| 7/30/2009 3:47:23 PM |
i almost lost it |
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cgrl2
Norristown, PA
age: 47
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Well obviously there is a problem. How you handle it from
here is going to show the man that you are.
A man of character, integrity and strength would just call her, tell her
to get her crap out of my house by the time I get home and get out.
Call your friend and tell him you need time and not to contact you -
Put them both on ignore and go on with your life.
Do you really need this drama? Obivously there is something going on.
Do you really need all the details??? Just walk away. Show what you really
Are - a man that has much more character, class, integrity and honor then
they could ever have because of thier sneaky lying ways.
You dont need validation from cheats and liars. Thier stories will not only
not satisfy your anger - may make it worse but why even listen to it ?
You know what happened and because of the kind of people they are can you even
trust what comes out of thier mouths - why give them the opportunity to
lie to your face and just make you more angry.
You are above it- just move away from toxic people in your life.
[Edited 7/30/2009 3:48:25 PM PST]
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| 7/30/2009 9:15:22 PM |
i almost lost it |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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Learn how to pick better women.
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| 7/31/2009 12:00:28 AM |
i almost lost it |
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midnightgambler
Memphis, TN
age: 32
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If your already seeing somebody then why are you on here? Just sayin. Are you still looking for the next best thing, she was just filling your time or what. If that is the case, why would you be so upset that she did the same thing too you?
You could ask that in most threads as many people here say they are in relationships which should tip people off to never trust them, i.e. that insulting guy/moron.
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| 7/31/2009 12:04:03 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Looks like your being sneaky too. I almost dont blame her. Maybe your friend knows what a playa you are and is soothing your girls pain while you are playin. Maybe your profile should say in a relationship instead of didnt say huh huh huh?
Men like you are the reason we go running into other mens arms. Just make sure you wash your sheets when you get home. Im sure they are making them nice and stinky 
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| 7/31/2009 12:20:13 AM |
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jefferson_darcy
Old Bridge, NJ
age: 29
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can i be the man who's arms you run into babygurl? 
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| 7/31/2009 12:45:21 AM |
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ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
age: 33
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Just make her move out.......................it's too many fish in the sea for you to go to jail over her.
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| 7/31/2009 4:35:02 AM |
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3asygoing
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
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Are you saying you cheated on somone becasue they made you do it? Running into another mans arms while hooked up with somone else would pretty much make a declaration of cheater. I could be wrong here and I thought you were better then that. Just how I view it and Ill apologize if I seen the wrong thing ,this just looks like a crazy staement.
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| 7/31/2009 5:05:06 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 61
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Taken on face value, I would have to question why it was necessary for her to be staying at your place while you are off somewhere else if you two are merely dating. Oh and BTW, if you are merely dating, she can bed anyone she wants. There were no promises, rings or trips to city hall, right? And what kind of "friend" would do your date while you were out of town? You sure mix with the wrong crowd.
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| 7/31/2009 5:54:15 AM |
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tryagaindj68
Evansville, IN
age: 41
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OP, sounds like your friends and your woman are perfect for each other.
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| 7/31/2009 8:06:03 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Are you saying you cheated on somone becasue they made you do it? Running into another mans arms while hooked up with somone else would pretty much make a declaration of cheater. I could be wrong here and I thought you were better then that. Just how I view it and Ill apologize if I seen the wrong thing ,this just looks like a crazy staement.
My ex husband beat me so you bet I went into someone elses arms. Wrong thing to do yes, I should have left but when your abused its not that easy. So look down on me all you want I don't care. My life my mistakes, my lessons learned
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| 7/31/2009 8:13:03 AM |
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justpeekiing
Los Angeles, CA
age: 48
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I was cheated on while on one of my travels and not a good feeling. Thats part of the reason why I can't deal with a relationship. I'm gone away from home alot and gives him too much room for play, and yes it was with a long time friend of mine, didn't realize she was jealous of eveything I have. I just hope they are happy.
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| 7/31/2009 9:34:31 AM |
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eveapple
Allentown, PA
age: 40
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move on... make another step.. 45'... u are young guy... some day u going to find what do u want...
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| 7/31/2009 9:48:04 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Olathe, KS
age: 49
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toss the b*tch to the curb 
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