| 8/17/2009 10:36:06 PM |
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angeleyes1414
Morgantown, WV
age: 41
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Will a man want to make love less often if he works 14 hours a day 6 days a week or is he losing interest in the woman?he is constantly pushing me away saying he is tired but my heart tells me he is not being honest about his true feelings.
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| 8/17/2009 10:38:55 PM |
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iamincs
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 36
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Possibly, that's a hell of a work schedule, he could just be exhausted. If he says he's tired, why not believe him? Why assume he's lying?
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| 8/17/2009 10:41:48 PM |
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i_am_bill
Astatula, FL
age: 51
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Will a man want to make love less often if he works 14 hours a day 6 days a week or is he losing interest in the woman?he is constantly pushing me away saying he is tired but my heart tells me he is not being honest about his true feelings.
Probably alot more going on than you are saying, you are advertising on a dating site, I think there is more going on than having a tired overworked man. Bill
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| 8/17/2009 10:48:18 PM |
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ladyeden
Waynesville, MO
age: 50
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Ask him.
Talk with him.
Those are long hours tho, nor is he an ever ready teen.
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| 8/17/2009 10:55:09 PM |
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1ladodgerfan
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 30
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y ask .. go down there pop it in ur mouth 4 a while ... get him ready then jump on and go 4 a ride ... basically .. if hes to tired then u do all the work ...
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| 8/18/2009 12:25:54 AM |
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redyifur
Hicksville, NY
age: 49
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You need to get yer a** off this site and deal with your man.
[Edited 8/18/2009 12:26:10 AM ]
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| 8/18/2009 12:40:52 AM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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Will a man want to make love less often if he works 14 hours a day 6 days a week or is he losing interest in the woman?he is constantly pushing me away saying he is tired but my heart tells me he is not being honest about his true feelings.
who the hell is able to work 14 hrs a day in this economy? and i dont even think it matters what hes doing or why he doesnt want sex on here cause you are on here selling yourself. so therefore its none of your business.
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| 8/18/2009 1:39:52 AM |
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denbroni
Portland, OR
age: 32
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14 hours a day 6 days a week plus you got to figure in time to get ready in the morning and travel time so lets just call it 16 hours total each day. that leaves only 8 hours. If I was that person I would be tired too. I wouldnt stop having sex but it is true that your sex drive does down when your stressed and exhausted. But I agree with some of the other comments. Why not just ask him. Go straight to the source of the problem. All we can do is tell you what we think which means nothing. Just ask him and get the REAL answer.
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| 8/18/2009 4:55:27 AM |
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noredneckhere
Knoxville, TN
age: 50
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There ya go. Women complain when a guy doesn't make enough $$$$
Then, when he's busting his ass, while hers is prolly getting fat, she's on here complaining about sex. Why ARE you on here anyway ????
He's too good for you.
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| 8/18/2009 5:07:05 AM |
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camper15
Berwick, ME
age: 69
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"Will a man want to make love less often if he works 14 hours a day 6 days a week",
You got to be kidding me!
Been there, done that!
YES, it takes it's toll on sex drive!
Why is he working so may hrs?
Are you married or is he your boyfriend?
Is he supporting you?
Could you be his problem?
Could you be his solution?
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| 8/18/2009 5:09:56 AM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 49 online now!
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Poor guy... busting his a** working 6 days a week while you fool around on a dating site.
N i c e
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| 8/18/2009 5:14:32 AM |
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pythagora
Ravena, NY
age: 47
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Going out on a limb here but.........you could give it a whirl: YOU try working 14 hrs/6 days a week and see if your interest dwindles??
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| 8/18/2009 5:21:27 AM |
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faust_n_furious
Bakersfield, CA
age: 28
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Well, I am not a professional, although your question is a bit vague. I mean, how old is he? What type of person is he?
I doubt he would have time to cheat if he works so much and it is very possible the man's libido can be challenged at the moment due to such long hours. How long have you two been together? Sometimes having sex so directly all the time and expecting it can provide challenges as well.
The way I see it, relationships and sex seek more attention the longer you are together. The best way is to surprise him and see how he reacts. Eventually the man is going to need some or wear down. So if maybe (kids, cover your eyes for this part), he has gotten a fair amount of sleep one day, you wake him up with a bj and have a good dinner/breakfast/lunch waiting for him after he does what is required (which is make love to you). Or you could wake him up with the food there, and when he is done, do what I recommended.
But chances are, the man is very tired. Ever hear the phrase "My Kingdom for a Bed"? It just goes to show that for peace and quiet/sleep or anything a like, there is almost no price to pass it by for absolute rest.
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| 8/18/2009 5:24:51 AM |
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imrich29
Wessington Springs, SD
age: 61
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i used to work 20 hrs a day 6 days a wk but i always had time for her unless she came to bed after i did than she just as well nothing was going to h appen
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| 8/18/2009 4:54:54 PM |
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midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 40
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I would say that he knows about your screwing around and does not want anything to do with you. I know that would be my feelings. He is just waiting to prove it or find another place to live. As for working all of those hours, he probably do not want to come home anymore. can't blame him
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| 8/18/2009 5:13:22 PM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 63
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There ya go. Women complain when a guy doesn't make enough $$$$
Then, when he's busting his ass, while hers is prolly getting fat, she's on here complaining about sex. Why ARE you on here anyway ????
He's too good for you.
Nored!!!! Where the F have you been??????????? Did ya get lucky???????????????
