| 8/30/2009 6:53:49 AM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 45
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Well not every one is going to think like you all. We all have different views,and if you don't want to bend a little for the person your with I don't think you will be with anyone. Love is a compromise Not what one person wants. kml your still letin that old guy control you.  Ya have to go to bed and tell your Self I don't want to be controlled by ___________ any more.
If I cant be my self ackwicked, then whats the point? Im the one that accepts their flaws and shortcomings, but I have to change for them? Something is wrong here..
Please tell me you're not telling me "let them be themselves, but you must do the changing?" cuz it isnt happeining.. If I have to change, then dammint they are tooo!!
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| 8/30/2009 10:39:35 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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what i'm saying is i had a friend, who if the guy liked fried bugs...suddenly, that's all we should be eating is fried bugs
compromise is a word, i am very familiar w/ i've done it my whole life
when is it my turn
hey, if we want to see two different movies...i'll let you see yours but next weekend we see mine
you want italian next weekend or month(for those conservatives) whatever, we do chinese
but please don't ask me to change my political stance, give up my dog, my family, my friends...and for gawd sakes...don't ever ask me to eat fried bugs
compromise is one thing...but complete make over of me and my personality
sorry, my self-esteem, just raised up a notch today, cause i remember who i am
[Edited 8/30/2009 10:40:51 AM PST]
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| 8/30/2009 12:22:39 PM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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There you must feel better . I am not saying you should give up anything but if you want a relationship you and Him should be able to flow as one. Some times it works and sometimes it don't. But it's better to let it go and try again OK
Finda Smile on every Face
Love in every Heart
And Sunshine in every Day
First Smile 
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| 8/30/2009 4:53:31 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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i get that, and yes...i am over him, i can say that honestly now
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| 8/31/2009 7:37:45 AM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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Hi JD and jj and kml, You are who you are and if a man wants to be with you he will adjust to your likes and dislike as well as you make adjustment to be with him. If he want only one thing it will be quite apparent from the start.
Ack, would have addressed this sooner but haven't been on. I was saying that in a joking manner. I, personally, don't get serious on this type of thread. I know there are nice guys out there. Just as there are nice girls out there. There are jerks too. But a lot of it has to do with just chemistry. And there is the issue of too many people making this a mission instead of just enjoying the time spent with no expectations.
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| 8/31/2009 7:40:57 AM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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Very nicely put JD
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| 8/31/2009 7:42:36 AM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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Awwwww, Thanks sweetie
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| 8/31/2009 7:43:47 AM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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Gotta git back to work LOL
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| 8/31/2009 8:10:08 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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i agree nice guys/gals, it's probably a 50/50 split...good and bad
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| 9/3/2009 8:50:29 AM |
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jimmyc41
Southampton, MA
age: 41
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I think so.
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| 9/3/2009 11:39:44 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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a good friend once told me to stop think and know you are....
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| 9/3/2009 1:08:30 PM |
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catman469
Framingham, MA
age: 57
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so what happened to all the folks following you? Did they pile up behind you while you were thinking ?
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| 9/3/2009 2:11:36 PM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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Gee Cat thats a lotta folks,Ya think?
[Edited 9/3/2009 2:12:01 PM PST]
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| 9/3/2009 2:29:28 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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Ack, would have addressed this sooner but haven't been on. I was saying that in a joking manner. I, personally, don't get serious on this type of thread. I know there are nice guys out there. Just as there are nice girls out there. There are jerks too. But a lot of it has to do with just chemistry. And there is the issue of too many people making this a mission instead of just enjoying the time spent with no expectations.
I agree,JD.....and for the record..in my humble oppoinion..I concider meself a nice guy....tho the jury's still out!!!!! 
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| 9/3/2009 3:19:18 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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a nice guy in arseless chaps
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| 9/3/2009 3:47:09 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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pssssst.....all chaps r assless , otherwise they'd be pants!!!
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| 9/3/2009 5:31:18 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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do you wear pants under yer chaps gear?
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| 9/4/2009 1:36:40 AM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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depends on where and who i'm with 
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| 9/4/2009 4:30:18 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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whoa, good answer...are we sharp today?
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| 9/4/2009 5:48:45 PM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 45
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I guess has to retire those chaps in the winter!1 Do ya put them away or do you drape them across a chair?
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| 9/4/2009 6:08:37 PM |
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lil_lee1
Chestnut Hill, MA
age: 23
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there are a few of us still out there 
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| 9/4/2009 6:24:25 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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good for you...stay straight, my friend..lots of happiness to you
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| 9/4/2009 6:24:36 PM |
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number1girl1234
Melrose, MA
age: 44 online now!
