| 12/3/2007 9:28:19 AM |
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sneakypeak
Oak Hill, WV
age: 42
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I was told by several co-workers the other day, that my boss likes me. They seem to think he likes me for more than just a boss-co-worker relationship. I laughed at them at first, cause he jokes around with ALOT of women where I work, but after they pointed this out, I watched more carefully during the course of the day, and OMG, I think they are right! My question to you is.......do I wait and see where he goes with this?, or do I approach him and just flat out ask him about it? I've always thought highly of him from the start, and I don't wanna hurt anything we may possibly already have, but damn it, I'm curious as hell!!!! So come on people, give me some help here. What to do?
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| 12/3/2007 9:31:43 AM |
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antiwhatever
Powell, TN
age: 47
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flirt with him and see how he reacts....
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| 12/3/2007 9:33:15 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Oh hell no!! Flirting with a coworker/boss=Bad News!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/3/2007 9:33:44 AM |
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sneakypeak
Oak Hill, WV
age: 42
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We DO flirt, all the time! But I don't know if it's just in fun, or if he's really serious! Make sense? I can't be sure, cause he never follows up with anything
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| 12/3/2007 9:36:02 AM |
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sneakypeak
Oak Hill, WV
age: 42
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I think so too Peachess, but my heart is telling me something else. Curiosity has the best of me. 
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| 12/3/2007 9:36:31 AM |
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big_joel
Ash Flat, AR
age: 55
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dont go there
just post a sign on your desk
all meetings must be done off the clock and that time you can take your chances
its a very sticky situation at best
be very careful
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| 12/3/2007 9:37:38 AM |
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peregrina
Lumberton, NC
age: 52
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 girl, if it was me and I was interested, I wouldn't ask him directly but show some interest too in a frendly way  ..... got me? Some guys loose interest if a girl is too open...... . So sneak around it and good luck
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| 12/3/2007 9:37:46 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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ewwwwww! Sorry, That's a very sticky situation...I'd tread like I was walking on eggshells if I were you lol....Be careful and don't jeporadize your job first and foremost. Good Luck
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/3/2007 9:48:06 AM |
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sneakypeak
Oak Hill, WV
age: 42
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Thanks everybody! I know I have to be careful not to lose my job. Plus, if there really isn't anything there, I'd be sooooooo embarrassed!! I'm not one to persue, I like BEING persued.... I'm still open for more suggestions!! 
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| 12/3/2007 9:57:39 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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sneakypeek I see red flags all over this, I had a boss that had a huge crush on me, and he was married, the more I started dating the more it pissed him off, he even blurted out in from of customers " So Romie how many of my customers have you screwed " I was so embarressed, he gave me so much shit at work I quit the job, I also filed to sexual harassement charges on him while working there, even still today after not working there for 2 years when I see him hes still an asshole, sweetie you have to much to lose if you go for this and it doesn't work out, meaning your job, reputation in the company all kinds of stuff, there are way to many fish in the sea, don't feel this fish should be caught.
Good luck to you.
~Romie~
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| 12/3/2007 11:13:40 AM |
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reggiefoxxe
Phoenix, AZ
age: 46
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You're screwing up!
I know that it really feels good to have something to look forward to. But this office crap turns so sour, so quick, all the time!
And too many mature-acting people turn into assinine juveniles as soon as you want to break things off or choose not to behave as they wish for you to.
Having said all of that, let him make all of the moves, and if he finally decides to proposition you, question his motives every step of the way.
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| 12/3/2007 11:16:22 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
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Are u kidding me? You should know u cant get involved with your boss, I mean unless you dont care about your job! Mike
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| 12/3/2007 11:18:15 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50
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Do not mix business with pleasure...unless you want the gossip on how you made it to the top....LOL
After hours...
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| 12/3/2007 11:18:21 AM |
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enahsforyou
Grain Valley, MO
age: 38
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| 12/3/2007 11:40:28 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
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You dont want to go there believe me.
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