| 11/13/2007 4:59:06 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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I have seen some talking about seeming to attract the not so good guys. I have lived that, too.,, those you know will be a train wreck the first time you speak. How many notice the good ones just as quickly? How?
I seem to be better at it than I was.. I just don't know what it is that I see.
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| 11/13/2007 5:03:28 PM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50 online now!
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Don't know....heard of gaydar but ain't sure how well that works either.
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| 11/13/2007 5:14:19 PM |
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homegirl1970
Red Creek, NY
age: 37
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If There Is Mines Broken. .So Im Not Sure..
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| 11/13/2007 5:25:08 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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Nick, Are you able to know a good woman when you meet them? Do you choose well for you?
Gaydar is not the same thing. That is just knowing who is gay with out the need to ask. I ask on that one if they don't say.
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| 11/13/2007 5:50:18 PM |
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iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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i concentrate on how i feel and not what or how the other person feels. feeling good is the best radar for me when it comes to deciding if a woman is right for me. its also more important to know who the wrong person is than who the right one is. jmo
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| 11/13/2007 5:52:22 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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lol well I have grown tired of knowing who is not right. It is refreshing to meet some lately who seem more appropriate.
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| 11/13/2007 5:56:23 PM |
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uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 34
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ping
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| 11/13/2007 5:56:30 PM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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Us good guys will throw you. we like to fly under tha radar. we are the "just freinds"
guys, we are the guys that are shy, we are the people that you do not look at as much because we are safe, safe is not sexy to many women. we are not the most ripped guys, we must compensate with personality. there is no radar for good guys. you have to hunt our type.
-Doc
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| 11/13/2007 6:05:16 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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Uh huh... love that beach background pic of yours... the others aren't bad, either.
Doc, do you think perhaps some of the women considered "just friend" might feel the same way?
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| 11/13/2007 6:07:57 PM |
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viktoriya75
Brooklyn, NY
age: 32 online now!
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I usually go with my gut feeling...It worked so far...
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| 11/13/2007 6:09:38 PM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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I was referring to the folks put there by you (being a gerneralization))
those guys who may have wanted more, but for some reason you thought of them as "just a freind" but what some do not realize is that a best friend is exactly what you need in a relationship.
-Doc
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| 11/13/2007 6:11:40 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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I agrees to both Vic and Eric.
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| 11/13/2007 6:20:38 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 45 online now!
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When they say "I hope your not allergic to: ROSES, COLONE AND CHAMPAGNE. I run for the hills.
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| 11/13/2007 6:22:19 PM |
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endlessly2
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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You mean like when they buy you anything you even mention that you like? Can you say beholdened?
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| 11/13/2007 6:34:54 PM |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 57 online now!
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I tend to agree with Eric, and also like vic said you need to trust your
intuition...that said I would like to take it as step further...and this
goes for men as well as women...You need to take a hard look within
(at yourself)...If you do not like what you had in the past, well theres
your reference point....determine what it is you DO WANT...and look for those
qualities in a guy/girl...your intuition or gut, will help determine if the
other person is sincere...(real)... However, you need to be realistic...you
may want the Hunk...with a strong sexual attraction...but that sexy hunk just
may be shallow..and then you do not have the makings for anything long term.
You want someone who will give to you greater than him/herself. But its up
to you...what do you really want...and like Eric said..hunt for it..Go for it.
just my opinion
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