| 4/24/2009 5:27:18 PM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Olathe, KS
age: 50
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I have a best friend that is black , we have always been there for each other for the past twenty years , we are both Virgos , her birthday is three days after mine , we always celebrate one way or another together around that time each year. She is one of the strongest women I have ever met , or will ever meet again in my life time. I go to her family functions , ( she has 11 brothers and sisters) and I have gone to family funerals for some of her family members through the years , and I love all her family like my own and they all love me back . I thank God every day for giving me a mother that never told us kids that we were better than blacks, hispanics, asian or any other nationality ,and we grew up always believing that , now I have passed that on to my son and I am so proud of him.I think how empty my life would be without my girlfriend ever being in it .She is just like me we take no crap off of any other woman out there no matter what race they are. I never ever thought about mentality wise among any race ( that would be pretty shallow) 
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| 4/24/2009 7:47:19 PM |
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cocopuffs375
Suffern, NY
age: 23
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so young and so naive. thats why i said older black women understand the struggle. young black women dont understand. they too busy acting like white girls.
Im proud of who I am.....age and race has nothing to do with it....I know how I act...I act like me myself and I.
[Edited 4/24/2009 8:16:00 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 7:53:59 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
age: 24
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so young and so naive. thats why i said older black women understand the struggle. young black women dont understand. they too busy acting like white girls.
Seriously, shut up.
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| 4/24/2009 7:59:24 PM |
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luv2bum
Milwaukee, WI
age: 45
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This question is pure bullshit!
There are strong women of every race. I have nothing more to say about this! Dude, get a life
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| 4/24/2009 8:00:44 PM |
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3asygoing
Dearborn, MI
age: 41
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Taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_the_United_States
From 1654 until 1865, slavery for life was legal within the boundaries of much of the present United States.[3] Most slaves were black and were held by whites, although some Native Americans and free blacks also held slaves; there were a small number of white slaves as well.
I demand RESTITUTION for my enslaved forefathers from ALL THE RAPPERS on Earth!
  
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| 4/24/2009 8:10:18 PM |
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cherry007
Marblehead, MA
age: 46
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wow didnt see this question comming, im gonna look at it like its a compliment to " women of color" lets face it , life has not been exactly fair in the 30 yrs ago past , but now its all different, but im sure alot of black mothers instilled deep pride into there daughters because it was a pretty tough living for (pardon me) blacks for a long f- ing time.............. you go girls
cherry
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| 4/24/2009 9:59:01 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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Taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_the_United_States
From 1654 until 1865, slavery for life was legal within the boundaries of much of the present United States.[3] Most slaves were black and were held by whites, although some Native Americans and free blacks also held slaves; there were a small number of white slaves as well.
I demand RESTITUTION for my enslaved forefathers from ALL THE RAPPERS on Earth!
and you stupid enough to believe that.  black people couldnt own land in the south to even have slaves. and slavery was illegal in the north. so how the f**k could that be possible.
[Edited 4/24/2009 10:06:13 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 10:02:59 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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Seriously, shut up.
and again. so young and so naive. u dont understand where you came from and what blacks went through for you to have your freedom. understand that racism still exist. u have neva been called a n**ger to your face and counldnt do anything about it. thats why you have no clue.
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| 4/24/2009 11:28:59 PM |
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leodizdren
Newark, NJ
age: 32
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Taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_the_United_States
From 1654 until 1865, slavery for life was legal within the boundaries of much of the present United States.[3] Most slaves were black and were held by whites, although some Native Americans and free blacks also held slaves; there were a small number of white slaves as well.
I demand RESTITUTION for my enslaved forefathers from ALL THE RAPPERS on Earth
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hey what do you think eminem and Serg from third base and the Beastie boys were lol?
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| 4/25/2009 2:14:32 AM |
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karebear70
Seattle, WA
age: 40
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I can't believe this is even a topic.. strength is about character.. strength is about knowing yourself..strength is about heart and experience.. I don't care if you are f**king pink... who cares.. it has no bearing on how strong you are. Seriously.. it's disturbing that this is even up for discussion.
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| 4/30/2009 11:23:18 PM |
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carracerace11
Indianapolis, IN
age: 20
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agreed^ ...a dedication to the independent women of all colors...
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| 4/30/2009 11:39:03 PM |
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 51
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Hey all the thread is sterotyping period.
Reality is look around you. We are all in this crap of a world that is going down the tubes quickly. This maybe off topic a bit but going to put my mind in it anyway.
