10/10/2009 11:32:00 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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Should a woman ask a man to marry them and how long do you think a couple should date before being asked the big...WILL YOU MARRY ME.
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10/10/2009 11:41:17 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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i guess everyone is against it....LOL
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10/11/2009 12:07:08 AM |
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dghorn
Assiniboia, SK
age: 47
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Yes they should ,there is nothing wrong with it ,I think it would be nice to be asked .It lets you know that she loves you that much to want you forever.
WAY COOL
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10/11/2009 12:58:38 AM |
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redman69331
Angora, NE
age: 53
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2 months if it feels right from the beginning
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10/11/2009 1:13:06 AM |
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izzystradlian12
Tupelo, MS
age: 34
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i don't see what is wrong with a woman asking a man to marry her. i think u should date for as long as u want to before u ask the big question
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10/11/2009 3:50:44 AM |
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rondag
Mount Orab, OH
age: 47
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Not in my life time!!
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10/11/2009 3:56:29 AM |
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darklady09
Bloomington, IN
age: 54 online now!
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I've never been moved to do the asking. I'd have to feel he wanted me enough to want to do it. Old fashioned I guess. Then again, never say never.
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10/11/2009 3:57:50 AM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 56
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All for it. Begging is even better. Bribary the best.
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10/11/2009 4:05:43 AM |
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tichobar
Sarasota, FL
age: 36
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Let's face it, if a man wants to be married he'll ask.
If she has to ask - he doesn't want to.
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10/11/2009 5:05:23 AM |
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outback2451
Rochester, NY
age: 60
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like with anything.. it would be dependent on that realtionship no hard and fast rule as to when. I personally would not... at least I dont think so.. but there may be a time to fish or cut bait.. as in.. darling we have been dating for 10 years.. is there a ring in this picture??
seriously tho I do think there are points along the way to ask for a reality check.
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10/11/2009 5:08:54 AM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 56
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And the sad part, fifer is that they wanted you for sex because they thought they couldn't get it from you, me they know they can get it from and don't want it. Go figure?
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10/11/2009 5:14:43 AM |
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caky1
Walton, KY
age: 50
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Should a woman ask a man to marry them and how long do you think a couple should date before being asked the big...WILL YOU MARRY ME.
Sure why not ? In the meantime, I would hope that at a certain age a couple would automatically know that it was meant to be.
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10/11/2009 5:32:32 AM |
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libra115
Warren, MI
age: 64
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Because I am very open and honest about NOT wanting to get married again, I'm sure I would have to do the asking if I ever change my mind.
But.......never say never.
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10/11/2009 5:40:47 AM |
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spider77
Adamsville, AL
age: 59
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5 million years!
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10/11/2009 6:27:53 AM |
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basilguy
Hedgesville, WV
age: 53
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Women fought for equality for many years. So why is it that the man has to do the asking. I personally dont have a problem with this. Actually I'd love it! How long, I think thats up to the people involved. I know several very successful marriages that they were not together for very long before they realized they wanted this.
Now if your going to ask me to marry you, first you bring the wine and flowers. Make the setting right, then pop the question but make sure I'm sitting down please.
...DJ
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10/11/2009 6:28:30 AM |
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wildbluemist
Battle Mountain, NV
age: 49
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Should a woman ask a man to marry them and how long do you think a couple should date before being asked the big...WILL YOU MARRY ME. How about when she says:I'm pregnant and what are you going to do about it.Your response should be um what was your name again and do I know you?
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10/11/2009 8:30:36 AM |
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ladybugbp
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 52
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Let's face it, if a man wants to be married he'll ask.
If she has to ask - he doesn't want to.
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10/11/2009 8:48:02 AM |
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oceandive
Atlanta, GA
age: 54
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And the sad part, fifer is that they wanted you for sex because they thought they couldn't get it from you, me they know they can get it from and don't want it. Go figure?
so says you....
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10/11/2009 8:50:23 AM |
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riverwatch49
Loganville, GA
age: 64
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Been married 3 times, I asked twice, she asked once. I don't have a problem with a woman proposing, but in my personal case, the length of time would have to be at least after hell froze over and the devils went ice skating.
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10/11/2009 8:53:54 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 63
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i have had two proposals of marriage from women - both freaked the livin daylights outta me!
Now that's funny!!!
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10/11/2009 11:49:46 AM |
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the7thkey
Jacksonville, FL
age: 28
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I don't have a problem with it, but I personally would not marry a woman who asks me to marry her, something just doesn't sit well with me on that front.
