| 4/8/2009 3:16:15 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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Yes, why women that have accomplished almost everything they wanted pick lousy suck-arse partners...men that undermine their efforts and criticize them at every opportunity....men that are lazy and underachievers?
Duchessa
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| 4/8/2009 3:37:55 PM |
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1sandman56
Cullman, AL
age: 54
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why do alot of men love loser?
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| 4/8/2009 4:00:43 PM |
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stopntrafic
Hartselle, AL
age: 50
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Who are we to judge who is a winner or looser? God gave us a brain to know who is good for us and who is not, the choice is up to each person.
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| 4/8/2009 4:30:36 PM |
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mcswn
Dothan, AL
age: 46
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It does seem we know that one or two friends man or woman that seems to always drag up the biggest losers ..and stay with them..after all their crap..why is that?And then a man like me always get dumped on ...
[Edited 4/8/2009 4:51:24 PM ]
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| 4/8/2009 4:44:11 PM |
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whitelillies
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 56
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I wouldn't have a loser living with me OR criticizing me since, of course, he wouldn't be living with me. lol
Any woman who would deliberately choose a character like this needs therapy, because they have a bad case of low self-esteem. IMHO
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| 4/8/2009 5:06:53 PM |
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divotmkr9
Mobile, AL
age: 67
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Well I will tell you and anyone else that wants to listen - I am NOT a loser, never have been - never will be - I am accepted by most gals and peeps that knows me as being an OK guy with very good morals, yet a fun loving person.
I will also tell you that there are peeps that will judge someone based on so-called preconceived ideas about that person - that is totally bull crap.
cya, Burt
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| 4/8/2009 5:20:13 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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why do alot of men love loser?
When we find out the answer to the question in the OP...we may find out the answer to your.
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| 4/8/2009 5:25:19 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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Who are we to judge who is a winner or looser? God gave us a brain to know who is good for us and who is not, the choice is up to each person.
Sure, we are nobody to judge...unless, of course, the lady comes and complains to you -all the the times- about the loser she married.
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| 4/8/2009 5:46:40 PM |
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hot007
Bryant, AL
age: 51
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Just like the old saying goes! You made your bed now lie in it
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| 4/8/2009 5:51:08 PM |
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divotmkr9
Mobile, AL
age: 67
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Sure, we are nobody to judge...unless, of course, the lady comes and complains to you -all the the times- about the loser she married.
That is why they have a thing called divorce - tell her the name of a good attorney.
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| 4/8/2009 6:03:40 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
age: 58
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Because losers are more fun than that boring guy that has to go to work, b*tches because you dont vacumn enough. Losers like to drink, make whoopie all night because they have time to play. They are usually cute and look good in their jeans or they would not survived as a loser. Have you ever seen an ugly loser? they are good lovers, because that is their job. They are so charming too, because losers can never be grumpy in the begining. Just kidding, a little.
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| 4/8/2009 6:13:28 PM |
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heartquest8
Decatur, AL
age: 61
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Because losers are more fun than that boring guy that has to go to work, b*tches because you dont vacumn enough. Losers like to drink, make whoopie all night because they have time to play. They are usually cute and look good in their jeans or they would not survived as a loser. Have you ever seen an ugly loser? they are good lovers, because that is their job. They are so charming too, because losers can never be grumpy in the begining. Just kidding, a little.   
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| 4/8/2009 6:15:59 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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mcswn
Indeed, dumped on...and the same happens to the nice ladies. I don't have an answer.
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| 4/8/2009 6:18:27 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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hot007
Pretty much what we told to this friend...plus a very seriously put "Don't call me back with the same bull unless, of course, you are going to do something about it."
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| 4/8/2009 6:26:13 PM |
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bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 59
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Yes, why women that have accomplished almost everything they wanted pick lousy suck-arse partners...men that undermine their efforts and criticize them at every opportunity....men that are lazy and underachievers?
Duchessa
In some people's opinion that describes me. Others think just the opposite. Just depends on what you call a loser. I've got a heck of a lot that people who have piles of money and a shitty attitude don't have. I don't go hungry, do about anything I want, and drive a cute little car that is nice... everything else is paid for... I try not to b*tch and complain, but I won't put up with bullshit any longer than I have to. My time may not be valuable to anyone else, but it definitely is to me and I don't waste it on dead ends. As for morals.. I've got some.