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| 8/18/2009 6:49:08 PM |
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2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
age: 41
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well ive bin there and being away from home all day and all week well lets jst say u drift apart usualy the women doez so i think your full of shit,
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| 8/18/2009 8:38:15 PM |
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ladyvirtue1955
Redding, CA
age: 55
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My ex never pushed me away, not even when he was in the middle of his affair!..I don't know how to respond to your question as I've never been rejected intimately/sexually..sounds hurtful and I just might think something was up if that happend to me..
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| 8/18/2009 9:13:03 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
Springville, UT
age: 37
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A man who is totally attracted to you, should never be too tired to "shag". 
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| 8/19/2009 1:59:27 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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will a woman want to talk less often
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| 8/19/2009 2:15:52 PM |
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rinnz
Brattleboro, VT
age: 22
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Honestly? I think that more than likely a lot of it is the work, but some could be he's losing interest. Maybe you could try doing different things, there are ways to make a relationship work if both parties want it to.
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| 8/19/2009 2:23:03 PM |
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redyifur
Hicksville, NY
age: 49
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Those are some brutal hours I see he works 14 hours a day what does he drive a truck.
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| 8/19/2009 2:24:46 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 56
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If he's working with his d*ck
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| 8/19/2009 2:55:49 PM |
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rodneyg668
Seattle, WA
age: 37
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I'm with the other posters on this subject, why the hell are you on a dating site, with your status set to single? You're looking to cheat on him, after he works so many hours every week to help support you and care for you! No wonder he isn't interested in making love with you, on some level or another he knows what is going on and just doesn't want to touch you.
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| 8/19/2009 3:00:04 PM |
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lordguitar
Hollywood, FL
age: 34
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man, how the hell do u post a statement on ur own thread? my name is Danny. wasn't sure if she was talkin' to me or not.
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| 8/19/2009 3:54:40 PM |
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b4igo
Hickory, NC
age: 55
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How about try getting sexy with him and whisper sweet nothings in his ear,like: I GOT A PART TIME JOB SO YOU WON"T HAVE TO WORK 14-16 hours six days a week. Or try: HONEY MAYBE WE DON"T NEED ALL THE STUFF WE BUY. ( Just a thought but I bet that would turn him on)
Sorry I didn't even ask if there were kids involved but either way that's a lot of work.
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| 8/19/2009 3:57:59 PM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 49 online now!
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Hellooooooooooooooooooooooooo OP!!??!!
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| 8/19/2009 4:22:39 PM |
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bigmamano7
Olney, IL
age: 52
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You got a good man that works his--- off. be grateful you got a good man. and love him for that being a good man. Vicki
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| 8/19/2009 5:34:24 PM |
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goober82
Post Falls, ID
age: 28
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if you really want to have a good relationship and his working all these hours it what he really needs to be doing to live the life style you guys are then maybe finding times for small intimate moments would be more productive than going for the gold when hes too exhausted to get even a bronze. small touches, thoughtful little things like love notes in his lunches, his favorite desert after dinner, even a shoulder/back rub. Maybe then when hes not exhausted it will make him think of pleasing his lady and himself.
And quite frankly if theres a way for him not to have to work such ridiculous hours i would look for it. a man can only work that hard for that long without loosing more than just his libido. if you dont help with the bills at least help find a way to cut them so you both can find the time and energy to really desire each other. and yeah him finding his lady on a sight like this is not going to make him hot for you. you may think he would never see it but things have a way of coming out anyway. best for there not to be anyting to throw another wrench in an already stressed relationship.
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| 8/20/2009 5:59:54 AM |
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10_2ur_biz
Highland, CA
age: 45
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I feel for you sweetie, but it may something else. If he's not happy it could be depression or even worse. Ask him , be concerned in a soft and patient way.
[Edited 8/20/2009 6:00:21 AM ]
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| 8/22/2009 11:51:40 PM |
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angeleyes1414
Morgantown, WV
age: 41
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Maybe I should have said I was asking for a friend and not me. Nice advice everyone! No need to get nasty.
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| 8/22/2009 11:56:37 PM |
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smotpoke
Fernley, NV
age: 25
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have you ever worked 14 hour days 6 days a week thats a rough schedule i would say he is genuinely tired , but im sure he gets irritated quickly and it puts a strain on the relationship the question is can you handle it and is it worth it
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| 8/23/2009 12:19:02 AM |
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seawill
Asheville, NC
age: 37
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i have to agree with everyone else. if he is working that kind of schedule maybe he actualy cares that much about you that he doest want you to have to worry about the finances. i know sex is important but how good is the sex when u live ina van down by the river. Maybe ther is a way to take the burden offhim and then you can begin to sync up your sex life
i have always said- when u got the time you aint got the money , and when you got the money you aint got the time
i dont know im just sayin
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| 8/23/2009 12:26:54 PM |
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redebony
Spokane, WA
age: 52
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If you really think about it, he is working long hours to take care of the bills! Do you work to contribute to the household? What about giving him some TLC? A relationship is not just about sex. What about giving the working man a nice massage?
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| 8/23/2009 12:33:23 PM |
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heythere2u
Glen Burnie, MD
age: 26
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Maybe when he gets home froma long day at work you can do for him a little. What i mean is, let him relax a little and eat his dinner, if he is in a good mood- start giving him a mesage, then you can start to nibble on his ear lobe, move the mesage from his shooulders to his chest. Then go lower and lower, let him know you want him. WHile he sitting down move around to the front of him and sit on his lap. Kiss him passionalty and whisper all those things you want to do to him. get on your knees and give him what he really wants. and then when he..........whew wee i have to go now........
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| 8/23/2009 2:10:39 PM |
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yaneverknow52
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 55
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I'm with her!
Poor guy... busting his a** working 6 days a week while you fool around on a dating site.
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