4/14/2009 1:09:40 PM |
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tisatenn
Rathdrum, ID
age: 29
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Why do you fight so hard to get the girl. Tell them you love them. And then run scared?
I have never understood that. I was dating a man that fought to get me for 3 mths, finally i said ok i will date you. We dated for 3 mths. During which time he invited me to meet his kids, spend thanksgiving with his family, and told me he was in love with me. And the the next day proceeded to say oh i think this is moving to fast. Stopped calling and talking to me.
Im not trying to throw the men suck card. I am honeslty wanting to know what the hell.
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4/14/2009 1:11:03 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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So every single man has done this to you?
Maybe he got to know you then felt it wasn't going to work out and wants to end things before either of you get hurt?
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4/14/2009 1:11:43 PM |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 33
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Maybe he realized he was moving to fast?
Maybe your just to sexy for him?
Maybe it's MAYBELLINE
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4/14/2009 1:12:07 PM |
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alkv26
Manotick, ON
age: 36
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well if you wanted a good guy then he should have to work for the relationship but many try too hard to get what they want and then when they get it well then it goes to crap for them
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4/14/2009 1:13:36 PM |
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cocopuffs375
Suffern, NY
age: 22
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People can get so ahead of themselves..they just forget to start slow....once you said ok..how soon was it till you met his kids?? and from there the family? a month into the relationship??
I think for some they should take more time than that...to meet the kids and family...thats a pretty big thing........JMO
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4/14/2009 1:15:53 PM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 54
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Many men AND women go through the motions of a relationship with the best of intentions. It's only when the reality finally sets in that they are about to give their remaining life to another person, that fears and past hurts rear their ugly head and scare them off. Sometimes the other person can be patient and teach them that this would be a totally different situation than they had known before, and sometimes people are just too damaged yet to close the deal...
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4/14/2009 1:16:23 PM |
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happyface46
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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I think they want to know they still got it. Ego is boosted , and then they get askeered.
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4/14/2009 1:16:27 PM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 44
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Maybe he just got bored. It happens. Why worry about "keeping" a man if he doesn't want to be there? There are plenty of others out there!
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4/14/2009 1:17:57 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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Maybe he just got bored. It happens. Why worry about "keeping" a man if he doesn't want to be there? There are plenty of others out there!
We are all just big veiny throbbing pieces of meat to you, eh?
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4/14/2009 1:18:37 PM |
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tisatenn
Rathdrum, ID
age: 29
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Thats not it. I have no problem with him being gone lol. I have green feilds ...
What im asking is why men in general rush things and then they run scared.
Why dont they take it slow then not run???
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4/14/2009 1:19:55 PM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 44
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We are all just big veiny throbbing pieces of meat to you, eh?
You gotta problem widdat? (JUST KIDDING!!)
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4/14/2009 1:24:51 PM |
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paisley51
Rochester, NY
age: 51
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I don't know how old he was but I think that some men just "try on" a woman for a
while just to see how you will fit into their lives and them come to the relization
that you are not the "fit".. Its just too bad that people get hurt when guys or
girls I might add do this.
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4/14/2009 1:26:35 PM |
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tater2009
Evansville, IN
age: 37
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give me a break. i met this woman once. less than a month later we were living together. the relationship lasted 8 1/2 years. i loved her. wasn't always smooth but it was a good relationship. i have no regrets. we are still friends today. we split up because i went on the road and she got lonely and i'll leave it at that. speed depends on the people.
chances are, he had someone in the wings already and just didn't want to tell you.
jmo
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4/14/2009 1:46:15 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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So as soon as he tells you he "luvs" you he runs..he's a coward with
serious baggage easier to dump you and run than face the work and truth
that comes with real love.
In the long run your really better off. It's a ton of crap to deal with
a man who's an emotional yellow belly.
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4/14/2009 1:55:06 PM |
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war_eagle64
Ogden, UT
age: 49
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This is one that truly crosses gender lines. Some personalities love the chase and conquest. Once success ( the Chase and capture) is achieved the excitement is gone. I have been there with women, so the question is how to identify this character trait early. Haven't figured that out yet.
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