shycowgirl
Oak Run, CA
age: 50
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thanks sin.... you're a sweetheart. shy
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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Think about phone numbers for a second... if they have your phone number and they know you work the night shift at Whacko World, they can then go to your house and move your stuff to their place while you are gone.... or worse be waiting in the bushes when you come home at 1am.
The person you are giving that number to could be anybody of any sex, maybe the neighborhood child molester.
That "hot new babe" you just gave the number to could be the local burglar riding by your work to be sure you are there on his way to your apartment. Be very careful, in the wrong hands that number can give anybody your location, especially land lines. But cell phones are just as bad if you have the right access to records. Lots of people do.
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The new rules for the average person dating today is BBD. That is what drives a lot of divorces. One person in the relationship has decided that there is a BBD out there and they want "it."
Bigger
Better
Deal
If you are very lucky you will find someone that wants to take the time to know who you are and offer some level of friendship. If that is too much trouble then where is the realtionship going to be in 3 or even 6 months?
I'm old fashioned, I don't want to jump your bones on the first date, (I am sure there are exceptions... hehehe) I don't mind if you talk about your ex because that reveals a lot about a persons character and a bit about where the past relationship sits in your life. We all have relationship baggage unless we have been in prison. If that is the case I don't want to know about your "Ex". lol
I went out with a woman I met online and we eventually talked about our failed marriages a bit. Turns out she has the same mindset as my ex. NEXT! Glad I found out sooner than later. Whew!
Copter
[Edited 4/9/2007 8:36:29 AM]
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shycowgirl
Oak Run, CA
age: 50
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thanks copter. everything you said made alot of sense. i wish more men thought like you. shy
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joyc
Crestview, FL
age: 46
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Hi I am new to this site and it is nice to have all this good advice. I have been single for 15 yrs and it is still scary to me. nice to meet you.
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burnedonce
Duncan, OK
age: 68
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Natruel.....if you think pickings are slim where you are, you sure dont want to come to Oklahoma. They are more like nonexistent but on the bright side, at least its warmer down here. If I ever find a guy, I sure hope he aint from the "frozan tundra" . Im more of a "keep movin south " kinda gal, maybe Fl?
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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RULES! We don't need no stinkin' rules
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stilwater4u
Riverview, FL
age: 58
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The rules for me and this is just me ,first of all im here to meet new friends like everyone else ,I have my rules first of all im a gentelman and im honest ,but not perfect
.I like meeting woman chating and geting to know them I never kiss a woman first
dont have sex on the first date dont ask for phone #s . If Im interested in dating a laady I tell her how i feel for instance , I like to dance ,if she likes to then maby dancing is a good way to get to know a woman. The rules should be comon sense if you feel good about your instingts you move forward phone chat is a good way to talk before you meet for coffee to decide if theres a spark if ther is then you move to first date if it goes well you talk about second date and so on and on sloly you go comunicating get to know how she feels and what she wants as well as you ,if its ment to be it will be . so step one ,open your eyes and ears ,look and lissen .Time will tell . if you are not happy alone go out and meet someone . Ware ,mall ,grocery store ,dance club ,chirch ,flea maret .anyware there are people ,smile and make eye contact and let your common sense be your guide . If you are horney ,hold your panties on ,if you ware them. Take time build a good relationship memories last for ever make them good ones
. all im asking of a lady is to let me learn about her one step at a time I want to make love ,not have sex ,but then im not most men
I wanna know what a woman wants and what she likes . I hope this helps you ladies from a mans point of vue .
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 62
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Haven't been in this game for 20 years, got no idea of the rules.
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