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lil-lee1, it firgures your saying your a nice guy,i am not saying you are not.But why cant you be closer to my age
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| 9/4/2009 6:33:14 PM |
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smartscript
Taunton, MA
age: 39
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yalil lee whats wrong with you man why arent you closer to her age wtf lmao
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| 9/4/2009 6:43:29 PM |
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jnkmn
Rowley, MA
age: 42
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Plenty of nice guys just have to know where to look .. here..
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| 9/5/2009 8:26:04 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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yes, you seem nice
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| 9/5/2009 11:52:29 AM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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Got Chaps?
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| 9/6/2009 1:06:02 PM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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Awwwww there's a nice guy , right age , jd we can get chaps LOL
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| 9/6/2009 1:47:17 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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I guess has to retire those chaps in the winter!1 Do ya put them away or do you drape them across a chair?
nope....i ride till the snow flys...then saddle roll'em up and put'em in the the trunk,till spring
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| 9/7/2009 9:41:16 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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ready made chaps
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| 9/7/2009 3:54:05 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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there was no one here to play w/ today
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| 9/7/2009 4:30:24 PM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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why didnt ya call me ???
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| 9/8/2009 1:07:27 AM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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I hate when that happens!!!!! 
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| 9/8/2009 1:17:48 PM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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No kidding. And it happens to all of us 'nice people'
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| 9/8/2009 7:42:17 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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i know we should have like pagers
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| 9/9/2009 12:57:41 AM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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oh plzzz.....i have one all day at work I hate the dam thing!!!! 
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| 9/9/2009 7:09:47 AM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 45
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Paging Dr. Fine, Dr. Howard, Dr. Gear.. now answer the damn thing, (If you're a nice guy you would)
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| 9/9/2009 7:19:20 AM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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Although, sometimes its cruel to be kind. Depends on the person your dealing with. I always start out kind. But some people prefer not to respect that and back off if your not interested.
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| 9/9/2009 8:07:49 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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i agree
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| 9/10/2009 1:00:00 AM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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Paging Dr. Fine, Dr. Howard, Dr. Gear.. now answer the damn thing, (If you're a nice guy you would)
I always answer...that's y I never get outta work on time
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| 9/10/2009 5:51:25 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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dr. gear....lol
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| 9/11/2009 12:54:06 AM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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i wish....they make ahell of alot more $$$$ than I do 
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| 9/11/2009 7:54:28 AM |
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jdgshines
Westford, MA
age: 50
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Wait a second, I recall another post where you reminded K and I money wasn't everything. LOL Which I do agree. Just sometimes one likes to do something that requires such. Like going to see Lioness play.
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| 9/11/2009 10:38:33 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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ask dr gear for some money
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| 9/11/2009 12:18:45 PM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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oh good,--- Gears got Money.
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| 9/11/2009 12:54:58 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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oh great ..a new rumor 
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| 9/11/2009 4:15:56 PM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 45
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hey why not Gear!! we need to be amused somehow!! So.. what kind of Dr. are ya?
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| 9/11/2009 5:53:29 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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doctor of LOVE!!!!!
hey gear...wanna play doctor???
(wiggly eyebrows inserted here)
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| 9/12/2009 6:42:11 AM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 45
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K is that an offer for the Dr? MM detect a private exam coming on?
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| 9/12/2009 9:15:22 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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just getting his blood circulating
all in good fun, right gear?
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| 9/12/2009 9:29:48 AM |
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ackwicked
Nantucket, MA
age: 62
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I think the Dr. when to the beach for a bit
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| 9/12/2009 9:40:20 AM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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yeah, he's definitely out to lunch today
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| 9/12/2009 4:03:06 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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could be an all day long exam 
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| 9/12/2009 4:24:17 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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what exactly would you be examining?
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| 9/12/2009 4:26:17 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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lady's choise
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| 9/12/2009 4:27:43 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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oh come on now, look who's sucking up
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| 9/12/2009 5:06:03 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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that's always an option
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| 9/12/2009 5:27:31 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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yo are on a roll tonight, sweetie...you are gonna sleep like a baby
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| 9/12/2009 5:46:25 PM |
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gearheads59
Methuen, MA
age: 49
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idk..ya wanta tuck me in????
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| 9/12/2009 5:53:28 PM |
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kml2008
Everett, MA
age: 40 online now!
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oh you said tuck....whew, okay
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