| 11/17/2007 12:16:24 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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So how is online dating getting any sex??? Mary and her four sisters is the ticket for a man so why would I'd want to talk cyber sex??? Not the same thing. Sort of like handing me a generic soda pop and telling me it's the same as Coca Cola. Not the same thing.
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| 11/17/2007 12:23:13 PM |
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rodlynn
New Britain, CT
age: 44
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No, but if your thirsty and generic soda is all you got 
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| 11/17/2007 12:25:31 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Water quenches the thirst too ... as in cold showers 
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| 11/17/2007 12:38:54 PM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
age: 43 online now!
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Thanks Nick.......glad somebody is sending me some love! 
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| 11/17/2007 12:44:04 PM |
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superheroscoo
Garden City, KS
age: 24 online now!
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Wow, so many overgeneralizations on here. Not all men are looking for sex and not all men between 18-25 are "just looking to get their dipstick wet." To be truthful, I am on here just to make friends and possibly meet my one. I have my doubts about meeting her right now, but I guess you just have to wait and see. Chasing it or searching for it doesn't work, so I just want to get myself out there a little.
Sex is fun, but it isn't everything. Based on my own experience, I think that sex may be the complication that keeps me from finding my one. We rush into it with that new lover passion and it just turns into two very talented individuals in the sack just trying to get off on a daily basis. I am bored with that--I can get off on my own.
What I want is someone real who likes who I am and respects what my life ambition is. Teachers are respected by parents and community, but as far as women and our wallets, it can get a little rough. I just need to find someone who can accept me.
I will agree that when I date someone, I like it when I can look at them and wish I could have them all the time, but I think that is part of the passion. The funnest adventure is fighting that urge. If I don't have it to begin with, a relationship isn't going anywhere.
Society as a whole has become very egotistical and it will hurt us in the long run. People only care about themselves and getting ahead. If that means "getting the dipstick wet" and moving to another women, so be it; however, there are guys out there looking for one person to have and to hold forever.
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| 11/17/2007 12:47:34 PM |
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youngdanecook
Dodge City, KS
age: 24
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dude, you're about an hour from me. Garden city sucks.. lol
im just playing man. Good luck in your search, if you are new, i know some women over there that are educated and well-mannered.
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| 11/17/2007 12:53:23 PM |
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superheroscoo
Garden City, KS
age: 24 online now!
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Good times man. I know many well-mannered and educated women here too--they work with me. I guess I am just not too keen about dating people I work with. We will see where it goes. 
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| 11/17/2007 1:24:57 PM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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it may be they are hitting on you for that--if you feel it's too much the way bsomeone comes on to you esp w/o a picture report them if you don't receive a decent response esp not knowing the moron...
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| 11/17/2007 1:36:59 PM |
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sm0ky
Fort Worth, TX
age: 41
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It's the closet thing to free sex we can get
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| 11/17/2007 1:38:00 PM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50 online now!
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DUDE! Ya scarin me w/that  closet thang ya got goin' on..............
SUNSHINE ........please don't take my sunshine away .........
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| 11/17/2007 1:48:14 PM |
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luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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I agree with Wnddragon...not all the men are like that...you must be looking in the wrong places! And, ignore the ones that are all about sex..if thats all they want..then there is a little button there that says...go away, and they have to leave you alone!
JMO..
Luvin
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| 11/17/2007 1:49:20 PM |
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tygr831
La Crosse, WI
age: 36
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I could get sex at most of the bars here. The reason I'm on here is to find someone who wants to be serious by what I say because, let's face it, pictures really don't give the best impressions.
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| 11/17/2007 1:57:21 PM |
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slingblade69
Mantua, NJ
age: 37 online now!
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well if there are men here just looking for sex you have to tell the 2 girls that are here with me right now reading this stuff drinking shots and saying damn right thats why their here its not just men!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 11/17/2007 3:29:31 PM |
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wickedchild
Fountain, CO
age: 32
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Not all men are here for sex , that's just the incentive . I got on here for the forums themselves and to meet new cool peeps . And I have . There is also a someone that I would love to meet in person . I've talked with her on the phone , and if she makes me laugh half as hard in person , then I will persue a relationship with all my heart ( as evil and twisted as it is ) .
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| 11/17/2007 3:39:42 PM |
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the_extravert
Kanata, ON
age: 31
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All guys go through the sex crazed stage.
But what tends to be fogotten ( and alot of my sex has been for / about this ) is the need to find a partner that is sexually compatible with your likes and dislikes, that line between intimate and fun sex.
Knowing that as you grow as a person with whom you've discovered to be someone that you consider starting a life with to any degree, that sex won't be a facter in deciding to end your relationship........
god I hope that made sense and that I'm not alone on this one
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