
bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 26
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Im pretty extremist in my views(liberal) I boycott alot of stuff. I buy local. Im constantly fretting if I feel I've consumed too much food. And I've suddenly realised that all my "working on stuff" I haven't had a real friend in probably 7or8 years, and I broke up with my ex. 2 1/2 years ago. I want to start dating but there aren't any people like me where I live. So, do I just stay alone for the rest of my life like I have been? Or do I try to date some weirdo that thinks a good meal is at the McDonald's drive through? Im so confused- dont know the first damn thing about dating. Do I wait to learn how to make friends first, and keep waiting for a guy to just happen one day?
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 48
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belling take your time. I say there is always someone out there for everyone.. Youll find him dont be in a rush post on here and Im sure you will meet someone  
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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I agree with what gator59 said. Good things come to those who wait. I firmly believe that too.
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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chopper!
bell...lots of great people here, enjoy forums, then add them as friends.
gator...
[Edited 11/27/2007 9:07:55 PM]
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 52
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"learn how to make friends first, "
no, no need for social skills,, just a waste of time....
these other posts are correct, just wait, someone for you is out there.
"there aren't any people like me where I live"
do you have three eyes or four breasts?
have you tried writing to convicts in isolation? a captive audience and very appreciative.
gl..keep up the good work...
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34
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amen 
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nsew
Houston, TX
age: 36
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I would focus on communication hand in hand with confidence. If one is confident (strong mentally) noone can drag you down. You are as important as anyone. Realising that can be quite a challenge.
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34
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well put hun  
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bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 26
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thanx guys.
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uptoc
Castle Rock, CO
age: 47
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I gotta dig here..are you just wanting dating? you want a relationship with all that goes with it? I see the frustration so is it just the Itch? FOCUS IDENTIFY and go get it.I use the term KTA for motivation. stands for Knowledge Tools Action 
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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Hey Hippy Chick, it shouldn't be too hard to find someone who thinks like you if that is what you want. Go to a meeting with people of like minds and see if you find anyone interesting. Go into a book store and try and notice who's picking up books on subjects you are interested in. But then again opposites do attract sometime. How important is it to find someone that is similar to you?
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