12/19/2007 6:05:26 PM |
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tubachef
Canon City, CO
age: 26
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HA!!!, You know i'm only 25, IT HAPPENS..... be patient, In all honesty he probably was either A.. Nervous or B.. Recently "cleaned the pipes" and no amount of will power if your not a quick rebounder is going to change that.
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12/19/2007 7:05:51 PM |
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bassman1959
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 49
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There good be a lot of reasons. Financial stress is a real big one. If he is a responsible guy and use to paying his bills on time...all of a sudden he runs in to trouble. I've been there. Believe it or not....not ALL men want to breed all the time. Heck, it took me two years after my divorce before I was even interested. Just give him time....be understanding and it will happen.
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12/19/2007 10:51:22 PM |
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potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
age: 41
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it was your beauty peacekeeper, it just made him limp. It happens.
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12/19/2007 11:00:02 PM |
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stroker111
Troy, AL
age: 48
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The man could be tired, stressed out, in love with someone else, or in need of a pill. or gay
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12/19/2007 11:01:29 PM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
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just slap it on her forhead for 5 or 10 minutes.
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12/19/2007 11:06:30 PM |
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ellezia
Crescent City, CA
age: 25
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Maybe he has ED and needs something but Stress is a BIG problem for some guys.
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12/20/2007 9:54:41 AM |
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brad1950
Correctionville, IA
age: 58
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POOR CIRCULATION
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12/20/2007 1:29:56 PM |
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writerman57
Jacksonville, FL
age: 58
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There is also a couple of other reasons. He could be suffering from diabetes which can kill his erection, he can be suffering from low testosterone which will cause it. Ask him has it been an ongoing problem. There is some reassurance here. You can still have a satisfactory sex life with him by him giving you oral an you doing the same. Listen go online and look up the Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator. It is the industrial strength power tool of vibrators. You will not believe how powerful it is. You can get him off even with a limp d*ck by placing at the base of his d*ck just abouve his balls and pressing the bulb down firmly against his d*ck and turn it on high. It helps if you are simultaneously sucking on his d*ck but is not necessary. It will get him off in under five minutes even with a limp d*ck.
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12/20/2007 7:33:14 PM |
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mazak650
Tulsa, OK
age: 50
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main thing is to talk about it. see if maybe the two of you can create a relaxing time. dont let him think about it and he will probaly get hard. really as he licks you to a frinzzy he will become rock hard and ready.
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12/21/2007 12:20:31 AM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
age: 44
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Sounds like he made the whole sex thing pointless
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12/21/2007 3:46:06 AM |
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schwilly
San Luis Obispo, CA
age: 23
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was his name in the Mitchell Report?
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12/22/2007 11:10:13 PM |
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rfc1394
Sterling, VA
age: 47
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What does it mean when a man can't get an erection? Does it mean he is gay/bisexual?
No more than it means a woman who has trouble lubricating is lesbian.
Let's think about this for a moment. A guy can rape a woman, e.g. stick it in her when she's not ready or doesn't want it or is unconsious. All that is required is for him to have an erection and her to be accessible.
If a guy can get a woman he knows to let him have sex with her even if she's not really interested or isn't ready, probably by just making sure to use enough lube so that it doesn't hurt. All that is required is for him to have an erection and her to be available.
If a guy meets a woman who is just as interested in him as he is in her, they will have sex and it's possible that both of them will have a marvelous time. All that is required is for him to have an erection and her to be ready.
In all of these cases, whether the woman is ready, able or willing is irrelevant, if a guy has an erection he can conceivably stick it in her, whether or not she wants him to; but if the man can't get an erection, nothing happens. (I'm only referring to a man using a penis on a woman, not to incidents of object violation.)
An erection is a complicated system in which certain muscles at the base of the penis constrict, causing the blood flow out of the penis to be stopped or drastically reduced. And, with any inflatable object, if you push something into it faster than it escapes, it expands or inflates. A balloon gets bigger when you blow air into it and restrict the ability of the air to escape. A penis becomes erect and the man has an erection when blood flows into it and his body restricts the ability of the blood to escape. If for some reason, the constrictors relax, the blood empties out and the erection fails.
And male erections fail for lots of reasons.
Age: As a man gets older it's harder to get one.
Illness: Diabetes and a number of other diseases can make erections difficult or even impossible.
Disability: Injury can cause the penis to fail to receive the signals to tell it to become erect.
Psychological problems: Fear, uncertainty and doubt can cause the brain to fail to tell the penis to become erect.
Erectile dyfunction drugs - and I'm sure we've all gotten spam ads for them in e-mail - can help in some cases, as long as the man is aware of why he's using them and not covering up some other more serious problem.
So no, failing or incapacity to have an erection has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the man who owns that particular penis.
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12/22/2007 11:17:20 PM |
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iwillpleaseu
Longmont, CO
age: 45
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I`ve never had that problem (knock on woody)
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12/26/2007 2:22:38 PM |
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firefighter41
Ridgway, PA
age: 32
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Any guy who can't get it up over you REALLY DOES have something wrong with him
but yes others are right , could be anything
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12/26/2007 2:28:11 PM |
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mrlaw10
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
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no he just needs alitttle helping hand
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