11/13/2007 8:37:59 AM |
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all_me
Las Vegas, NV
age: 36
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When you meet and start dating someone new.... How long does it take for you to know this is someone special, or we have something here? Then to go further, What makes Men and Women in general, know when they want to spend the rest of their lives with someone? I wonder how Women and Men differ on this subject?
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11/13/2007 8:56:02 AM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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Very good question...Maybe gut instinct. Try not to let my emotions run away from me
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11/13/2007 9:03:09 AM |
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all_me
Las Vegas, NV
age: 36
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Yes, I go with my gut instinct as well
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11/13/2007 9:23:21 AM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53 online now!
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Well....can't tell sometimes...you can just never tell
about people...it can always blow up in your face too!
And that sucks!
I think it takes YEARS, and then sometimes...who knows even then???
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11/13/2007 9:27:02 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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That's right elf I'll blow up on ya face...........wait a minute...............that was yesterday's thread.................oh well.............
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11/13/2007 9:32:15 AM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53 online now!
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Yep....yesterday's thread alright!
You are such an sicko my man...and yet...
I am strangely attracted...go figure...
I must be part sicko too...but remember!
I said PART sicko!
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11/13/2007 9:32:18 AM |
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sumbeach763
Columbia, SC
age: 44
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I have connected with a few, but then it just ends up being weird.....
This dating stuff is madness..... Its hard, now I know why my sister had a hard time with it..... And really this isn't me....... To many times is rather just be by myself......
That way I have no one to hear wine about stuff ......
Can't really say what or if I'll ever know...... Life is just to hard, so many games played to try to find anybody....
I believe this , I believe that alot of people have come to settle for who they think they want , at the moment..... thinking hey If I don't take the person so one will get them first.....
because they don't want to be alone....... I think Id be better off being alone them to settle for the next i need......... JMO....... beach
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11/13/2007 9:40:19 AM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
age: 47
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I have to agree with elfiegirl in that you really don't know. At least not with absolute certainty.
The relationship is a journey, one you take together. And though life's experiences will change you and your partner, it's your love, commitment, trust and respect that will allow you to stay together in that journey. Loose any one of those and your paths will separate.
I think many times we get jaded or perhaps our instincts get honed on bad experiences. The problem with that is our instincts will tell us what not to look for, but not what to look for. As a result we bounce from one bad relationship to another. Learning from each one but not truly able to identify what will make our next relationship work.
At this point, I want to get to know someone, but if she is the one will take awhile. In the mean time I want to share experiences and take my time finding out who she really is.
OK, you can tell my past experiences have made me cautious.
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11/13/2007 3:03:10 PM |
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dynamodan
Williamsburg, VA
age: 38
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You know your inlove and they are "the one" when you completely melt whenever around them and can't stop thinking about them when they are away! You are willing to give and sacrafice anything for together's happiness.
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11/13/2007 3:29:04 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 42
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I have to agrree with dynamo on this one.
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11/13/2007 3:46:32 PM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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You know when you start to feel like the other person should always be there, and always has been. When the idea that this person feels the same way both comforts and excites you. And after a day or so away, each doing their own thing, you feel complete when the two of you finally come back together.
And for the guys, when she cleans you up after a night in Tijuana.
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11/13/2007 5:42:57 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
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I agree Pally. Its when you know that you dont want to live you life without them. I also think that the eyes give it away. When you can look at you partner from across a crowed room and KNOW that you two are the only ones in the room!!!
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11/13/2007 5:44:31 PM |
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geo13
Hanover, PA
age: 46
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good answer aareis
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11/13/2007 5:46:30 PM |
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bamarose
Sterrett, AL
age: 38
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I usually know within minutes of a date starting if I will connect with a person. If it comes easy, then I feel I may want to take it further. If it is forced, I just don't want to spend that much time and effort tying to force something that isn't there.
I haven't met "the one" yet - and I am including my exhusand in that statement. When it happens, I'll let you know. lol!!
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11/14/2007 12:49:43 PM |
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bus2blue
Jefferson, OH
age: 48
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when you meet someone and your stomach,heart start to race and you just feel its right. but don't confuse that with just being horny! say to your self , would i still want to be with that person if you couldn't fool around for a long time for some reason. and if you can answer yes , you better snatch up that person
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