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10/11/2009 2:33:21 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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well, in my case I have only known him 2 months and we have so much in common that it is not even funny. We sat down one night and ask eachother questions on our favorites things to compare them with eachothers answers and believe it or not they were the same for 98% of the answers. He said it was awesome that we liked the same things. When I first met him i looked in his eyes and something told me that he was the one...at this point we didnt even know but eachothers names. It was a gut feeling I had. Since that first day we have yet to argue or disagree on anything. We both are so much alike that it scares me to some point but when i think about it, it just makes me feel so happy cuz this is actually what I have been praying for. I may pop the question on April 1, 2010. I think this would be fun. Ya know...spend the day togeather playing april fools jokes on one another and then popping the question to him. I want him to think thats im playing around with him at first but when he sees that his family is standing around watching every move i make i feel that he will say yes....
What do yall think.
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10/11/2009 2:55:20 PM |
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victor_fury
Albany, GA
age: 59
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Yes, I would.
She takes my out for dinner and dance. The waiter brings over a small box and places it in front of me.
What is this, I'll ask. I open it as I'm told.
I'm thinking, it better be a pair of cuff links because I'm not wearing an engagement ring.
She gets on her knee beside me.
I'll stop her before she can pop the question.
Listen honey, if any body's going to do the groveling in our relationship, it ought to be me.
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10/11/2009 3:02:37 PM |
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dinkasu48
Henderson, TX
age: 50
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no
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10/11/2009 4:56:53 PM |
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shelli63
Greenbrier, AR
age: 48
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i personally am old fashioned that way and many ways i would not propose to a man....nope'''thier are certain things a man should do thats at the top of the list
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10/11/2009 5:34:54 PM |
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tonyalasagna
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 37
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I guess you can say I asked my exhusband to marry me.
He then asked me to marry him at least 100 times before the wedding. It was sweet.
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10/11/2009 5:35:24 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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Yes, I would.
She takes my out for dinner and dance. The waiter brings over a small box and places it in front of me.
What is this, I'll ask. I open it as I'm told.
I'm thinking, it better be a pair of cuff links because I'm not wearing an engagement ring.
She gets on her knee beside me.
I'll stop her before she can pop the question.
Listen honey, if any body's going to do the groveling in our relationship, it ought to be me.
I like this....
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10/11/2009 6:06:04 PM |
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cowboyupphx
Prescott, AZ
age: 45
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Sure a women could and can ask...but what that saying (a lawer better know the anser - in court before he ask - or some shit like that) but would wait a extra month or so - get over the all lo-vie doveee stage?
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10/11/2009 6:19:48 PM |
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prettysmiles750
New York, NY
age: 42
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well, in my case I have only known him 2 months and we have so much in common that it is not even funny. We sat down one night and ask eachother questions on our favorites things to compare them with eachothers answers and believe it or not they were the same for 98% of the answers. He said it was awesome that we liked the same things. When I first met him i looked in his eyes and something told me that he was the one...at this point we didnt even know but eachothers names. It was a gut feeling I had. Since that first day we have yet to argue or disagree on anything. We both are so much alike that it scares me to some point but when i think about it, it just makes me feel so happy cuz this is actually what I have been praying for. I may pop the question on April 1, 2010. I think this would be fun. Ya know...spend the day togeather playing april fools jokes on one another and then popping the question to him. I want him to think thats im playing around with him at first but when he sees that his family is standing around watching every move i make i feel that he will say yes....
What do yall think.
I don't think you know each other well enough to decide. Have you even discussed if you were both open to getting married to each other?
Not knowing you sense of humor, will he think you are joking? What if he returns back with the wrong answer?
Give it some more time.
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10/11/2009 6:30:21 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 46 online now!
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Quote from the7thkey: I don't have a problem with it, but I personally would not marry a woman who asks me to marry her, something just doesn't sit well with me on that front.
So then, you really DO have a problem with it.
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10/11/2009 6:35:08 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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We have discussed getting married. His views again....they are just like mine.
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10/11/2009 6:35:34 PM |
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polefrog
Harriman, TN
age: 54
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Only if you are prepared for him to say no....That is one of the options!!!!
We deal with it...
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10/11/2009 6:37:04 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 46 online now!
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Okay, I'll throw it out there. Who wants to marry me?
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10/11/2009 7:19:09 PM |
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bigbazborn
Red Wing, MN
age: 46
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I get asked every day . . . women from China, Russia, India, and ESPECIALLY the Phillipines!!
The topic comes up long before the proposal. I believe the right one will wait for my proposal, but I will give plenty of clear indicators of my long-term intent in the discussions we have.
