| 11/16/2007 7:02:35 AM |
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friendlyncgirl
Mount Holly, NC
age: 37
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is is wrong to be seeing someone and have guys as friends?
if your a guy to have girls as friends?
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| 11/16/2007 7:06:41 AM |
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sumbeach763
Raeford, NC
age: 44
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nope not at all, as long as your not sleeping with them all.......
Ive got many guy friends, but i don't sleep with them...... So no I don't thank its wrong, but remember this too, you ok if he has lady friends and hangs out with them?
Just a thought......Beach
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| 11/16/2007 7:11:15 AM |
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friendlyncgirl
Mount Holly, NC
age: 37
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I have a couple of realy good friends i hang out with that are guys and would never have sex with them.Hell im not evev having sex with the one i was seeing.i dont mind if he has girls for friends.just as long as there just friends. I can trust.
Just get a little jealous when the flirting goes a little far,but still dont mind.
[Edited 11/16/2007 7:13:02 AM]
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| 11/16/2007 7:11:27 AM |
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youngdanecook
Dodge City, KS
age: 24
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it shouldn't matter at all. I wouldn't want a partner crazy enough to make a big deal out of it either.
slight jealousy is one thing - neurotic obsession is another thing all together
being in a relationship with someone who can't handle your friends is like being in prison.. lol
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| 11/16/2007 7:14:59 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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Don't know friendly but, if lovin' you is wrong, I don't wanna be right............
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| 11/16/2007 7:16:57 AM |
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michiganfarmer
Kingsley, MI
age: 38
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I dont think its wrong to have friends. I do, however, think its wrong to spend time alone.
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| 11/16/2007 7:17:30 AM |
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friendlyncgirl
Mount Holly, NC
age: 37
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was it wrong on my part when you say goodnight on the phone and got back on pc to respond to an email and start to veiw there web cam only talked for 5 min.and i told him before i started to talk to my friend in iraq?I only talked to this guy once before and never seen him so i turned on the web cam to see him?
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| 11/16/2007 7:19:48 AM |
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youngdanecook
Dodge City, KS
age: 24
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you're a big girl, you can do what you want right? lol
lose the control freak
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| 11/16/2007 7:20:02 AM |
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ladysmommy
Denver, CO
age: 21
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Why would it be wrong to have guys as friends?! PLEASE explain that one to me! I have SEVERAL guy friends..... and even when I was married the first time..... I had several!
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| 11/16/2007 7:21:35 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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No that's not wrong in n of itself.....However....I think ya know where I'm goin' w/this...
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| 11/16/2007 7:46:37 AM |
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enahsforyou
Grain Valley, MO
age: 37
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Good morning to all DH peoples. This is a tough one for me because of my divorce pended on this. My ex wife was leaving in the late afternoons to go to her brothers house to hang out with her brother and his friends. Leaving me home with our three children which was fine. This went on two to four nights a week for three months. Started to get me on the fourth month she was getting makeup dressing nice ect. That last month I started to speak up to no avail she was going anyway. The last night was a sunday I said to her if she went I was leaving her. She got ready and left. I loaded the car up and my oldest sons and my belongings. She was this whole time just hanging out with her brother and getting home in the early mornings 3am or 4am and sleeping on the couch on these nights. That monday I woke her and notified of our leaving. Left and divorce was soon at hand. Two years later she and her brother were just hanging out with friends and shame on me leaving her. Having male/female friends is ok but there are limits that a man/women can take. Are these mutual friends or personal? Time spent can get hurtful walk gentle. Sorry for the vent first time this has been asked to me in a public forum.
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| 11/16/2007 8:06:41 AM |
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friendlyncgirl
Mount Holly, NC
age: 37
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there just mutual friends nothing more.
i guess just because we did things on the web cam he thinks im doing it with everyone.
so not true.
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| 11/16/2007 8:27:41 AM |
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enahsforyou
Grain Valley, MO
age: 37
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Not saying that anyone is orwas doing anything wrong. My main input would be limit your one on one time spent without your spouse present. Have fun and  
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| 11/16/2007 8:43:02 AM |
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fatandbald
Omaha, NE
age: 39
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No.
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| 11/16/2007 8:44:21 AM |
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hidonttellonme
Newport Beach, CA
age: 40
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My girlfriend does not think so.
She told me she does not want me having attractive female friends or be friendly with attractive women. These are women I know through work or hobbies that I have done NOTHING with.
I just don't want her hanging out with any ex's because she has been intimate with them and they disrespect our relationship by asking her away for the weekend.
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