| 12/2/2007 10:31:51 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 25 online now!
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ok i met someone on myspace and we talk on yahoo all the time she has a bf and she been with him for 3 yrs and she says he treats her like shit and hes controlling and she says that if i was close to her she would be with me. but see she talks to me for like maybe 5 minutes and then disappears for the rest of the night without a bye or anything. she asked me tonight if she was there with her what would i do, so i told her that if she was id look her in her eyes and tell her that i was glad you was here with me then she left.
do you guys think that shes just f*ckin with me or maybe her bf is around and she dont want to get caught or something like that.
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| 12/2/2007 10:35:46 PM |
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ylekiot
Carson City, NV
age: 51 online now!
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Leave it dude. You don't need that shit man.
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| 12/2/2007 10:37:14 PM |
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brokenbridges
Augusta, KS
age: 36
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She is playing games. If she has been with him that long, she isn't leaving him. People like that are not worth it! Your young and there are lots of good girls out there, be patient and if you have any doubt, walk away!!!!!
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| 12/2/2007 10:38:06 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 25 online now!
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thats what i thought too i thought to myself if she was with him for 3 yrs she aint gonna give him up. when someones with someone that long its like a life sentence they might break up or whatever but they will end up back together ive seen it happen lots of times. but yeah i think im falling into a trap.
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| 12/2/2007 10:39:51 PM |
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brokenbridges
Augusta, KS
age: 36
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She likes the attention, the poor ole feel sorry for me bit. Hate to say it, but females are good at it.....
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| 12/2/2007 10:40:13 PM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50 online now!
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I think she's playing you. Maybe she wants to get some cheap thrill before being with her BF
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| 12/2/2007 10:40:19 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 56
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If it looks, smells and tastes like shit, no doubt it is. Sounds like she's playin' with ya. Hell, he might be right there with her laughing his ass off. It's always funnier at someone elses' expense.
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| 12/2/2007 10:41:39 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 25 online now!
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yeah i thought that shit too actually i thought bout all that shit hell i thought that he might even be the one typin.
i aint gonna talk to her anymore unless she proves to me in some sort of way that shes for real. like a webcam or something.
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| 12/2/2007 10:43:43 PM |
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mugan
Poplar Bluff, MO
age: 25 online now!
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Leave it alone man. Its most likly a head game. If its not then put yourself in his shoes. And if you two do get together there is going to be baggage. Read my post "Pain... Help or Hinder" 
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| 12/2/2007 10:44:12 PM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
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probly a 13 yr old dude playin on mom and dads computer.
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| 12/2/2007 10:45:49 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 25 online now!
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she says she lives with him and she says he dont care what she does which i dont believe i didnt believe that from the time she said it. she says shes easily manipulated he convinces her to have sex with him. which i doubt too shes willing more like.
my song for her lol
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| 12/2/2007 10:52:13 PM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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how can he be both controling and yet not care what she does? hmmm that doesn't add up... I'd make sure she isn't a minor first off.. but even if she is of age, is it really worth the BS you are currently going through? There's plenty a more fish in the sea, don't get stuck on the one that is already someone else's dinner. Besides, say things work out someway, and you too end up together, what's to say she won't play the same game again.????
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| 12/2/2007 10:53:30 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 29
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darth, if you're like me, you have/had trouble seeing women as guilty, because you've been raised to see men as the ones who have an overactive libido and cheat and play head games, but the truth of the matter is that some women do it too. Some stay with their man because of fear of being alone or whatever but when he fails to meet their emotional needs as far as support, tenderness, etc. are concerned, have NO problem going online to string some poor sap along for as long as he'll stay hooked. My advice, like everyone else is to just bail on her and go find someone that is unattached. Course, like a lot of us, you sound like you kind of already know the answer, you just need to hear it from others. Trust your gut. It's there for a reason. Don't waste another iota of emotional energy trying to be there for someone who's stringing you on like a dog on a leash. There ARE some good women to be found online, but this chick  is not one of them. If she was truly ready for a relationship, she'd have dumped this other joker even IF you'd never shown up. She's clearly not ready for a truly independant/healthy relationship and it sounds like you are or at the very least, are getting there. Gotta say I'm not too wild about the song though. Pretty deroggatory towards women as far as language.
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| 12/2/2007 10:53:52 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 25 online now!
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yeah shes just playin games for real, i aint talkin to her no more. i'll watch her talk and be like why aint you talkin to me  and shit like that haha then i'll just ignore her.
before i bail out im gonna leave her some nasty offline messages though haha.
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| 12/2/2007 11:02:28 PM |
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dragonflys
Saint James, MO
age: 46 online now!
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Yeah Darth....keep reading Yankee's post.....and follow his advise...You deserve better anyway...and ya gotta work on your self esteem issues....if you don't believe in yourself, who will? I got that from another thread you started earlier...your gonna be alright...I think your tryin too hard....just hang around and let things happen....patience grasshopper...patience 
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