[Edited 4/8/2009 6:27:10 PM ]
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| 4/8/2009 6:28:43 PM |
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4uacoyboy
Madisonville, TN
age: 60
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| 4/8/2009 6:34:07 PM |
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loves2lots
Splendora, TX
age: 49
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maybe because all of the good ones are taken? or the good ones that are left are,,, leary like most single people.. man or woman....
but hellifiknow
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| 4/8/2009 6:40:41 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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loves2lots
"maybe because all of the good ones are taken? or the good ones that are left are,,, leary like most single people.. man or woman....
but hellifiknow"
I don't know why...but if a lady feels she is with a loser she should do something about it. Complaining to her friends will not solve her problems.
BTW: A loser, like beauty, is only on the eyes of the beholder.
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| 4/8/2009 6:48:53 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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I take the topic itself as a insult. JMO.
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| 4/8/2009 6:52:41 PM |
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loves2lots
Splendora, TX
age: 49
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lol yup... thats true... aint happy do something about it......
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| 4/8/2009 6:54:18 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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I take the topic itself as a insult. JMO.
What? Are you serious? I only wanted to share my GF situation.
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| 4/8/2009 6:55:06 PM |
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heavenlyeyez4u
Russellville, AL
age: 54
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Hey Tom...tellum like it is hun.....How are ya? long time no chat...
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| 4/8/2009 7:04:05 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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....How are ya? long time no chat...
hummm....well, you have not been around either. What is keeping you busy? 
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| 4/8/2009 7:12:39 PM |
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lovin59
Kimberly, AL
age: 62
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I'M A LOOSER!! I'M A LOOSER!! COME AND GET Me!! PLEASE!
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| 4/8/2009 7:19:13 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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whitelillies
I don't know if it was deliberately...I don't even know if her husband is as she describes him to us (I never met him) but what I know is that I wuldn't live for a week -much less for twenty five years- with a person that, and always according to her, doesn't know the meaning of the word "respect."
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| 4/8/2009 7:20:34 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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I'M A LOOSER!! I'M A LOOSER!! COME AND GET Me!! PLEASE!
Dennis, I think is time for me to go to Bama to smack you around.......
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| 4/8/2009 7:52:51 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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In this coarse of life I have won and I have lost. But, where I take offense is in the title of the thread. It's like your saying there is no one left to love but losers.
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| 4/8/2009 8:00:33 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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Sorry, Tom...the title of the thread was inspired by today's phone call from mt GF. I could hear her saying "I love this loser" even before I answered my cell.
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| 4/8/2009 8:02:06 PM |
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alabamabelle31
Mobile, AL
age: 34
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Im not the best judge of character so i guess that is why ive ended up with losers in the past. They come across one way then its a totally different story once your together. But you dont always know who is a loser and whos not. jmo
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| 4/8/2009 8:05:10 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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Thank God, when a man loses it all, there are still someone to love them because of their heart. No further comment on this subject.
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| 4/8/2009 8:07:42 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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alabamabelle31:
"...But you dont always know who is a loser and whos not."
Also, a person can change. We don't know the circumstances that make a person to be a loser...or perceived as one.
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| 4/8/2009 8:09:15 PM |
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alabamabelle31
Mobile, AL
age: 34
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Well you do have a point there
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| 4/8/2009 8:11:13 PM |
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bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 59
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I do believe "perception" is the key word there....
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| 4/8/2009 8:28:06 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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alabamabelle31
"Well you do have a point there"
There is a saying, in Spanish, that could be translated as "Not everything that is dull is dumb." IAW, we must form our own opinions.
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| 4/8/2009 9:07:20 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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Born in a mill village
Razor in hand
Could have raped and pillaged
But, figured I was a better man
Mama, taught me pretty damm good
What was right and what was wrong
Thats a plus growing up in the hood
So I decided I would be strong
Been on the top since them days
But always knew the village ways
Gave it away to fly free
Now I'm loser, guess I'll always be
But you remember before you set a label
One thing about a loser never dies
In a heartbeat he may be abled
With wings of freedom he will survive.
