| 11/24/2007 8:35:50 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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I have a tough time with winks to...
I feel (as a people pleaser?) to respond. Usually a thanks, see you on forums, my hearts in SF....whatever.
But then it becomes so obivious they haven't bother to read my profile... and here I am sending them an email!!!
I like winks for friends, though.
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| 11/24/2007 8:39:41 AM |
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55 online now!
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Thank you ladies...power to the people, I just deleted all the winks..and feel soooooo good about it!!
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| 11/24/2007 8:41:01 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Any of you--- what's your take on why men immediately want to know your offsite email address? Why don't they want to email me here?
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| 11/24/2007 8:42:33 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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nope... That would scare me.
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| 11/24/2007 8:44:00 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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I would think they want dirty pics or something. What can they do there (except stalk ya on IM) that they can't here?
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| 11/24/2007 8:45:52 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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My profile is pretty sketchy in yahoo (on purpose)... where my regular email is. I've noticed that once I've given them that email address, I sometimes don't hear back from them... so, I'm wondering what they may have thought they were going to find out from me by accessing that profile. Guess there's really no answer to that unless you have a crystal ball.
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| 11/24/2007 8:45:55 AM |
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55 online now!
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I have seen sites where for a price you can get more information if you know the persons email address, like a security check. I also think they sometimes would prefer to chat other then instant message here on the site. After all, it can be tricky when you have to many IM's going
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| 11/24/2007 8:47:37 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Lotus--- I just deleted the winks too... Ahhhh... now that feels better. I think from now on, I'll only answer emails unless the winks are from regulars I see or friends.
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| 11/24/2007 8:49:34 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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That's the truth! M-F I'm usually on with g/f's at work, one can have 5 windows open! I'm lucky to keep up with one and whatever I'm supposed to be doing.
That's another thing...IM requests, from someone I don't know? I admit I did it once...pic lust took over!
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| 11/24/2007 8:50:04 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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ok...let me try...
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| 11/24/2007 8:53:06 AM |
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55 online now!
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Leila...it is a good feeling, isn't it? I thank you and Stella for it, just needed a little push, I guess I have only shared my regular email with one person, and only because I felt very comfortable with it and we shared a hobby..photography. Other then that, I would keep my regular email to myself, until after meeting them face to face.
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| 11/24/2007 8:54:01 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Stella--- I know the pic lust thing too... Hey, we're human! LOL
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| 11/24/2007 8:54:21 AM |
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55 online now!
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all right Stella, you go girlfriend!!
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| 11/24/2007 9:00:26 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Hey--- maybe it's my "hat hair" that's getting all the winks...LOL
In that pic I had just taken off a cowboy hat and, of course, my hair was totally flat. It does let guys see me at my worst... I guess.
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| 11/24/2007 9:02:04 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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I was deleting, feelin good! Got through 2 pages..I really don't know what to do with them and guess who I had an email from?? Sandbagger...being a real person! WTF...I'm sure I shredded him in the post. He said he was wondering about my comment of making more friends here in 2 months than 2 yrs. WOW!  I told him I am what I am, real world or online, you get out of DH exactly what you put in.
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