| 9/21/2009 1:51:17 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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frankdr
Liverpool, NY
age: 37
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I've had this crush on my good friends sister for awilhe.She is recently single and i told her how i felt.i've known her for along time and real close with the whole family.Since i said what i did the texting and chatting is not the same.I still have these feelings and i think there may be something but don't want to add any pressure.So i'm asking for a little advice.
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| 9/21/2009 1:56:35 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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mushuukyou
Redondo Beach, CA
age: 37
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Ok um, you've said that you've told her how you feel.
What was her response from that?
You didn't tell us. Since you omitted that crucial information, we are incapable of even attempting any logically progressive advice for you to abide by.
Please include:
1. The setting and dialogue of the conversation you've had with her about this (including her responses, of course).
2. What happened immediately after that, starting with the first dialogue after that meeting.
3. What has happened up until now, insofar as your interactions with her (just a brief synopsis will do).
Until we get this information, we can only give you very generic advice which may or may not help you. With more information, some can tailor-make you some good advice which could have a higher percentage of success.
Thank you.
Edit to add: To answer the subject line question; Yes, it's ok, so long as you have good intentions and you "click" with her. If you want to just bang and play with chicks, save it for those sisters of guys you DON'T know.  (I'm sure that's not your intention with her, but I just wanted to better answer that question)
[Edited 9/21/2009 2:00:52 AM ]
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| 9/21/2009 2:11:33 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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pablo_cruz
Chicago, IL
age: 41
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I was going to say the same thing. If your intentions are serious and long term, I say yes, it's ok. If you just want to get in her pants, don't do it. Put yourself in his shoes.
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| 9/21/2009 3:21:18 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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justin762
Inola, OK
age: 22
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ya i agree if ur serious about being with her then there shouldnt b a problem just depends on the guy, if u just want a lay then don't do it unless u wanna lose a friend. I personally dont even think of dating any of my friends sisters because its an unspoken rule within my friends that sisters and ex's are off limits, just keeping our love lives completely separate from our friendship
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| 9/21/2009 3:29:11 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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joshypoo9
Las Vegas, NV
age: 39
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If she's hot, why not?
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| 9/21/2009 3:55:39 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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cinisky
Ft Mitchell, KY
age: 49
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| 9/21/2009 4:34:39 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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outback2451
Rochester, NY
age: 59
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talk to your friend and get his opinions. tell him your intentions are honorable but that his friendship is very important. if he objects guess I wouldnt do it. be honorable about it all. you will feel better over the long haul and altho you like the girl there are many other nice girls without the complications.
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| 9/21/2009 5:06:17 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 38
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I agree that it's ok if your intentions are real.
I bet she must consider her brother a good guy who
hangs around other good guys..so you must realize
that you have to honor both your friend and his sister
by being honest.
The great thing about this...if you all work out
you'll know that you'd have the best brother in law
you could ask for.
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| 9/21/2009 5:28:42 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 50
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Not only is it okay to date your friends sister but it makes a hell of a lot more sense than dating some stranger you meet on the internet. BUT if you are player, don't do it, blood is always thicker than water.
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| 9/21/2009 5:30:48 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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insulting
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Ask yourself if you would mind should the roles be reversed, if the answer is 'Yes you would mind'...go ahead and do it anyway so you can laugh at your mate.
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| 9/21/2009 5:38:40 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 56
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Anyone who would "do" my sister, would not be allowed in public without a flea collar
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| 9/21/2009 6:32:51 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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beachingirl
Stone Harbor, NJ
age: 53
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Anyone who would "do" my sister, would not be allowed in public without a flea collar
Kinky, you made me spit my morning coffee!!!
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| 9/23/2009 4:25:22 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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heyyyyyyyyyyyyy
East Orange, NJ
age: 20
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hey
well i think that you have to talk to your friend and tell him that you like his sister and u want to talk to her. but if he say no than u can not do it. and if he say yes than u have to do her good. bec that is your good friend sister and what u do to her he will know. so i hope it work out
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| 9/23/2009 5:15:04 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 91
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Ask her out directly...or move on.
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| 9/23/2009 5:32:44 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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tater2009
Evansville, IN
age: 39
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I would date my friends sister if we had chemistry.
Alot of variables here to consider.
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| 9/23/2009 5:55:46 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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surrealone
Overland Park, KS
age: 40
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While not required, it's sort of written in 'the guy code' that you should be the one to tell your friend you dig his sister. It's better that he hear it from you, than her, and that he hear directly from you that you have honorable intentions.
That caveat aside, there's no reason you shouldn't date her. Nothing like having a close friend as a brother-in-law, you know? And who knows, it could go there...
-- SR1
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| 9/24/2009 11:43:08 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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frankdr
Liverpool, NY
age: 37
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thanks for all the advice since i told her we haven't spoken much and when i ran into her at her family get together it was akward didn't say hi but apologized the next day and she said that it was ok i really do like her my feelings are true we used to text back and forth a lot but not anymore she's a yankee fan i'm a boston fan i'd make her laugh but since i told her all of that has gone so i.m a little lost right now.once again thanks for all the advice
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| 9/24/2009 12:31:23 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 47
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Ask your friend to hook you up with his sister.
If he says yes, it's all cool and you have a good friend.
If he says no, then you have to figure out if he's trying to protect you from his sister or if he thinks you're not good enough for her.
Whatever he says, just ask her out directly and you'll know what she thinks of you.
You'll never hit the ball if you don't take the chance and swing.
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| 9/24/2009 1:20:35 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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librajason
Towanda, KS
age: 35
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My good friends sister's too damn horrible lookin' to even think about it
(I know that sounds shallow, but that chick's so ugly it'd even make Ray Charles flinch!)
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| 9/24/2009 1:45:12 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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beachingirl
Stone Harbor, NJ
age: 53
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My good friends sister's to damn horrible lookin' to even think about it
(I know that sounds shallow, but that chick's so ugly it'd even make Ray Charles flinch!)
 Good one Jason!
OP - I guess it's ok as long as she isn't your second cousin  That thread is still going and going and going and going
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| 9/24/2009 3:33:31 PM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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savriverman
Savannah, GA
age: 29
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My sister and I have an understanding. I don't date her friends, and vice versa. All my friends know not to approach my sister in that way. Maybe if she was older, it would be a little different, but since she's my kid sister, thats just how I am about it.
If your friend can kick your a$$, I would look for other women to have crushes on. Cause you know something is going to go south at some point, and who you think the sister is going to go crying to?
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| 9/26/2009 10:23:59 AM |
Is it ok to date your good friends sister. |
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darklady09
San Jose, CA
age: 54
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What if it ends badly? Where does that leave you with your good buddy if you hurt his sister?
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