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| 4/8/2009 9:14:04 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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Tom, dear friend...
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| 4/8/2009 9:24:00 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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Hugz to all the "losers" Wheather in life, marriage, or just one day.
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| 4/8/2009 9:30:42 PM |
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tattooedhsv
Huntsville, AL
age: 39
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I'm a loser...I have lost so many things that were dear to me, so many people I loved...some through no fault of my own and some because I was a blind fool. I don't think that makes me any less of a person though.
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| 4/8/2009 9:31:56 PM |
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divotmkr9
Mobile, AL
age: 67
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Hugz to all the "losers" Wheather in life, marriage, or just one day.
Hey Tom - appreciate the hugs - BUT I aint no "loser" - won too many "battles" of life to be classified a loser - Im a Winner and so are YOU brother man!!!
later, Burt
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| 4/8/2009 9:34:15 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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tattooedhsv:
The loser my GF was referring to belong to a different category.
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| 4/8/2009 9:40:31 PM |
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divotmkr9
Mobile, AL
age: 67
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I'm a loser...I have lost so many things that were dear to me, so many people I loved...some through no fault of my own and some because I was a blind fool. I don't think that makes me any less of a person though.
Hey tattooedhsv - Hell No you are not a loser!!! We all have lost material things, lost loved ones thru death or divorce, lost jobs - you name it!! But - the one thing you will never lose is your ability to love one another or someone and have the heart to tell them!!!
My Man - I came within several hours last year of dying in UAB ER room!! I am here today - and believe me when I tell you I am a "WINNER" - and not a loser!!!!
later, Burt
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| 4/8/2009 9:42:10 PM |
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tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 57
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Tattoo, well said. If a man gives it all away is he a loser. How many ladies Have made men losers. Just so they can look like a winner.
Oh Yeah!!! I was not going to comment anymore on this subject
But, if I'm a loser in a ladies eyes
Do me a favor and pass me by
I don't need your judgement anyways
Just seems to be a game of the day
Blame me for all your your shortcomings
And I will forget all your nights moanings
Its so simple your not aware
Take my heart and see if you care
Nothing to you I must prove
Seems to me you made the first move
But, now that I'm not your lot
You will never forget what you got
TomFreeBird
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| 4/8/2009 10:01:53 PM |
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sommfshmn
Somerville, AL
age: 48
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Tattoo, well said. If a man gives it all away is he a loser. How many ladies Have made men losers. Just so they can look like a winner.
Oh Yeah!!! I was not going to comment anymore on this subject
But, if I'm a loser in a ladies eyes
Do me a favor and pass me by
I don't need your judgement anyways
Just seems to be a game of the day
Blame me for all your your shortcomings
And I will forget all your nights moanings
Its so simple your not aware
Take my heart and see if you care
Nothing to you I must prove
Seems to me you made the first move
But, now that I'm not your lot
You will never forget what you got
TomFreeBird
Excellent quote Tom
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| 4/8/2009 10:05:28 PM |
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stopntrafic
Hartselle, AL
age: 50
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Sure, we are nobody to judge...unless, of course, the lady comes and complains to you -all the the times- about the loser she married.
I know some women who have wonderful husbands and yet they still complain about them, That don't make the guy a looser it kinda makes the woman stupid, Yes I agree some men and women in this world are not worth a lick but that is why we have brains and feet, The brains tell us to get the hell away and the feet move on it! and MO is that some people think they can change the other one so they try and try and when they can't they get mad and complain!
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| 4/8/2009 10:14:54 PM |
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windwhispers
Enumclaw, WA
age: 41
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I would rather have love and lost
then never have loved at all.
JMO
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| 4/8/2009 10:48:20 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
age: 58
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women love men and some are not winners all the time. men love women and they are not winners all the time. I think that makes us human.
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| 4/9/2009 12:12:15 AM |
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music_iz_back
Huntsville, AL
age: 50
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IMHO! Low self esteem will dictate if a woman is gonna be with a loser or not quite often,because she has so little confidence in herself and desperation will keep her there. But on the same note, it can be just as true for men.
