| 5/9/2009 8:32:16 AM |
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miss313
Columbus, OH
age: 53
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its been hard to find 50's and 60's year men to chat with dont know why? one said i was to short and he was not looking for that , i think just to chat with , i told when i sit in my computer chair my feet touch the floor ,is there love after 50 on these dating sites, this is my first thread blessed be
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| 5/9/2009 8:35:39 AM |
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junebug101
Coalinga, CA
age: 52
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Yeah there is love after 50, just hang in there and I know that is hard to do, but love kind of sneaks up on you when you least expect it. 
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| 5/9/2009 8:41:10 AM |
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looking4_prince
Twin Falls, ID
age: 56
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Put something on your profile to give someone an idea of what to even chat about..all I got was your name and that you are in healthcare and short...doesn't give one much to go on...
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| 5/9/2009 8:48:17 AM |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 61
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Depends on the kind of love you are looking for. A knock your socks off love or a comfortable love. Face it, at our age, knock your socks off love is going to be very rare. A comfortable love is very possible.
I see a lot of women claim they will settle for nothing but the best or exactly what they are looking for. In my opinion they are being unrealistic. Not someone I would want to waste time over.
Now if you are looking for a comfortable love. Someone that cares about you, loves you, and becomes your best friend. Someone that is not perfect, someone that will accept you as you accept him. That is very possible at this time in our life.
Post on the forums, let people get to know you. Write to men that interest you. Expect not to hear back from a number of them, but keep at it. Might take a while but there is someone out there for you.
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| 5/9/2009 8:52:03 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 57
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perhaps post first in your Ohio regional threads (local to you) then expand...if you treat your profile as a resume; just believe there is one job opening once your profile gets into the right hand...and you're the pick
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| 5/9/2009 8:57:19 AM |
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robcha
Calhoun, LA
age: 54
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is there love on dating sites? Not this one. This is nolonger a dating site, its a chat forum where the same people hang out and talk about not much and it is used as a political opinion forum. Look at all the topics on these pages and not many are designed to meet anyone.
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| 5/9/2009 8:59:59 AM |
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miss313
Columbus, OH
age: 53
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very good advice thank you all , and yes i will update my profile , blessed be
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| 5/9/2009 9:05:22 AM |
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me100
Warsaw, IN
age: 53
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yes there is love on this site and others.look at my pic.we met here and so have others still on this site.you have to mingle with others not just rely on your profile.its like when you go to a bar...if you dont talk to people you wont have much fun or get to know anyone.....good luck in your search...
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| 5/9/2009 9:08:13 AM |
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junebug101
Coalinga, CA
age: 52
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"Now if you are looking for a comfortable love. Someone that cares about you, loves you, and becomes your best friend. Someone that is not perfect, someone that will accept you as you accept him. That is very possible at this time in our life."
I have to agree with you Chucky, this is possible, and if you find the knock your socket off type, well that just a great bonous Good response
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| 5/9/2009 9:54:32 AM |
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whidbey
Normal, IL
age: 58
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I agree with Chucky and June to a point, but I think a "comfortable love" can still knock your socks off 
When I worked in real estate the truism about our buyers was "all buyers were liars", If they said they wanted the west side of the island, which had more spectacular views, 9 times out of 10 they found the house of their dreams on the east side of the island with more protected views.
I suppose that truism could be applied to myself in my dating life. If I have the picture of my "perfect" companion, I just might miss that perfect, comfortable companion and lover who will knock my socks off.
Some great thoughts are offered up here for the OP -just keep yourself open to possibilities, and enjoy the friendships you make along the way. I think then love will find you
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| 5/9/2009 9:54:52 AM |
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copa156
Toms River, NJ
age: 56
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Anything is possible...you never know where love will come from, and/or what kind. Anyone who is bitter about love or life will be bitter about anything, including the forums.
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| 5/9/2009 12:14:59 PM |
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shari1955
Butler, KY
age: 54
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yes I also was a Realtor and yes all buyers were liars but we also said sellers are tellers lol..And copa you are right. Keeping your head up and walking tall, make sure your attitude is good. There is not just white and black areas. There are also gray areas. To fit into one of those areas you open your heart, mind and soul up to permit someone in.
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| 5/9/2009 12:50:42 PM |
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stormecho
Leechburg, PA
age: 58
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So tell me where all the men are that want a comfortable love?
Most men on these sites seem to just want a notch in their belts,
so to speak.
And not hoping to offend anyone.....but that is what I've been
encountering....sorry.
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| 5/9/2009 1:00:55 PM |
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sherry3512
Louisville, KY
age: 50
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Well, Miss, just my opinion, but your profile says "new" so I'll go out on a limb and assume you really are new and not one of those who has come back with a different name. Anyway, I see you already have five friends -- all of them male -- so it would appear you're well on your way to getting what you want.
Your post is sort of confusing. First you're looking for people to chat with, then you're wondering about love. There's a big leap between chatting and love . . . at least in my world.
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| 5/9/2009 3:34:40 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48
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Sorry but I can't even find love before 50, in fact, I can't even find like 
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