| 7/27/2009 7:06:51 PM |
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mizunderst00d
Mobile, AL
age: 22
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When you decide to ask a girl you are dating(slowly falling for ) about her past sexual activities, do you really expect to hear that what she does with you in the bedroom she hasn't done it with anyone else? And why is it so hard for you to accept the truth after you ask the question? She's the type that won't lie to you. Hide anything from you. That's why you want to be with her right? 
Ok...let me give you a question you can actually respond to. All the men out there reading this, how would you react to a woman telling you she has had a threesome with 2 men in the past? Before you met her, of course. How would you feel about her after that? How would this affect the good girl image that you have seen in her after maybe 2 months of dating? Would your respect for her slowly fade away?
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| 7/27/2009 7:09:36 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 35
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[Edited 7/27/2009 7:10:12 PM PST]
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| 7/27/2009 7:12:20 PM |
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mizunderst00d
Mobile, AL
age: 22
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You don't know? Wow. That's deep.
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| 7/27/2009 7:16:04 PM |
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slappyforu
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 31
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I think her sex life before me stays there...before me. What would it matter, only for u to find out what was in my closet...then what would u think of me....so i rather keep things as of sex we learned on the way...just that, in how we show eachother in the bed.
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| 7/27/2009 7:18:14 PM |
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unique14u
Roanoke, VA
age: 55
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i would let her make it up 2 me by bringing home a girlfriend and that way we both would have had a 3 some 
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| 7/27/2009 8:36:49 PM |
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2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
age: 40
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it will always be an issue why ask the before question is beond me i dont need to know and dont want to know cuz in time u will turn out fuked up i dont no why but it happens im not one to talk cuz i iz fuked up but not to others
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| 7/27/2009 8:49:33 PM |
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jd_1982
Mishawaka, IN
age: 27
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I wouldn't care.. whats in the past is in the past. "Only if I was falling for the girl in question though"....
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| 7/27/2009 8:54:35 PM |
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funtruckerman
Petal, MS
age: 55
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I wouldn't have any respect for her if she would go out with me in the first place.
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| 7/27/2009 8:57:14 PM |
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gridley
Painesville, OH
age: 48
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It doesnt what she did in the past I dont wanna know its none of my bizz anyway. As long as theres no skeletons in the closet.
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| 7/27/2009 9:02:30 PM |
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lookin4fun2_3
Killeen, TX
age: 23
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Really, i have asked that question a couple of times.. Lets put it this way.. I want to nothing about her past sexual activities with other men.. So i have learned not to ask.. Dont ask dont tell. thats how i like it.
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| 7/27/2009 9:10:00 PM |
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beachchickie87
Selbyville, DE
age: 21
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For me I tell them if you don't want to know the truth don't ask. That goes with everything. To me what I did with other guys is what I did with them. Just like what they've done in the past is the past. So your not a virgin. Tell them to get over it cause chances are they aren't either. JMO
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| 7/27/2009 9:10:32 PM |
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mmilesg
Lima, OH
age: 32
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When you decide to ask a girl you are dating(slowly falling for ) about her past sexual activities, do you really expect to hear that what she does with you in the bedroom she hasn't done it with anyone else? And why is it so hard for you to accept the truth after you ask the question? She's the type that won't lie to you. Hide anything from you. That's why you want to be with her right?
Ok...let me give you a question you can actually respond to. All the men out there reading this, how would you react to a woman telling you she has had a threesome with 2 men in the past? Before you met her, of course. How would you feel about her after that? How would this affect the good girl image that you have seen in her after maybe 2 months of dating? Would your respect for her slowly fade away?
So, let me get this straight. You willingly portrayed yourself to be a good girl when you really weren't and when you told the one you were chasing about the bad side in you, he didn't quite respond the way you wanted him to because you wanted to keep the good girl image that you led him to believe in? Wow that's a rough one. I have to say that if you don't talk it out, you won't end up with this one. If you do there will always be tension there in that area or subject. Without talking about it, feelings and emotions will build up until they finally burst. When those bubbles burst, it's no telling what will happen.
Would my respect for her fade? It all depends on how willing she is to talk about it. If she's willing to have an open discussion or conversation on the matter, then no, I'd respect her the same. Well, unless she dwelt upon this. Then I would just dump her on the first street corner. It is just sex after all.
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| 7/27/2009 9:15:34 PM |
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86bamagoon
Fayetteville, NC
age: 23
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I'm from mobile too, prichard actually it's alot of that going on in P.A. mizzundastoood
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| 7/27/2009 9:34:36 PM |
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mizunderst00d
Mobile, AL
age: 22
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I'm not saying the woman would be portraying herself to be a good girl. She's being real with him. Not hiding anything. He's getting the real her. He just assumes that,i guess you could say, a girl who would do something like have a threesome has to act a certain way. And because this woman doesn't, he thinks she must have been hiding something all along. It's almost like women get thrown into stupid categories based off of their past actions when we are just as human as men. We do things that we wish we could take back too. And we do experiment. With no intentions of having repeats.
But i did like your response...everything except the throw her on the corner part.
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| 7/27/2009 9:41:03 PM |
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mizunderst00d
Mobile, AL
age: 22
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I'm from mobile too, prichard actually it's alot of that going on in P.A. mizzundastoood
Tell me about it. Bunch of nastiness going on in these parts.
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