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| 4/9/2009 2:02:15 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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music_iz_back
Exactly. Gary. Low self esteem is what makes a person to associate with a loser...what makes a person to think he/she doesn't deserve better
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| 4/9/2009 2:55:35 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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stopntrafic
"I know some women who have wonderful husbands and yet they still complain about them,"
They may have reasons to complain...reasons that you and the world don't know.
"Yes I agree some men and women in this world are not worth a lick but that is why we have brains and feet, "
Many -men and women- married to this kind of people are unable to see "the way out"...
Anyway, what my GF is complaining about has nothing to do with somebody taking everything her husband had and making a loser out of him...or because health related issues. No, she complains because he lost five jobs in 20 years, because he never took on the offers from one of his jobs to complete his college education...and few others issues.
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| 4/9/2009 4:38:37 AM |
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sandymac12000
Vinemont, AL
age: 58
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Men and women choose loser for various reasons--things like--I can fix them--they do have a good side it is just hidden--I love them regardless of their faults--they need help--It is up to each individual to decide itf the other person is a loser and if they can tolerate them. BTW, Duchessa, what is your description of a loser?
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| 4/9/2009 4:45:49 AM |
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bob_sherry
Vernon, AL
age: 53
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[Edited 4/9/2009 4:51:16 AM ]
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| 4/9/2009 5:10:18 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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sandymac12000
Sandy, I agree with what you call "reasons" to be with a loser.
My definition of a loser? A person that whenever encounters an obstacle abandons whatever he / she is doing and runs to start a new project.
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| 4/9/2009 5:20:34 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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bob_sherry
I love it...I simply love it
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| 4/9/2009 6:22:58 AM |
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andornot
Moulton, AL
age: 60
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... it really is quite simple, CONTROL ...
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| 4/9/2009 6:47:32 AM |
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spider77
Adamsville, AL
age: 59
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stopntrafic
"I know some women who have wonderful husbands and yet they still complain about them,"
They may have reasons to complain...reasons that you and the world don't know.
"Yes I agree some men and women in this world are not worth a lick but that is why we have brains and feet, "
Many -men and women- married to this kind of people are unable to see "the way out"...
Anyway, what my GF is complaining about has nothing to do with somebody taking everything her husband had and making a loser out of him...or because health related issues. No, she complains because he lost five jobs in 20 years, because he never took on the offers from one of his jobs to complete his college education...and few others issues.
Because they are losers, the decent men who showed interest in them were not exciting enough, didn't make enough money, didn't look like Brad Pitt, didn't have a big enough house, were " boring " . Yeah its exciting working double shifts, while bad boy sleeps all day, breaks your nose on a regular basis, spends the bill money on dope or whiskey or his wh*res and you wear makeup to cover up the physical scars, but the emotional ones will never heal. He'll teach your kids how to roll a joint but not how to read the BIBLE.
THIS does not apply to all women, but sadly to too many. ' REAP WHAT YOU SOW ". NOT JMO BUT FROM TRUE OBSERVATIONS.
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| 4/9/2009 7:06:12 AM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
age: 58
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... it really is quite simple, CONTROL ...
now you have hit the nail square on the head. That and the chalenge of trying to change them.
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| 4/9/2009 7:29:24 AM |
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andornot
Moulton, AL
age: 60
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... classic loser stance ... hey, Baby, you know me and I know you, so what else is there to do ...
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| 4/9/2009 11:31:26 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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spider77
"Because they are losers..."
Absolutely...their self esteem is as low as os the life of the loser. Don't think for a second I disagree with what you say.. In fact, and using less harsh words, I told my friend is all her fault.
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| 4/9/2009 12:24:10 PM |
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jazzyjasine49
Crossville, AL
age: 51
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spider77
"Because they are losers..."
Absolutely...their self esteem is as low as os the life of the loser. Don't think for a second I disagree with what you say.. In fact, and using less harsh words, I told my friend is all her fault.
are you still friends with this friend, just wondering
think i landed on the wrong thread here
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| 4/9/2009 12:42:11 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 60
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jazzyjasine49
"are you still friends with this friend, just wondering"
Yes. She may not even think about what we tell her...but she knows we are telling the truth. BTW: I tray to avoid even listening to her recurrent speech...I don't like to give advise.
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