| 12/16/2007 6:20:19 PM |
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tnhartbroken
Maynardville, TN
age: 47 online now!
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ran into my ex today even thole she treated me like a dog set off on the side of the road hoping that it does not come back. i still feel like my life is over with out her being with me do you know want i mean? 
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| 12/16/2007 6:48:41 PM |
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waitingforyou11
Manistique, MI
age: 46
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Yes I feel the same way. Don't want her back but having atough time without her.
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| 12/16/2007 6:55:20 PM |
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njlady920
Bridgeton, NJ
age: 45
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Everyone feels that way at first , move on an find someone new you feelings will go away soon enough..
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| 12/16/2007 6:57:23 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53 online now!
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Its hard at first..we all have been through it but the best advice I can offer is find something that you enjoy doing and do it a lot..a hobby or interest of some kind. They busier you are the better and you will meet some great people along the way.
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| 12/16/2007 6:59:53 PM |
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waitingforyou11
Manistique, MI
age: 46
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Thanks for the advice.
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| 12/16/2007 7:08:41 PM |
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tnhartbroken
Maynardville, TN
age: 47 online now!
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dont really know if i want her back or not i know she will do the same thing again one a cheater you know but it took a lot to let her into my heart and dont know where to turn alot of other things going on in my life right now didnt need this i want to give up alot of times but try to keep occupied haven't met anyone locally to try to get my mind off her
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| 12/16/2007 7:13:17 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53 online now!
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Dont rush into trying to replace her with someone else..that would be a rebound relationship and they never work and you will be setting yourself up to get hurt again.
take time to know you and to learn to love YOU, its the only way if you are ever going to have a healthy relationship.
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| 12/17/2007 8:35:22 AM |
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kitty123
Shreveport, LA
age: 39
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You know dude you always want them back until they come back then you realize why you
left that person in the 1st place. what would you rather do hurt and get over it eventually or keep hurting over and over again. cause that will happen if you take that
person back you are going to keep going over and over the same ol shi!!!!!! like my grandmother used to say keep sticking your hand over that fire you gone get burned every time.
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| 12/17/2007 8:57:01 AM |
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knight_1
Clay, KY
age: 48
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hey dude you do not want her back i promiss you ive done that and it never works if they leave you or you leave thats it i know it hurts but stay busy in something and you finally get over her ive been married once and lived with two others and all of them left me and after a time wanted me back and still do i played that game for a while with them and it never works and some people can never make up their mind what they really want  anyway take care dude and you will be fine soon
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| 12/17/2007 9:02:28 AM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27 online now!
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yep...just need some new pink
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| 12/17/2007 9:05:42 AM |
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duane22
Winter Garden, FL
age: 23
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stay away 
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| 12/17/2007 10:58:40 AM |
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annazandra
Palm Coast, FL
age: 58 online now!
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Well I have learned a lot about relationships over my years and having three sons and one daughter I have had to deal with heart break on both sides. So hope no body kicks me off here. The truth that women don't know about men and that men don't know about women is this; men don't fall in love as fast as women do it takes them time to realize how much they care for a woman. On the other side of it; women invest a lot of emotion in a man and get hurt deeply when they are not treated right but bounce back faster. Men not only take a while to fall in love but it is hard for them to turn it loose when they do. Some of them don't ever get over it. Now please don't judge me and say I am a know it all because I'm not. While women hold on to the hurt and take it out on other men, men hold on to the love and take it out one other women. I am not afraid of criticism so it is OK if you feel like I am wrong.
Anna
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| 12/17/2007 11:00:54 AM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49 online now!
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Will never take them back, not even entertain the idea. If i were to run into her, I would say hello and go on...
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| 12/17/2007 11:07:45 AM |
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ellezia
Crescent City, CA
age: 25 online now!
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You don't want to take her back. There is a reason the relationship went south. Everyone seems to hit a point here or there where they want something back from a relationship.. its just bad juju. Keep busy and take a lot of time for yourself. Get comfortable with being alone again and then start looking for just good friends and let everything else just happen. The wanting them back fades in time so just give it time.
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| 12/17/2007 7:43:04 PM |
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tnhartbroken
Maynardville, TN
age: 47 online now!
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thanks to all for your support its good to know there are good people out there again thanks i will try to keep my head up at least till i see her again cant say want will happen then THANKS TO ALL OF YOU
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