6/1/2009 5:17:11 PM |
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wightnight
Leesville, LA
age: 31
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if ur dating some one n find out she cheated on u (even though the relatoinship was already on da rocks)and then find out she didn't use a condom n da child she's carrying may not be yours after th kids born n u find out he/she is yours could you forgive her and ladies do you think a guy should forgive you and if so why
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6/1/2009 5:37:50 PM |
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sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
age: 50
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forgive yes trust? no probably not
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6/1/2009 5:58:47 PM |
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shaina1
Big Rapids, MI
age: 36
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Well i think each person will react differently to this situation.It all depend's how much you love her and she loves you and if your willing to put it behind you and move on.The trust thing will be in yyour head and that's the only down fall,but it can work it just depend's on the both of you not just you .....Good luck
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6/1/2009 6:00:17 PM |
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angelfire65
Mountain Home, AR
age: 44
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It depends on you, what does your heart say is right for YOU?
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6/1/2009 6:07:26 PM |
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sagiv
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 29
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Forgive, but never forget.
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6/1/2009 6:11:19 PM |
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kwietkptkatie
Las Vegas, NV
age: 40
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There's 2 sides to every story, do you blame her? Is the relationship on the rocks due to your getting bored, were you both wanting to leave? The no condom thing, that's not cool. I mean, she could of gotten AIDS or herpes instead of pregnant.
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6/1/2009 6:38:28 PM |
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sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 42
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if ur dating some one n find out she cheated on u (even though the relatoinship was already on da rocks)and then find out she didn't use a condom n da child she's carrying may not be yours after th kids born n u find out he/she is yours could you forgive her
Absolutely!
and ladies do you think a guy should forgive you and if so why
Can't answer this without hearing her side of the story first
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6/1/2009 6:45:47 PM |
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liberalextinct
Anderson, IN
age: 27
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Never forgive never forget
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6/1/2009 6:53:01 PM |
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rocket000
Murrayville, GA
age: 51
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Not knowing the history and patterns of your relationship, I will suggest you both go to counseling and see "if" this relationship is "worth" saving. You both saying "you'll change" is meaningless and not realistic. You need to learn appropriate behaviors and boundries in dealing with one another. Keep in mind that many relationships are NOT worth saving. Unfortunately, when we are the ones who are hurt and/or wronged it's difficult to see at the time.
Good luck to you.
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6/1/2009 7:20:44 PM |
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tallangel64
Lincolnton, NC
age: 45 online now!
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Could and should are two totally different concepts. You probably should forgive if you love someone otherwise the bitterness can overcome you. Could I forgive? Absolutely not; right ot wrong thats just my personality. Cheating is something I can not forgive and will not forget.
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6/2/2009 10:32:30 AM |
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izzystradlian12
Tupelo, MS
age: 32
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no i wouldn't forgive if my girlfriend cheated on me
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6/2/2009 10:36:50 AM |
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raen
Sunman, IN
age: 39
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well i believe when there are children involved the situation becomes more of a "can we get along w/ what has happened and make the best of it"...........so i guess the first step is u need to do alot of soul searching and decide what ur heart can accept and what is most important to u. I am not a fan of on and off relationships....either it works or it doesnt and i move on. Why dwell on what has happened u cant change the past.......focus on today and mayb things will be a lil clearer. But anywhooooooo good luck and i am thankful its not me.
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6/2/2009 10:39:46 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
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If she cheated then forgive her.. then forget her.
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6/2/2009 10:51:16 AM |
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dixiegirl71574
Thibodaux, LA
age: 34
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not knowing the situtation between you two, its hard to say.
But from experience.... forgive, never forget. once a cheat always a cheat; male or female
good luck to you
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6/2/2009 3:12:05 PM |
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soulcrazy
San Clemente, CA
age: 40
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HELL NO, I wouldn't forgive them. I would be there for my child but that is IT! She wasn't thinking about you while she was sliding those panties off!
[Edited 6/2/2009 3:12:34 PM PST]
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