We need to figure out why things are the way they are and fix it. And it's going to take ALL of us of All races.
Strong people not race, sex, national origin. If you are American then act it. JMHO
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| 5/1/2009 1:21:00 PM |
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hunc_tu_caveto
El Dorado, KS
age: 43
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agreed^ ...a dedication to the independent women of all colors...
Man .. and I hesitate to use that word. Moronic little bandwagon jumper might be a little more accurate. You were the corn ball that started this thread. Now all of a sudden it's a call for dedication?
I would just like to know how anyone on here can honestly say that they alone are the defining authority on Racism or what constitutes being a racist. I could pull up quotes and definitions in this thread till it dies favoring or arguing both sides. I'm not going to stand on a soap box here and say that I've never laughed at a racial joke. I have .. Was it right?.. Definitely not. Everyone here has formed their own opinions from their own life’s experiences, what they were taught in school and what they've seen. People that were raised in a predominantly prosperous area may have a somewhat sterilized view on the subject thinking that it really isn't as bad as it is. People that grew up in an inner city with less than stellar options might be a little jaded. The sad fact is that no one here has been around long enough to know everything about both sides of the race card to the point they can tell anyone they are wrong about everything they know. I was raised in a racist environment and thought all Mexicans were lazy, all blacks were whiny, all Jews were ignorant cheapskates.. and on and on ... The last time I looked I was in America and everyone has a right to their own thoughts. Even if I do find some of them repulsive.
I see certain things in life a certain way because that was ingrained in me as a child. I know better now but the reality is .. is that I still laugh at racial jokes at times.
That does not mean that I choose to teach my children about racism. I parted from the way I was raised and refuse to teach my kids to hate. I'm not so ignorant to believe that I can change myself or the world over night let alone in one thread on a singles site. I can however change how my children see the world and educate them to make decisions based on their own experiences. They aren’t becoming black nor are the younger black kids becoming white .. they are becoming adults within their own realities, their own friends, their own experiences they are becoming more of a generation of people than we ever could.
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| 5/1/2009 1:24:15 PM |
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beu24
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 51
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I dont put up with shit from no one PERIOD!!!
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| 5/1/2009 1:30:34 PM |
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hunc_tu_caveto
El Dorado, KS
age: 43
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As well you shouldn't
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| 5/1/2009 1:32:46 PM |
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tommyutah
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 37
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I think a dumbdumb started this thread. 
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| 5/1/2009 1:33:52 PM |
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sweet_li
Orlando, FL
age: 45
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OP, are you trying to say that i'm not a strong woman just because i'm hispanic and not african american?
omg....if i read just ONE more thread from ANYONE that has stereotypical, generalizing, pigeonholing nonsense in it, i'm gonna SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
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| 5/1/2009 1:38:35 PM |
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hunc_tu_caveto
El Dorado, KS
age: 43
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Quit whining "lil" everyone knows you throw like a girl .. probably can't play chess either ....
 
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| 5/1/2009 1:55:02 PM |
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sweet_li
Orlando, FL
age: 45
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excuse me?!? 
i may throw like a girl (so what?) but i could whoop yo azz in chess, bucko! and if you don't think so, then BRING IT. ....si tu quieres una pelea, i'm more than happy to oblige ya!
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| 5/8/2009 5:38:45 AM |
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redrovera
Round Lake, IL
age: 64
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the lack of intelict falls with you the ladies skin color nor their nationality has any thing to do with their being smart .
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| 5/8/2009 5:51:04 AM |
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bravehart64
Gainesville, FL
age: 45
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Not sure exactly what you are trying to emphasize ? But on average I would say black galls dont take no BS from there SO's ! And gotta respect that
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| 5/8/2009 6:06:12 AM |
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hobo4luv2u
Foley, MN
age: 59
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Why would you ask this question? Which one do you prefer? Most men want a submissive woman to control for their wildest desires. Myself, I have a woman who is both strong and weak. Meaning, we compromise everything, talking EVERYTHING over before we make the proper decisions based on the facts as we both know them to be. Then there is never an option for argument or a piddly tidbit fight later when something goes wrong. It took me a long long time to find this woman so I'm not letting her get away all that easy, specially when we haven't had an argument or fight since we met.
Race has nothing to do with strength of the mind. Stop and consider that you could be a moody person and the type of women you get are what you're attracting with your mood swings. You have more than enough time with your young age to find the woman which suits you best.
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