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10/11/2009 7:53:59 PM |
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760fun
Victorville, CA
age: 59
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I see nothing wrong with that at all. The rule for men is, if you ask her the first time, and she says no, then you don't ask again, its up to her to ask when she is ready. Anyone know the rule for the ladies ?
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10/11/2009 11:32:39 PM |
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takenbypaul
Huntsville, AL
age: 33
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Nope, I don't know the rule for the ladies but your rule sounds just fine to me.
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10/12/2009 11:34:06 AM |
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puterman47401
Stockbridge, MI
age: 66
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I see nothing wrong with it. My wife asked me to marry her. I did and it was the best decision I ever made. We lived together in love and life for just past our 25th. aniv. when she passed suddenly.
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10/12/2009 1:58:16 PM |
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rinnz
Brattleboro, VT
age: 22
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You can't ask that question of people, the answers will never be the same. My best friend and I argue about time to do things in, but bottom line, what's right for her is not always right for me as well. It depends on the people in the relationship, not everyone else. JMO.
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10/12/2009 2:01:16 PM |
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everexed
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 32
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Depends on who it was.
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10/12/2009 2:17:30 PM |
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basilguy
Hedgesville, WV
age: 53
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We have discussed getting married. His views again....they are just like mine.
This is great, ask him...but no need to do it right away, let the relationship grow based on the fact both of you want to get married. Wish you the best....DJ
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10/12/2009 3:15:41 PM |
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puterman47401
Stockbridge, MI
age: 66
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There is no rule that says must ask the women. Have you not heard, women are now liberated. They can vote, drive cars, burn bras where ya been?
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10/12/2009 3:56:52 PM |
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polefrog
Harriman, TN
age: 54
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Okay, I'll throw it out there. Who wants to marry me? I was going to marry you Wisprs but,
CHATTING DETECTED! CHATTING DETECTED!.... They wouldn't let me!!
Should there be a Marriage Detected device for new lovers??????
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10/12/2009 4:07:23 PM |
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rutheone710
McHenry, IL
age: 39
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I would NEVER ask a man to marry them..Maybe I'm old fasioned but I think the man should still ask that...of course with a big ring...Hell why even get married in the first place..You can be in a commited relationship without the piece of paper.
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10/12/2009 4:14:57 PM |
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sweetn50
Monticello, MN
age: 51
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Yes, I would.
She takes my out for dinner and dance. The waiter brings over a small box and places it in front of me.
What is this, I'll ask. I open it as I'm told.
I'm thinking, it better be a pair of cuff links because I'm not wearing an engagement ring.
She gets on her knee beside me.
I'll stop her before she can pop the question.
Listen honey, if any body's going to do the groveling in our relationship, it ought to be me.
Way to go Victor!!
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10/12/2009 4:31:45 PM |
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crazygroupie
Murrieta, CA
age: 57
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Are you planning on having children? Then why ruin a good relationship?
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10/12/2009 9:22:56 PM |
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gohard2
New South Wales
Australia
age: 49
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I'm all for women asking as they are equeal
so if you love them ask them
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10/12/2009 10:19:01 PM |
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promqun
Lake Havasu City, AZ
age: 62
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Just go for it! Life is too short to stop and think of the what if's.
I asked a gentleman to marry me. He was wrong for me but I felt good
about our relationship. Good enough to ask him to marry me. He had been
married twice and said never again. We are not together now. I would have
made a great wife for him!
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10/12/2009 10:36:21 PM |
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cmrowland
Ingleside, TX
age: 58
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I figure if a guy is marriage minded and thinks that much of me he'll do the asking however, I am not wanting to get married again so, I definitely wouldn't do the asking.
What you do is up to you if, you feel comfortable with it...just be ready for the no as well as the yes. Personally, I think it's a little weird for the woman to do the asking. If the woman is doing the asking it's a red flag in my opinion but, JMO.
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10/12/2009 11:37:12 PM |
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promqun
Lake Havasu City, AZ
age: 62
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My husband died three years ago this month, October. I have tried to move on slowly.
I would love to be married again. I get this conversation, women asking men to marry them. I'm nowhere close to being married again.
I believe I'll leave my life in god's hands. I asked him to send me someone close to my age. He did! But this gentleman isn't the marrying kind. So, I'll just hafta let life run it's course.
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10/13/2009 6:24:38 AM |
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95north
Holbrook, MA
age: 33
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I don't see anything wrong with it. However I doubt many women would directly ask. They will give hints.
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10/13/2009 7:35:12 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 46 online now!
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I don't see anything wrong with it. However I doubt many women would directly ask. They will give hints.
I agree. I don't think it's typical for a woman to ask.
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