12/19/2007 6:12:46 PM |
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bigdaddy86
Carbondale, IL
age: 23
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Could you date someone knowing their best friend was an Ex? Even engaged at one point? Still talked every day and hung out every now and then? Why or why not?
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12/19/2007 6:16:21 PM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 46
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i would have to see them together to know for sure, but i think so . . . after all, i'm still great friends with most of my exes . . .
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12/19/2007 6:17:46 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Would bother me if a friend got together with the trash I threw out. If it didn't work for between my Xs and someone I know who knows the relationship would be better with someone else. Plus they know what I've gone through so I'll have to say to them "I told you sooooo."
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12/19/2007 6:18:32 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Nope...
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12/19/2007 6:19:47 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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i dont do well with exes...might have to work on that   
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12/19/2007 6:20:56 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53 online now!
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I might think they are too much alike...and would share too many stories about me! Nope, think i'd move on!
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12/19/2007 6:22:06 PM |
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bigdaddy86
Carbondale, IL
age: 23
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Ok, I'm sorry for the misunderstanding, I should have been more clear. My question is asking if you could date someone whose best friend was someone that they dated before.
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12/19/2007 6:22:54 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Got it... and the answer is still............... NOPE!
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12/19/2007 6:25:11 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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My Xs are my Xs and it wouldn't bother me what they do ... they are no longer my concern.
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12/19/2007 6:25:33 PM |
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metu
West Harrison, NY
age: 46
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No freakin way! I would NEVER want to sample something that my best friend had! YUK! BLAH!
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12/19/2007 6:25:52 PM |
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boricualady
Henagar, AL
age: 40
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Ok I think he's saying would you date somebody if you knew that their best friend was at one time their fiancee but now they are no longer together however they still hang out, etc. So it all boils down to trust. Personally I wouldn't want to get seriously involved with someone who's best friend was somebody they used to be intimately involved with and in a serious relationship with. I'd feel like eventually they might decide to rekindle their relationship and I'd get kicked to the curb in a heartbeat since they had a history, etc. I mean at one time they loved each other enough to think they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together so thats a pretty strong bond.
~darlene~
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12/19/2007 6:25:55 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53 online now!
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ok...but I think i'd still say NO!
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12/19/2007 6:26:26 PM |
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brnidscorpiox2
Moscow, TN
age: 35
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Been there, done that. Not always a comfortable situation. A lot depends on how much you trust them. Didn't work for me.
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12/19/2007 6:27:14 PM |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
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No, they've got some unfinished business to work out. I'm in the wind, later.
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12/19/2007 7:20:49 PM |
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mandaschubert
Baraboo, WI
age: 21
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yeah of course...if u have faith in the person things like that shouldnt bother you.And if your together then u need that kind of faith! and besides people need there friends and shouldnt have to change who there around because u cant be comfortable. if u cant handle it then u shouldnt be with them. U should always take them as they are friends and all!
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