5:42:28 PM |
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kerob2165
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 42
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yeah you're right need to pull my head out of my 4 point of contact! iluv that little girl very much and i need to stop being so selfish!
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11/11/2007 5:42:34 PM |
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woodsman1950
Rimersburg, PA
age: 56
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sorry i had no idea she was so young. your heart will tell you what is right. best wishes and my thoughts are with you.
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11/11/2007 5:44:07 PM |
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kerob2165
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 42
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she moved in with him 2 days after she walked out!
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11/11/2007 5:46:15 PM |
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kerob2165
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 42
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thats alright woodsman haven''t been thinking clearly since this all happened.
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11/11/2007 5:46:52 PM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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I don't think it is "being selfish". We all have emotions and we all have the right to feel whatever we are going to feel. But, being an adult, a parent, you have to be able to control those emotions to do what is best for your daughter. If that means the entire time she is in surgery you are biting your nails, tearing up phone books, running laps around the waiting room... whatever.... do it. Point being, it is still all new and most likely, your S2BX will more than likely make sure he is there JUST to upset you and rub it in your face that you can't control her actions.
I'm sorry. It's a tough situation. Just be there for your daughter as long as you know you can keep control and keep your focus on her. Best of luck!
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11/11/2007 5:47:34 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Ewwwwwwww ... sorry ... know how ya feel tho. For me it was easier to get over because I kept thinking my X is now someone else's problem and not mine.
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11/11/2007 5:49:14 PM |
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kerob2165
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 42
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thats the same way i feel chopper babe.
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11/11/2007 5:59:34 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 47
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hey-take care-god speed hope your baby pulls thru ok-my thoughts and prayers are with you-your ex sucks-let her ride her own misery horse-just take care of you and the babies-thats all that matters -god speed-have peace in your heart & soul.kathy
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11/11/2007 6:00:50 PM |
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kerob2165
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 42
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thanks kathy!
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11/11/2007 6:03:40 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 47
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no problem-went thru your same hell 25 yrs ago,my heart bleeds for you--take care.
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11/11/2007 6:52:19 PM |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41
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Hey kerob...Maybe this is the time to keep focused on your child her. It's sounds like a very serious thing. Personally, I think it's good that he wants to be there for her or your child's support and maybe he can compromise and come later after it's done? You may have hard feelings, but you don't control her either. Try to keep in mind that it's about your child, not her.
[Edited 11/11/2007 6:58:30 PM]
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