| 12/3/2007 5:57:29 PM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 34
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And people wonder why I have no one as my featured friend. I don't want anyone to know who my friends are because they could be a shit bags next target. Sorry guys for the ones that are really nice and are good friends. I am trying to to generalize, but it is really tough. I still love most of you.
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| 12/3/2007 5:58:29 PM |
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splitlicker
Stockbridge, GA
age: 43
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Me4 I think you should post his name so everyone will know who he is and that way another woman will not be taken advantage of I think everytime one of you ladies are played by these assholes you should post it on here. Again I am married and myt wife knows that I come on here I am not trying to screw around on my wife and again I offer my number to any woman that wants to call and talk to my wife so she can prove to herslef and to any other female on here that I am not a peice of shit trying to hurt any of you ladies
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| 12/3/2007 5:58:38 PM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52
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Moore,
I dont think its quite 99 percent
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| 12/3/2007 6:09:21 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
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me4, so sorry for your problems. At least you are here to help others know that things are not what they may seem sometimes. I have never before now, been online or date online and right away I knew that I did not want a friends list or to answer IM messages. The first nude photo also now, has me leary of opening photos sent. Please continue to share your knowledge...
..you also talk like he is still here...is he? give some ideal of who to watch for please
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| 12/3/2007 6:11:34 PM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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| 12/3/2007 6:14:38 PM |
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kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51 online now!
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I too am sorry this happened to you not even right. Thank God not all men are shitheads but there is always a few bad apples in the barrel sucks though 
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| 12/3/2007 6:18:03 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53 online now!
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I'm sorry that happened to you, Me4!!!...and I'm sorry for his wife too! What a piece of shit he is! But...i'd like to think that most guys on here or other sites are genuine..i hope anyway, cuz i sure am!
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| 12/3/2007 6:48:36 PM |
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cherry6000
Anaheim, CA
age: 45
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was he cute? Just kidding. Not all men are like that. The last man I dated was so funny, I got a copy of his divorce papers, SS# and aids testing. It sound strange, but I was glad to have that info. We dated three years.
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| 12/3/2007 7:09:33 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 47
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I too am sorry this happened but very glad you found him out. This is exactly the reason I am reluctant to answer someone from any site. Of course most come right out and say they only want no strings blah blah blah..... But I've run into my share of those who are in relationships and lie about it and yes they do try to turn it around and blame you. I don't want to be alone but I'd rather be safe. When I joined this site I thought how nice it would be to have a "beware link". There are good people but it is hard to tell....some very good liars out there too. I've been on the wife side of that hurt...other than a death there is nothing like it. I'd never knowingly hurt someone like that. Again, I'm sorry this happened.
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| 12/3/2007 7:20:40 PM |
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dragonflys
Saint James, MO
age: 46 online now!
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 Sorry me4....I wouldn't wanna be him right now....back to you....I know your angry and hurt right now, but to the brighter side, be thankful you haven't actually met him or gave your heart to this d*ck head ....he's not a man and doesn't deserve a good woman like you anyway......definately his loss. I hope you don't judge everyone from what this d*ck head did to you. Try to remember that the good ones out number the bad ones on here and sorry you had to go through those life lessons....BIG HUGS to ya girl...Dragon
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| 12/3/2007 7:23:10 PM |
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peregrina
Lumberton, NC
age: 51 online now!
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 sweetie, so sorry for the trouble you go thru with the jerks around DH. I'm glad you know how to keep your cool about it. Danm kreeps need to control their hormone level and become real men instead. To the real men in DH sorry you have to swallow the consequences  ..... wonder why we don't trust men? Blame in on the jerks  :
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| 12/3/2007 7:30:49 PM |
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wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41
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again and again..the jerks and a-holes rear their ugly mugs..for the world to see. and with the internet..they can spread their hate and ignorance that much faster.
As a reformed jerk, and to some..a-hole..I can honestly say I am sorry this happened to a wonderful gal like you..you certainly did not and do not deserve to be treated in this manner. Just hold on to the thought that though the weeds may stand tall..they will eventually give way to the clearing..where you once again will find the truly decent and honest people that will lift you up..stand by your side and not let you fall..
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| 12/3/2007 7:45:38 PM |
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1pinkstar
Omaha, NE
age: 55 online now!
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Again and again---ladies, we have to be smarter about these things.
Check at county courthouses for divorce decrees, call your local
Marriage license bureau. Take his license plate number down.
Ask around---we have to protect ourselves. Too bad things have to
be this way, but the kind of story me4 just wrote about happens way
too often.
My sister went out for months with a guy who claimed to be a widower.
He claimed he knew nothing about raising teenage girls, and asked
my sister for advice. He even said he was unable to go out one night
since it was the anniversary of his wife's death and he was not in
a mood for company.
Damned if his very much alive wife was not photographed at a charity
event and her picture posted on the front page of the society section
of the newspaper one sunday morning.
He was a jerk. I am sorry you went through this, ME4...you are just too smart for them!   
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| 12/3/2007 8:01:27 PM |
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haninra
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 35
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is hard to say anything other than offer comforts, I have a pet peeve regarding lies myself, in a similar situation I would likely be very upset.
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| 12/3/2007 9:57:14 PM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 34
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Thanks for the comments guys, but I wasn't dating this man........not even an attraction. I thought I was being a good friend to a person who needed it. That is it........he didn't break my heart or even get a chance at it. I only talked to him once or twice a wk and that was it. I feel bad for his wife.
To answer the other question...no he is not here anymore. He deleted his profile or his wife did. All this as done is piss me off not hurt me. I would have been his friend had he told me the truth. That shouldn't be such a hard thing to do, but it seems several on this site have a hard time with it.
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