What gives some people the right, to judge others ???

12/14/2007 12:16:03 PM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
lust4love Atco, NJ age: 37	Well if you don't have the right to judge others you could always hide behind the law.Like when people judge illegal immigrants or drug users.This makes your judgement politically correct and moral. right? Or you could blame them for a failing economy ,high costs, and global warming.You could judge them for building weapons of mass destruction or just hating the American way. these are all ok in america.
12/15/2007 12:01:45 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
mikey_1946 Neenah, WI age: 61	boy,, did this get off topic,, but thank you all........
12/15/2007 12:10:23 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
libra75 Lowell, AR age: 32 online now!	"Judge not, lest thee be judged yourself...."
12/15/2007 12:12:53 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
mikey_1946 Neenah, WI age: 61	thanks for your two cents worth,, I'll put it to good use.
12/15/2007 12:19:51 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
iwantyou_2 Lubbock, TX age: 41 online now!	emt854 Appleton, WI age: 53 view all: posts \| threads Per but if someone tries to help another and they reject the help does that give them the right to continue to complain about their problem? _________________________________________________________________________________________ emt...whoever has elected you queen b?...I know you have a good heart, I see it every day in your good deeds!,but you are letting your celebrity go to your head! This guy can complain about the same issues every day of his life if it makes him feel better... Personally, you have judged me from the first day I arrived, Ive told you I value some of your opinions, but by no means all... keep up the good work as Mrs. Matchmaker..but if we dont agree with your match, please dont take it personal, and expecially to heart! [Edited 12/15/2007 12:23:58 AM]
12/15/2007 12:24:56 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
amber24 Savannah, TN age: 23	hi, people judge me everyday of my life!! amber
12/15/2007 12:38:21 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
mikey_1946 Neenah, WI age: 61	Iwantyou,,,, I think you are hitting the nail pretty close,,,,,,, now we are both on her hit list,, But I have made some great friends anyway,, to be honest about her,,, she has helped me some, but then,, she can cut pretty deep too, maybe she doesn't remember how it felt before she found her hubby....... I just don't like putting anyones name down,, it can start a big argument, and I'm not into fighting..
12/15/2007 1:19:55 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
pwin_here_n_now Annapolis, MD age: 38	I have read through the posts... I agree with most (with the exception of those that are lost in emotional out bursts) Having said that, feelings are feelings, and should be expressed. They are valid....and I do heartfully acknowledge them as just that. Nothing that has been said is offensive to me in any way. I do however feel compelled to mention the "golden rule" - Do onto others has you would have done on to you... I bring this up, because it goes much further beyond that sentence, & I am currently raising my children by it - they know it, repeat it, and can expound on it, when Mom asks them to. Do onto others has you would have done on to you... It requires a person to consider the following: Is what I am about to do or say: 1) going to hurt someone emotionally or physically? 2) am I keeping in mind that my actions or decisions may have an unitended effect on others around me, possibly even strangers? 3) will the effect be one of joy or happiness, sadness or anger? 4) would I want the same thing said or done to me? & how would I feel? 5) I am not the only person in this space and time, thus my motion into action will have an effect - desirable or undesireable (no grey here). These are the basis of what I have worked so hard to instill in my children... On their level? They don't repeat the above... It is How do you feel when: you are hit, teased, made fun of, someone takes their anger out on you & you had nothing to with it, or someone treats you like you are stupid, or some one is bratty with you? (and the list goes on...)but it always ends with "Do you want to feel right now the way you are about to make your sibbling or friend feel (or the stranger they just plowed over, because they thought they were only people who could possiblely be going down that shopping isle, the whole time they were traveling it!) In a round about way, this relates to this thread (Jmo BTW) Judgement requires that the person Passing it- thinks that they have power, its their right, and they are better than the person they are passing upon.... And, usually, not always, it has a tendancy to be negative. Preferences - are different. They are a matter of taste, but also of how each person is naturally wired & sociallized. And many people here are mature, have had alot of experiences and are looking to "do it right" this time around. However, in order to do that.... one must have really taken some time to get reacquainted with themselves, And hopefully gotten Honest with themselves, as to what has, or has not worked out in the past with realtionships/ partners, and what they really are looking for. And if someone is honest with you about that on this site - instead of taking it personally, we need to take it as "Thank goodness, this person knows or has a pretty good hunch, we would be Heck together! As to an 18 year old trying to tell a 61 year old about life? They soon will find out in time just how how vunerable and mortal they are. Personally its not worth getting worked up about. I guess my only other comment is: Tolerance is key - people can disagree, that's human nature - People can be opposites but still show compassion & empathy. By the way EMT- followed your Matching thread.... You are one selfless woman! P.win Okay- opened my mouth, let it flow, Now I have to get back to work! Peace all!
12/15/2007 4:48:28 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
emt854 Appleton, WI age: 53	to be honest about her,,, she has helped me some, but then,, she can cut pretty deep too, maybe she doesn't remember how it felt before she found her hubby....... To address that comment Mikey..I was happy and content living alone..thats probably why Bill came into my life..to mess things up Thank you pwin, [Edited 12/15/2007 4:48:47 AM]
12/15/2007 8:07:04 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
writerman57 Jacksonville, FL age: 57	OKAY pwin, I am going to nominate you as philosopher in chief, you always give very thoughtful, articulate and reasoned responses that always bring out the WOW from the reader. Some man will be EXTREMELY LUCKY TO GET YOU. You blow me away woman.
12/15/2007 8:18:53 AM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
bamarose Sterrett, AL age: 38	I can't judge other people. I've made so many mistakes myself, I hope others can be as forgiving of mine as I try to be of theirs.
12/15/2007 2:07:53 PM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
kenj45159 New Vienna, OH age: 48	When people pass judgement on other people. I wonder if they are just trying to draw attention away from their own faults.
12/15/2007 2:28:15 PM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
johnmod Gardendale, TX age: 61	emt is our dr. loria
12/15/2007 2:39:49 PM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
superjelly Cumberland, KY age: 29	i agree if people would just let people live there own lives and stop thinking there in the position to judge people when they only know half or little about what there talking about we would be better off mind your own buissenes people i do it isnt that hard you can still have fun okay im gonna get it for saying that but i dont care it is true [Edited 12/15/2007 2:46:21 PM]
12/15/2007 4:37:19 PM	What gives some people the right, to judge others ???
darthlaidher Knoxville, TN age: 25	hell people judge me sometimes on here just because of my screen name, its usually people that don't know me that judges me by it which is really lame. but also theres alot of people out there that think they are better than you or me just because they have money or looks.. well you enter this world with nothing and you're gonna leave with world with nothing and looks hell in 20 or 30 yrs from now those looks are gonna disappear so yeah they need to get over themselfs and stop acting like they are better than everyone else.

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