| 12/13/2007 11:31:22 PM |
What gives some people the right, to judge others ??? |
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mikey_1946
Neenah, WI
age: 61
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There are some people out here, that get off judging others.
Question to all ? Do you know these people that your judging? Or have you taken the time to realy talk to them?
There are some out here that are calling me a complainer,, maybe I am on some things,, but do you know me? I have put somethings in my profile, but thats not all of me..
Take time to get to know the person, before you start to judge them, if not, then just don't say anything..
YOU JUST MIGHT BE SURPRISED
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| 12/13/2007 11:52:40 PM |
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naughtynikki
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 18
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I know what you mean. I get judged ALL THE TIME by people who think they know me and know what is best for me. I had some guy email me on here giving his much un-needed 2cents in a couple days ago.
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| 12/14/2007 12:48:27 AM |
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neodiminium
Waimanalo, HI
age: 51
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A 61 year old man and an 18 year old woman who understands the concerns that others are so easy with passing judgement.
A 61 year old ,no matter who you are has seen sights and experienced life younger people can't even grasp.
An 18 year old is just entering the stage of self awareness ,maturing within the realities of the world she lives.
Todays society instills permission to criticize others behavior and lifestyle .
Plato and Milton thousands of years ago ,Ann Landers and Phil Donahue recently and today , Doctor Phil , Ohpra Winfree and Jerry Springer have given new meaning to the so called expert opinion to critique the lives of others.
A 61 year old has a right to complain.The views of an elder can be a tool of learning for the younger . An 18 year old has a right to make mistake(s) and learn to be wiser.
People who pass judgement : Some seek to help and give assistance .Others are misguided and would rather deal with "criticize" the lives of others than deal with their own inadequacy.
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| 12/14/2007 12:57:17 AM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27 online now!
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are you complaining??
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| 12/14/2007 1:02:03 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Mike I know your referring to me. Let me clarify a few things.
I had offered my friendship, Ideas to help you get out and meet people, I have matched you up and you find excuses for everything. Your not happy unless your miserable, I tried, but I cant deal with your negativity nor whinning.
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| 12/14/2007 1:30:54 AM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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No one but no one had the right to judge anyone for anything. Only God had the right to judge for in the end it's his judgement and only his that counts. If we could learn not to judge other and put ourselves in their shoes for a day think how much better this world would be how much more understanding we could be toward our fellow man than maybe this world would finally get some of the peace that everyone wants so badly. First however we need to love ourselves and others and judge them for what the do or say but love them for who they are.
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| 12/14/2007 2:35:07 AM |
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lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
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truegrace this thread has nothing to do with a god.trying to impose your religon on people.
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| 12/14/2007 2:47:18 AM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27 online now!
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nothing wrong with judging......is it not ok to say a murderer or rapist is scum that doesnt deserve to exist??....some ppl will say they dont judge, but they would be telling a lie..we all judge, even you religious freaks have to judge something....
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| 12/14/2007 2:53:39 AM |
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leahmarie
Aston, PA
age: 59
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neo..... I cut/pasted part of your response
People who pass judgement : Some seek to help and give assistance .Others are misguided and would rather deal with "criticize" the lives of others than deal with their own inadequacy.
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| 12/14/2007 3:01:56 AM |
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blueyedsinger
Yuma, AZ
age: 45
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I agree with daddy. We all do judge people in one way or another. How many of us have not returned an email just because of the way the person looked. We could have missed out on becoming friends with a wonderful person. How many out there can say they never think bad thoughts when they see a morbidly obese person especially if they are eating something really fattening. How many get leary when walking down the street and a black, hispanic or a person covered in tattoos comes walking up to you. Everyone of us is guilty of judging other people. We are flawed. That's what makes us human.
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| 12/14/2007 3:32:16 AM |
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michiganfarmer
Kingsley, MI
age: 38
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are you complaining??
I think his delicate feelings were hurt, and he needs a tissue.
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| 12/14/2007 3:37:48 AM |
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michiganfarmer
Kingsley, MI
age: 38
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I was raised in an environment where apathy, and/or a lazy mind, and body could cost me my shelter, or even the food on my table. That and spending 4 years in the marine corps has me wound a little tighter than some people.
I find myself judging people when I see laziness, and apathy.
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| 12/14/2007 4:04:28 AM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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We all percieve things differently. Where one person can handle lonliness another might find it devastating. You were a terrific friend Mikey. Cancer is hard to deal with, let alone taking care of that person. Anyway I don't think you were complaining...we all have things to deal with, some just handle it different. I hope you do find that perfect lady for you.
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| 12/14/2007 7:01:44 AM |
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peregrina
Lumberton, NC
age: 51
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I rase that question all the time myself. One thing I learn in DH, is keeping my private things private. We are all human and prone to mistakes. Most just sit there waiting for some reason to put down another person. I'm not saying in this case. Don't take me wrong, there is a lot of wonderfull and compassionate people in here. But like in every family there is dysfunction somewhere. We forget we are different and differences are hardly accepted, we have issues dealing with it, so most time we just jump right in front of someone's face because he did this and that and we don't approve of it, we think we don't act like that, and this goes for me too. After all we are human.
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| 12/14/2007 7:04:25 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Per but if someone tries to help another and they reject the help does that give them the right to continue to complain about their problem?
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