garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 47
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I am one of those plump persons..I am always upfront about it and would show a pic if ask. I did have one up but after I saw the language and the things said in these forums I thought it best to take it down. It doesn't matter if you have a pic up or not...I do get emails and winks. I'm not really looking for a date etc...if it happens it happens but I really doubt it will. Not because of what I look like but because I have different expectations. I'm sure everyones reason is different and it isn't always because one is married or separated. However I'm sure many times it is the case.
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dadoftheyear
Denton, NC
age: 27
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Hey, I guess I'm one that does post a picture. So there you go.
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godkill
Damascus, MD
age: 31
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i am posted.
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thankuvets
Choctaw, OK
age: 39
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One thought too is some folks may not be able to post a pic, I had to go along way around to get mine up, send a pic to my email sent that to my step mom since I am recently divorced I have to borrow a computer to do this....
See, I had the house but I gave it to my EX, my kids love the house and the school and I was not about to make it hard on them. We had land, big house, and that was not fair to them. So I left, so there are always reasons, I agree some are not for good reasons, but some are.
However, I agree, I much prefer a picture, I am not some bodybuilder, but you still have to be somewhat attracted to a persons look, but also, some guys like bigger woman, some dont, some women prefer tall men, or short, or a bit bigger, or very well toned.
I believe picking a person based solely on looks is a disaster waiting to happen. You might find a hunk bodybuilder that is a wacko and pass up a man that would kill himself to love you..
Just so you know, I love to spoil my women, I am very devoted, and the ones that have looked passed my size would be very happy to have me.
JMO...
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sugarmagnolia1
Burns Flat, OK
age: 40
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I tried to post a pic and apparently it didn't take. 
Maybe when I get to the house I can try again.
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big_joe_420
Springfield, MO
age: 31 online now!
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i had too use a web cam but my pics are a little hippy side.some weman like my long hair but some dont,ether way i think a person should not be juged by looks alone thats like jugeing a book by its cover you never know whats in side...
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discgolfer47
Grand Rapids, MI
age: 47
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People are judged way too much solely based on what they look like.
Could be the hottest person on here, but if you are a jackass, or a b*tch, then what good does it do to be attractive?
My picture has been posted on here from day one.
Still women dont contact me....or worse yet completely ignore me if I email them (jazzyok)
Could at least have the common courtesy to return emails.
Regardless if you find that person interesting or attractive.
You cannot tell what is in a persons heart, by the way they look.
Sometimes I think it's better to get to know somebody BEFORE you see their picture...
Rather than basing whether you talk to them solely on their physical appearance.
Happy Holidays.
Chuck
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rebel1957
Beckim Settlement, NB
age: 50
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While I have posted my pictures and like to see the pictures of others on here I think it is really up to the individual . Call me shallow if you want but I feel physical attraction is equally important as chemistry and seldom reply to mailings or winks from people with no picture.
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